I need to rant!

Notsoboredhw


Joined: 15/03/2007
Posts: 1254

Message Posted:
29/01/2008 16:51

Why are some people so rude!

ukturk



Joined: 01/09/2007
Posts: 1974

Message Posted:
29/01/2008 16:57

beats me bhw

please tell because i sometimes wonder that especially when things dont go their way they result in abuse and rudeness!!!

regards

ukruk



p.s where you been missed you!!!! lol

davidoff


Joined: 21/04/2007
Posts: 438

Message Posted:
29/01/2008 18:11

BHW-



Ok my love whats happened-???

Take a deep breath and let it all out!!!!

jemjem


Joined: 27/05/2007
Posts: 42

Message Posted:
29/01/2008 18:53

nicky dont let it bother you it takes allsorts we are behind you just dont bend over

simbas



Joined: 16/07/2007
Posts: 5943

Message Posted:
29/01/2008 19:05

bhw , because they dont know any different , and they think by being rude they have the upper hand and they think they can belittle people just because they can . but in my experience you have to feel sorry for them, they must be angry desperate people who's only outlet is to abuse other people in order for them to feel better themselves . really quite sad

dont upset yourself , they are really not worth wasting energy on'

hope you feel better soon

kind regards pat

McSteviet



Joined: 11/05/2007
Posts: 1089

Message Posted:
29/01/2008 19:47

Am I missing something?



I don't understand what you are all talking about, please elaborate.



Steve

simbas



Joined: 16/07/2007
Posts: 5943

Message Posted:
29/01/2008 19:49

hi steve, i think bhw has had dealings with a rude person

have a good evening pat

Notsoboredhw


Joined: 15/03/2007
Posts: 1254

Message Posted:
29/01/2008 20:01

Yes sorry - just needed to let off steam. McSteviet - I help out on our owners forum with anything anyone asks (try to be like UKTurk but dont know as much unfortunately) (I am one of the assistant managers) and someone had said a friend of theirs was having problems joining so I was talking it through with them (and hopefully would give vital information out to others) and I get some snotty email from someone saying it was information not needed in her inbox and was blocking it up blah blah blah - get the gist of it! It was the way it was directed at me really that upset me. Anyway funnily enough someone sent a message to this person this evening on the forum which doesnt affect any of us about her holiday and car hire!!!! You have to laugh I guess at the end of the day!

lovelife


Joined: 07/07/2007
Posts: 231

Message Posted:
29/01/2008 20:09

Bhw



Some people are never satisfied or grateful however much you try to help them, but I am sure the positives outweigh the negatives.



She does'nt know about this forum does she??

Chill and have a glass of your favourite tipple or you could stretch that to two!!



LL

davidoff


Joined: 21/04/2007
Posts: 438

Message Posted:
29/01/2008 21:08

Hi BHW,



If I were you Id relpy politely and say " Sorry thst you feel that way and that you were only trying to help!

But in future you will not resond to her!!!!



THEN duplicate it and send it at least 20 TIMES TO P**S HER RIGHT OFF!!!!!



HEE...HEE...HEE!!!!



OR give me her e-mail address and Ill gladly do it on your behalf!!!!



Take care-D

Notsoboredhw


Joined: 15/03/2007
Posts: 1254

Message Posted:
29/01/2008 21:28

I hope she doesnt know about this forum in case she reads about my rant!

Toon Army


Joined: 09/04/2007
Posts: 132

Message Posted:
29/01/2008 21:46

Hi Nicky

Been on TBV site and seen the thread, you cant help some people.

Have another glass of wine, chillout and leave them to it.

Have you seen the info on the new law.

We have had an E-mail from our solicitor and it looks like we have to go to London to get the Power of Attornay witnessed at the TRNC ,if we want our solicitor to register the paperwork on our behalf.

Can anybody clarify this as there must be loads of us out there who cant get back to TRNC before 31st of March and will have to use P.O.A





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Tiggy


Joined: 25/07/2007
Posts: 1994

Message Posted:
29/01/2008 21:59

BHW......you have it easy!



I am on night's dealing with noise and nuisance issues within the borough (name witheld) We get more than our fair share of rude people demanding one thing or another and most do not like to listen to anything but their own voices. On occassions we get more problems with the people complaining than the people making their lives a misery!



I have a very good phone manner but on the odd occassion I have to teminate a call because of abusive and threatening behaviour. I would love to tape some of these people and send it to them t o listen too. It would shock most, i bet.



So keep laughing BHW, respect to you.



Patrick,

Notsoboredhw


Joined: 15/03/2007
Posts: 1254

Message Posted:
29/01/2008 22:31

Hi Christine



Thank you! Sorry I shouldnt be ranting on here really as never sure who sees it!!! Just had a really crap day and I know my friends on here would make me feel better (which they have, thank you).



As for the new law I got the impression from our lawyer that if we paid the stamp duty plus the fee of £250 (approx) and drew up POA then she would do it all for us - I dont think there is any need to go into London (but please dont quote me on it - its just what I have read and after a few glasses of wine I may be talking rubbish!!!!!). Our lawyer said she would be in touch in a few days so as soon as I hear I will put it on our owners forum and on this forum if everyone else wants to know. Hopefully I wont get accused of posting unwanted information in certain peoples obviously very busy inbox's!!! Dont they realise how busy my inbox is with the name Boredhousewife!!!!!!!!!!!!!! ha ha ha ha ha only joking!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Notsoboredhw


Joined: 15/03/2007
Posts: 1254

Message Posted:
29/01/2008 22:33

Hi Tiggy I dont think I could do that job. I am always polite to people unless they are rude to me and then I try and not say anything at all in case I tell them what I really think. I have never had a row with my own sister so dont think I could row with anyone else (oh apart from hubby occasionally but I think that is allowed!).

pollytat


Joined: 15/12/2007
Posts: 87

Message Posted:
29/01/2008 22:40

Its the best thing to let it go big time ,bet you felt much better after,

we all do it at some stage.You have friends here and thats all that matters. To hell with DIMWITS .

Del& Jen

dodger



Joined: 29/07/2007
Posts: 1895

Message Posted:
30/01/2008 20:15

bhw, take notice of these narrow minded, insular rude people, they are not worth worrying about.What makes it wose is the fact you give up your time for free as well.Christ you have got me off on one now.



Simbas hope you are feeling better,

Regards,

Paul.

Notsoboredhw


Joined: 15/03/2007
Posts: 1254

Message Posted:
31/01/2008 23:30

Thanks everyone for making me feel better! The wine helps too!!!!!



This is just a general feeling about people now but I do find some people very odd!! I am a person who will help anyone, talk to anyone and be friendly and well mannered but others dont have the same values as me and sometimes I think I set my standards too high. I know I need to accept people how they are but I do find it very hard sometimes as I am always very friendly with everyone. Hey ho, strange old world! Think it might be time we moved to TRNC!!!!!!!! Everyone is friendly there.

davidoff


Joined: 21/04/2007
Posts: 438

Message Posted:
01/02/2008 00:39

Hi BHW,



Unfortunately in this world theres no pleasing some people!!



You find that most people are very selfish, stubborn and arogant - aswell as very UNGRATEFUL!!!!

truffles808


Joined: 16/10/2007
Posts: 183

Message Posted:
01/02/2008 01:31

Hi BHW,

Being a Turtle Bey Owner myself, and enjoy both forums - can the rant now stop? With regards to you, we all respect your input on TBV, let things rest.

Chill, thats what northern Cyprus does for us. Jo

Tiggy


Joined: 25/07/2007
Posts: 1994

Message Posted:
01/02/2008 01:58

BHW.....you rant away! if it makes you feel better.



Last night of shift work for me till friday week. Off to Ireland sat morn for a few days to see the farm and check the cattle etc. As beautiful as North Cyprus, but without the sun!!



Yahoooooooooooooo!



Slaince

simbas



Joined: 16/07/2007
Posts: 5943

Message Posted:
01/02/2008 04:12

truffles 808 , thats a bit officious dont you think , "can the rant stop now and let things rest "people do have the right to get things off their chests , its a perfectly healthy way of getting rid of stress , so i see no reason why the age old practice should stop just because you say so.



paul thanks its much better now

regards pat

Tiggy


Joined: 25/07/2007
Posts: 1994

Message Posted:
01/02/2008 04:49

Go to bed Simbas, I have to be up as I am at work.

simbas



Joined: 16/07/2007
Posts: 5943

Message Posted:
01/02/2008 06:12

i'm a real early bird , always have been , by the time people get up i've done all my housework ect so i have more time to socialize during the day , there's method in my madness , honest ! well it suits me anyway .

have a good sleep simbas

millzer


Joined: 12/04/2007
Posts: 978

Message Posted:
01/02/2008 09:17

BHW, message 8. Tell the whinging git to go into their member profile and DESELECT 'receive messages to my e-mail inbox'. Then they won't get all the postings to through there e-mail anymore!!

davidoff


Joined: 21/04/2007
Posts: 438

Message Posted:
01/02/2008 13:27

Hi all,



SIMBAS - it worried I see from your postings that you never sleep are you a night owl like me???



A scientific study shows that There are two kinds of human owls in this world the "DAY OWLS" and the "NIGHT OWLS"!



DAY owls are the early morning risers - who kind of get up before sunset and are flaked out by the time the 10 0clock news is on!!



NIGHT- owls are the late risers who stay up all night and get on with chores and keep themselves busy whilst the DAY OWLS sleep away!!



Im a NIGHT OWL and my hubbie is a DAY OWL- which means that luckily we both get individual ME TIME on a daily basis!!!



Although can be a bit of a drag on the bedroom side of things sometimes as either hes too tired or Im too busy!!!!



FOOD FOR THOUGHT!!

Thought for the daY!!!



Take care-D

ukturk



Joined: 01/09/2007
Posts: 1974

Message Posted:
01/02/2008 14:01

hi d

not sure what kind of owl i am because i get up early around 7am and go to bed around between 1-2am so i must be a cross breed owl!!!! lol

but agree you with the other bit cos my other half gets up around 5-6am does all the housework then by around 8-9pm she is in bed

so that leaves me on my own downstairs watching t.v or on the comp all nite, unless we are out for the night

so all together ahwwwwwww!!!!!!!!! lol

regards

ukturk

Notsoboredhw


Joined: 15/03/2007
Posts: 1254

Message Posted:
02/02/2008 00:11

Am I allowed to rant anymore or am I still in the dog house?!!!!!!!

Notsoboredhw


Joined: 15/03/2007
Posts: 1254

Message Posted:
02/02/2008 00:14

Rant, rant, rant, rant, rant!!!! Bloody money grabbing solicitors, money grabbing governments, bloody miserable people........moan moan moan moan moan! I'm off to bed to carry on moaning...................... Night night possums!!!!! LOL

simbas



Joined: 16/07/2007
Posts: 5943

Message Posted:
02/02/2008 17:40

yeh ! you rant away to your hearts content

hope you had a good restful sleep , simbas