Have you ever been cyberbullied?

No1Doyen


Joined: 04/07/2008
Posts: 16617

Message Posted:
10/11/2009 12:10

Cyberbullying is when one person or a group of people aim to threaten, tease or embarrass someone else by using a mobile phone, the internet or other technologies.

Even though cyberbullying cannot physically hurt you, it can still leave you feeling mentally vulnerable and very upset. You can also feel scared, lonely and stressed and that there’s no way out.



Has it happened to you?

simbas



Joined: 16/07/2007
Posts: 5943

Message Posted:
10/11/2009 12:51

Good morning Bill . Yep , on this board unfortunately

Have a good day , Pat

exnavalperson


Joined: 22/07/2009
Posts: 224

Message Posted:
10/11/2009 13:17

So have I. Also on this board, but he did not get very far!

dizzycows


Joined: 12/05/2009
Posts: 2736

Message Posted:
10/11/2009 13:29

Simbas, so sorry to hear that even you have been bullied on here,



all the best and 'nil desparantum car borun dum' xx

baldeagle


Joined: 04/02/2009
Posts: 354

Message Posted:
10/11/2009 13:36

Yep on another board, but he didn't realise i knew where his holiday home was and as the saying goes he s##t himself when i confronted him, he was just a typical bully who didn't know how to fight back once threatened. He actually wet himself he was so scared!

the butler


Joined: 22/06/2007
Posts: 1958

Message Posted:
10/11/2009 13:43

Hi all,



Yes I have had a threatening email to my private email address from a female who regularly posts on this board.





The butlers wife

dizzycows


Joined: 12/05/2009
Posts: 2736

Message Posted:
10/11/2009 14:04

Well thats pretty poor 'the butler' and down right nasty, think I know who you are refering to as I had a couple on here wanting my email put up just so they could carry on with their threats!!!!

With you comming out and actually saying that you had emails from this type of person goes to confirm my suspicions, but I am glad you carry on posting, dont let them rule. lol



Baldeagle, we to will be confronting, just to clear the air!!

Pipie


Joined: 05/01/2008
Posts: 5499

Message Posted:
10/11/2009 14:10

Yes I have my name mentioned almost all the time on Glencoe forum. Cannot defend myself as my replies are not shown as they were written . Mmmmmmmmmm say's it all really .



Saddo's really !! but what i always say is this what goes round comes around .



Nice to have the chance to comment. but do not intend to comment again as quite frankly these folk are not worth it !!! Have a good day everyone .

dizzycows


Joined: 12/05/2009
Posts: 2736

Message Posted:
10/11/2009 14:23

Pipie, never heard of this forum, is it NC one? and do you have a link that we can go onto it please, sorry to hear of your bully boys on that forum, lol :0

the butler


Joined: 22/06/2007
Posts: 1958

Message Posted:
10/11/2009 14:29

Sorry Pipie I don't want an arguement with you and please don't threaten me on my private email address again but I think it is time people knew how vindictive you can be. As for the Glencoe site it is a case of the kettle calling the frying pan black.







The butlers wife

dizzycows


Joined: 12/05/2009
Posts: 2736

Message Posted:
10/11/2009 14:36

Sorry baldeagle, just reread my post!! its not you who we will be confronting, sorry, its the cyber bullies! lolx

britvic



Joined: 05/09/2008
Posts: 3039

Message Posted:
10/11/2009 14:40

Bill, What have you started! Unfortunately I once put my email address on here, (gmail) and got some pretty offensive stuff, started off very pleasant but, when I didn't reply it turned really nasty and offensive, personal even.

I just closed the account down.



Vicki

Pipie


Joined: 05/01/2008
Posts: 5499

Message Posted:
10/11/2009 14:50

The butler

This is the E-mail i sent you



Hi Bultler .

I will just be E-mailing you on this one occasion as you have shown so much interest in my affairs, this is just to say i have receipts to say that i paid 6 months maintenance on the one development that we own on , and that was on the proviso that all would be in situ within the six months , this did not occur and we have evidence to prove this .



I am NOT and i repeat NOT a non payer as on the other site on which we own i have always paid in advance as we have all in situ and have no problems as all is up and running .



I suggest as you show so much interest and have made snide remarks you look at this site where we paid 6 months out of the 12 and see for yourself the state it is in .



I do not normally retaliate in a private E-mail as i have better things to do with my time but unfortunately you need to know the facts before you spout your mouth off .



Pipie .

Pipie


Joined: 05/01/2008
Posts: 5499

Message Posted:
10/11/2009 14:52

con/t



Now I will leave to other people to decide if that was a threatening E-mail .

in my book it was not !!!

dizzycows


Joined: 12/05/2009
Posts: 2736

Message Posted:
10/11/2009 14:52

Think its hats off to Bill for putting this thread up! Lets hope those that have been nasty enough to write private emails get what they deserve in real life. Hey Britvic, you ok gal, lolxx



A private email address should be private, simples.

Pipie


Joined: 05/01/2008
Posts: 5499

Message Posted:
10/11/2009 14:57

Getting back on thread i think the post was who has been threatened teased or embarrassed .

the butler


Joined: 22/06/2007
Posts: 1958

Message Posted:
10/11/2009 15:24

Pipie,



You think the email you sent and have kindly put on the forum was not bullying and threatening in any way?

I joined in a discussion on an open forum for anyone to give their views, which I did. Because you did not agree with those views does not give you or anyone else the right to send me private emails. I am one of the founder members of this forum and I would never dream of sending a threatening email to anyone on their private address. I think that this should be one of the rules of the forum and I ask that one of the moderators closes this thread before it gets out of hand. I will not post on this thread again as I have said all I need to say.





The butlers wife

Tiggy


Joined: 25/07/2007
Posts: 1994

Message Posted:
10/11/2009 15:35

Now Now........



How else do you deal with a problem if you do not want it aired on the 44 forum.



You can advise the person of how you feel but do not be threatening or rude. If the person comes back again then do one of two things. Do not open anymore, or in my case I would put it on the 44 forum to show how some idiots can try and bully threaten other people.



alas...the spoken words are much better that the written ones. Easy to misunderstand and get out of hand.

Pipie


Joined: 05/01/2008
Posts: 5499

Message Posted:
10/11/2009 15:44

Butler.

You chose to openly accuse me of wrong doings and i openly answered by posying proof of the E-mail, you mentioned giving chance for all to make there minds up on your accusations.



I noticed you did not post the pm Email you sent to me !!!



For me it is all in the past but i am pleased that you have brought it in the open, for all to see.



We will have to agree to disagree on this and move on.

Tiggy


Joined: 25/07/2007
Posts: 1994

Message Posted:
10/11/2009 15:54

Nice Olive branch, Pipie.

Pipie


Joined: 05/01/2008
Posts: 5499

Message Posted:
10/11/2009 15:58

Thankyou Tiggy let us see it is it is accepted !!

hattikins


Joined: 17/02/2008
Posts: 2793

Message Posted:
10/11/2009 16:00

Re Message 7

As per usual I expect you are trying to have a dig at either me, Jeannie or DC, just in case it should be me would you please let me know 1. when have I threatened you and B. why would I want to email you, anything I have to say can be said openly on this forum, unlike your good self who goes on to another forum to continue your name calling and trouble making.

My point about email addresses is that if you have nothing to be afraid of then why not publish it, you can always use a free address and you don't have to open emails from people you don't know.

This is the last time I will respond to any of your posts as I find you too stupid for words to describe.

dizzycows


Joined: 12/05/2009
Posts: 2736

Message Posted:
10/11/2009 16:14

Re message 22 I should perhaps put up what wrote then, have asked you many times to not read or answer my postings. So why come on now to try and clear your self, perhaps its you who is too silly for words, go take a good long look at yourself in the mirror, and say 'have I ever cyber bullied'.!

dizzycows


Joined: 12/05/2009
Posts: 2736

Message Posted:
10/11/2009 16:19

Just to update you hattikins, on the other forum no body has name called you, perhaps a certain other member has been discussed by many others and some of us have joined in and agreed.

Have a nice day my dear I know I will lol xx

Hippo


Joined: 02/02/2007
Posts: 2070

Message Posted:
10/11/2009 16:34

Hippo gets bullied by the moderators all the time he does.

dizzycows


Joined: 12/05/2009
Posts: 2736

Message Posted:
10/11/2009 16:46

Aaaaah poor hippo, but we luv ya, truely we do, xx

simbas



Joined: 16/07/2007
Posts: 5943

Message Posted:
10/11/2009 16:48

Hey steady on dizzycows , no need to go that far !

Yellowbelly


Joined: 17/05/2009
Posts: 70

Message Posted:
10/11/2009 17:01

I have never been cyberbullied... however, I sometimes do not reply to posts on this forum because of the abuse that might be hurled in my direction. I always keep my posts polite, even if I do disagree.

dizzycows


Joined: 12/05/2009
Posts: 2736

Message Posted:
10/11/2009 17:37

Yellowbelly its not when you reply its when you post and some dont agree with you!!... Why should you not be able to post your thoughts,... just in case of abuse, thats not democratic is it.



Simbas I just love animals!!!

BillyB


Joined: 19/05/2008
Posts: 436

Message Posted:
10/11/2009 17:49

Everybody bullies me. Most nights I cry myself to sleep. I hate my life :(

DutchCrusader



Joined: 19/05/2008
Posts: 11280

Message Posted:
10/11/2009 18:05

RE msg 22, hattikins: (...) This is the last time I will respond to any of your posts as I find you too stupid for words to describe. (...)

=> Mrs. hattikins, you are so right , Ignore some members here is the message. It's so satisfying to see how hard they try to make you take the bait!

JohnW


Joined: 23/04/2009
Posts: 601

Message Posted:
10/11/2009 18:13

dizzycows



What has democracy got to do with this?

dizzycows


Joined: 12/05/2009
Posts: 2736

Message Posted:
10/11/2009 18:15

Aaaaaah BillyB, nothings that bad is it, lol xx



DC look forward to meeting you, xx

dizzycows


Joined: 12/05/2009
Posts: 2736

Message Posted:
10/11/2009 18:19

JohnW, If you look at what yellowbelly says that he doesnt post because he is scared of what other posters will say!...... democracy rules for all as they say.....

JohnW


Joined: 23/04/2009
Posts: 601

Message Posted:
10/11/2009 18:21

Clearly, you don't understand the meaning of the word.

clarets



Joined: 08/01/2009
Posts: 752

Message Posted:
10/11/2009 18:23

Yes......Miltiades has tried to bully me on the Cyprus Forum....you know.......the one where foul language interdigitates every sentence and physical threats are commonplace. Sadly for him though.....I dont take too kindly to threats,and let him know in the usual friendly way.My missus found it rather unsavoury though!

dizzycows


Joined: 12/05/2009
Posts: 2736

Message Posted:
10/11/2009 18:58

Oooooh clarets think I will do the same, I remember that nasty bully. Is that why he has a squeeky voice now? lol

hattikins


Joined: 17/02/2008
Posts: 2793

Message Posted:
10/11/2009 19:37

Thanks Dutch, you are right of course, but sometimes couldn't you just **********

Hippo


Joined: 02/02/2007
Posts: 2070

Message Posted:
10/11/2009 19:43

re msg 31



Personal insults is the Sad Crusader censored - probably not

One rule for one ,one rule for another

DutchCrusader



Joined: 19/05/2008
Posts: 11280

Message Posted:
10/11/2009 19:56

RE msg 39, Hoppi: If it's not about his avatar, then it's about me. Grow up, crybaby.

AlsancakJack



Joined: 14/08/2008
Posts: 5762

Message Posted:
10/11/2009 20:04

This thread is asking about who has suffered from cyber bullying. It is not an invitation for members to indulge in cyber bullying so for the usual protagonists give it a rest and if you cannot post on topic then don't post at all.

AJ

SuperMaids



Joined: 29/10/2009
Posts: 196

Message Posted:
10/11/2009 20:05

yes on this board

AlsancakJack



Joined: 14/08/2008
Posts: 5762

Message Posted:
10/11/2009 20:30

Hipps and Dutch

You have e-mail.

No1Doyen


Joined: 04/07/2008
Posts: 16617

Message Posted:
10/11/2009 20:33

Yellowbelly - message 28. Please don't be afraid to post on here, everyone is entitled to his or her opinion.

SuperMaids



Joined: 29/10/2009
Posts: 196

Message Posted:
10/11/2009 20:36

i wonder why people bully on this forum are people just so bored

wynyardman



Joined: 15/12/2007
Posts: 4580

Message Posted:
10/11/2009 20:36

Yes.



wynyardman

SuperMaids



Joined: 29/10/2009
Posts: 196

Message Posted:
10/11/2009 20:38

must be why cant people just be nice to each other

jock1



Joined: 06/01/2008
Posts: 3786

Message Posted:
10/11/2009 20:41

msg.46 yes you want an effes...?

dizzycows


Joined: 12/05/2009
Posts: 2736

Message Posted:
10/11/2009 20:48

Absolutely right No1Doyen,msg 44, do not let the them get to you yellow belly. .....Nil Desparandom car borun dum!



What Wyn? Yes you have been cyber bullied?? or yes to bored people? x

jock1



Joined: 06/01/2008
Posts: 3786

Message Posted:
10/11/2009 20:49

Oh i forgot there is ,1 effin efes.........

No1Doyen


Joined: 04/07/2008
Posts: 16617

Message Posted:
10/11/2009 20:57

Supermaids - message 45. It's not just this forum, it's all forums. Believe me I've seen bullying on forums that you wouldn't believe. This forum is a Teddy Bears picnic compared to lots of others.

cooper


Joined: 23/10/2007
Posts: 3386

Message Posted:
10/11/2009 21:07

One year on, same thing happening just a different year !! - http://www.cyprus44.com/forums/7196.asp

dizzycows


Joined: 12/05/2009
Posts: 2736

Message Posted:
10/11/2009 23:21

Cooper, thanks for that, fascinating that, isnt it........ Thought it was only the last few months on here!



miss your pic, lol

Lilli



Joined: 21/07/2008
Posts: 13081

Message Posted:
10/11/2009 23:32

Well I had a couple of nasty emails re bertie pointer. I felt I was being stalked. I choice to ignore them but the sensative soul that I am couldnt understand it. Also being a Virgo I have to analize everything. However I do notice she doesnt post anymore xx

Pipie


Joined: 05/01/2008
Posts: 5499

Message Posted:
11/11/2009 01:57

dizzycows.

this is address you requested



http://www.glencoecyprus.com/

Jeannie


Joined: 04/08/2009
Posts: 3283

Message Posted:
11/11/2009 03:24

Pipie - for God's sake don't encourage her - why the hell should she be interested in the Glencoe problem? I'll tell you. She doesn't have a clue as to what has gone on - before, present or future. Go back over her posts. She has something (nothing) to say about everything on here. Then, go to the Happy Clappy board and see what she posts on there. You will find (as a friend of mine said) "she's got more faces than a Town Hall Clock".



The woman is an idiot. She is a fan of Pike's - except she doesn't have a clue about him. She just tags on to anyone who seems to be in favour on /there at any given moment. Pipie, you have shown yourself, over the years on here, to be extremely naive - unfortunately, you have done it again - you never seem to learn.

nurseawful



Joined: 06/02/2009
Posts: 5934

Message Posted:
11/11/2009 07:28

Yes unfortunately I have had it on this board as well but sticks and stones and all that.

Also from the late 70's until 1996 I was stalked on the telephone, the person knew when my husband was out whether at work or football. My sons as children were not allowed to answer the telephone. We had 3 different ex-directory numbers, the police put a tap on our phone but the person was never caught. It stopped the day a friend died unexpectedly! Makes me wonder to this day.

Pipie


Joined: 05/01/2008
Posts: 5499

Message Posted:
11/11/2009 09:41

Jeannie .



Dizzycows ,only asked for web address . I cannot see the harm in passing it on.

Pixie


Joined: 18/03/2009
Posts: 489

Message Posted:
11/11/2009 09:53

I met someone who attended the same university as me on a friendship site. He claimed to have a cousin doing his military sevrice and asked if I could transfer 400 dollars to hime which he would re imburse me as he was out of the country.

I told him that if he sent the money to me I would. He sent me some crap that was supposed to be the money transfer which of course it wasnt. He didnt know I spoke or read english.

Then he kept sending me messages saying that he knew where I lived because he traced my ip address and he also found out my name. He said he was sending someone round to pick up the money.

I laughed at him and told him never to contact me again.

He was in the papers a few months after that for tricking single women into thinking that he was going to marry themand asking them to send money over.One poor woman even took out a bank loan with no hope of paying it back.

Hes locked up now.good riddance.

Lazy days


Joined: 24/07/2008
Posts: 847

Message Posted:
11/11/2009 09:59

Pipie unfortunately makes swipes at peeps without knowing proper facts and she also likes to distort truth, she also evades or avoids direct questions, she also makes unfounded accusations against one company in particular, she has no proof to substantiate her claims, i know for a FACT that pipie did not pay any maintanance at TQB for the first six months, then she eventually paid it in arrears and never paid another penny, and Greg who used to own Glencoe will back this in any court she chooses, then she has the cheek to go on public forums castigating and miscalling a company for not doing a job, perhaps if the company had got her money on time (and five others inc, the man with 60 propertys) things would have been different.

Lazy days


Joined: 24/07/2008
Posts: 847

Message Posted:
11/11/2009 10:20

As an add on to above, do the members consider threatening e-mails to take court action, e-mails to accuse of tampering with posts and asking if an expert can look at someones computer for proof (permission was given but never followed up ) literally hundreds of e-mails sent, many hundreds of posts on cy44 and elsewhereis this not a form of cyber bullying ??

Every time something appears on here remotely touching on certain things the inuendo and downright lies start again, does this sound like someone who has moved on ????

Pipie


Joined: 05/01/2008
Posts: 5499

Message Posted:
11/11/2009 10:27

Lazy days .



I have moved on !!

Yellowbelly


Joined: 17/05/2009
Posts: 70

Message Posted:
11/11/2009 11:14

Messages 29, 34,44.



Being 'scared' to post is not the right word.

Often I just do not want to get caught up in the negativity of some postings and feel loathe to feed the egos of some of the more vociferous posters, whose role in life just seems to abuse people from the anonymity of a keyboard.

breezyboy


Joined: 14/05/2007
Posts: 1179

Message Posted:
11/11/2009 12:45

Right Lazy days

Another answer avoided by Pipie.

You are also quite correct in pointing out that Pipie is guilty of cyber bullying. But she cannot help herself!

But I think most people now know the truth.

dizzycows


Joined: 12/05/2009
Posts: 2736

Message Posted:
11/11/2009 14:10

Jeannie you just cant help yourself can you! LOL XX

dizzycows


Joined: 12/05/2009
Posts: 2736

Message Posted:
11/11/2009 14:19

Thanks Pipie, have come across that site a few months back, didnt realise it was the same, lol xx

tamand


Joined: 23/07/2009
Posts: 240

Message Posted:
11/11/2009 15:30

So now weer begining to get at the truth of whots been happening, pipie said that she was NOT a no payer, an yet she didnt pay a penny for the first 6mths of the time the companie was employed by developers to make the place right, so are you saying these people lied pipie ???? or were you just muck stirrin ????, these people put to rights in a very short space of time plenty that was wrong on that site they broke the back of what was needed and you didnt pay a penny towards it, away and bury you head, you shoud be ashamed as shoud those who are now jumpin on the bandwagon, 3 times that companie sent out questionares and 3 times more than 90% gave thenm a vote of confidense, including me, so now suddenly they are all wrong and you and you cronies are right, and get it right you havent moved on one bit you are still bitter -n -twisted

No dout i am now banned for daring to tell truth

Tam

No1Doyen


Joined: 04/07/2008
Posts: 16617

Message Posted:
11/11/2009 15:35

This thread is now closed.



Reason: Thread went completely off topic. Can I ask any of you who have issues regarding developments to contact each other off forum. Thanks.

Pipie


Joined: 05/01/2008
Posts: 5499

Message Posted:
11/11/2009 15:46

Move on Tamand. Stop living in the past, the site appears to be moving forward,thank goodness now it is in professional hands, and transparency to boot, happy days!!!

Strange you are not having a go at any current non payers.











Hope we can get back on thread, interesting reading.