TURKİSH MEN and relationships

jokers2theright


Joined: 18/02/2008
Posts: 174


Message Posted:
06/03/2008 14:17

Would any ladies out there like to start a forum on this subject (without photo of course) because I am sure the Turks have their private forum listing available English women they have dumped after a few weeks like their hunting dogs. I have heard lots of horror stories too even down to English woman marrying Turkish in UK then going to Turkey and finding his other wife and kids. TOTAL SHOCKİNG. What you say??????? Im not bitter honest!

simbas



Joined: 16/07/2007
Posts: 1738


Message Posted:
06/03/2008 14:26

hi jokerstotheright , sadly this problem sees no boundries when it comes to races i dont think pinpointing a certain race is very purposeful

regards simbas

ukturk



Joined: 01/09/2007
Posts: 1872


Message Posted:
06/03/2008 14:46

hi

their is already a forum dedicated for english women who have been duped

http://groups.msn.com/TurkishLoveRatsDirectory



i have to say i have no symapathy for these women where i am in turkey i see it all the time women who are old enuf to be these young boys grandma walking around hand in hand loved up (so they think) then sum time later they have been dumped with all their money taken have these women lost the plot or has the sun got to their head!!!

they would never dream of going out or having a relationship with their grandchildrens friend in the u.k so wot possess them to do this in turkey

and pat is right im a turk and think your comments is a bit below the belt their are all kind of love rats all over the world and if some women are that stupid to fall for a bit of charm then thats sour grapes!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

ukturk

jokers2theright


Joined: 18/02/2008
Posts: 174


Message Posted:
06/03/2008 15:29

Sorry no offence meant to the Turkish. Just wanted to learn but will visit the one you mention. Yes I agree the elderly with toy boys not good. Perhaps all guys now just want a fling and then move on not just locally.

Dixie Normus



Joined: 22/02/2008
Posts: 122


Message Posted:
06/03/2008 16:01

Fully agree with you ukturk, Ive often wonered what these women are thinking about, you dont have to be Einstien to realise these lounge lizards probably live in a tin shack have saved 10 years for a decent set of gear and are on the grab for anything they can get, top prise being a UK passport and a life on benifit. Pity the boot is' nt on the other foot,could do with 5 or 6 mediteranian type dollies to buy me drink all night and tell me I'm beautiful

rtddci


Joined: 29/12/2007
Posts: 542


Message Posted:
06/03/2008 16:04

Dixie

Can I join if you find it?

Martin

Dixie Normus



Joined: 22/02/2008
Posts: 122


Message Posted:
06/03/2008 16:10

Hi Martin , Course you can, there must be a celler full of them somwhere, would hate to have all the fun.

livethedream


Joined: 12/04/2007
Posts: 313


Message Posted:
06/03/2008 16:16

Well said UKTurk! Best time of my life with my Turk Cypriot hubby - never had it so good!



livethedream

davidoff


Joined: 21/04/2007
Posts: 369


Message Posted:
06/03/2008 16:43

Hi all,



Unfortunately many women fall into this trap!!



This has been happening for years as they get swept away by these men who tell them instantly how beautiful and special they are and how much they love them and want to get married all in the space of a 2 week holiday!!!



Then they marry them take their money, use them for sex and gain a british passport and citizenship from it!!



Then before you can say bobs your uncle- they are off with your money, their british passport and free to roam the uk as a legal citizen with your hard earned cash!!!



Sorry to be pesimistic- But thats the truth of the matter!!!



But this doesnt just apply to turks- it happens in ALOT of countries!!!

davidoff


Joined: 21/04/2007
Posts: 369


Message Posted:
06/03/2008 16:45

Mail order brides and grooms also spring to mind!!!!

Milou


Joined: 15/10/2007
Posts: 347


Message Posted:
06/03/2008 17:08

Why can't I have a toyboy?



Regards

JamesB


Joined: 07/02/2007
Posts: 312


Message Posted:
06/03/2008 17:41

we could launch an appeal Moira if you like, can you tell us what your toyboy must have?



Are you speaking from experience Jokers2the right?

Newboy


Joined: 21/02/2008
Posts: 34


Message Posted:
06/03/2008 18:02

What enjoyment can you expect to get from anothers misery!



Sad

JamesB


Joined: 07/02/2007
Posts: 312


Message Posted:
06/03/2008 18:17

What do you mean newboy?

Milou


Joined: 15/10/2007
Posts: 347


Message Posted:
06/03/2008 19:27

I would like a toyboy who has a sense of humour, elegant and discreet, well mannered, good looking, intellegent, has travelled the world, loves politics, loves the outdoors, enjoys cooking, loves cleaning and washing up, loves old people, loves prostitutes, loves drinking, has a generous spirit, has an open mind, has impeccable taste, loves sad music, enjoys poetry, is well read and will adore me eternally and refuse my money.......................



regards

newlad



Joined: 02/03/2008
Posts: 813


Message Posted:
06/03/2008 19:40

Milou,

where you sleep walking when you wrote that one.

JamesB


Joined: 07/02/2007
Posts: 312


Message Posted:
06/03/2008 21:15

Good luck, reminds me of a joke i heard, I'll see if I can find it

JamesB


Joined: 07/02/2007
Posts: 312


Message Posted:
06/03/2008 21:18

The Husband Store

A store that sells new husbands has just opened in New York City, where a

woman may go to choose a husband.



Among the instructions at the entrance is a description of how the store

operates:





You may visit this store ONLY ONCE! There are six floors and the value of

the products increase as the shopper ascends the flights.



The shopper may choose any item from a particular floor, or may choose to go

up to the next floor, but you cannot go back down except to exit the building!



So, a woman goes to the Husband Store to find a husband. On the first floor

the sign on the door reads:





Floor 1 - These men Have Jobs.

She is intrigued, but continues to the second floor, where the sign reads:



Floor 2 - These men Have Jobs and Love Kids.

"That's nice", she thinks, "but I want more."

So she continues upward. The third floor sign reads:

Floor 3 - These men Have Jobs, Love Kids, and are Extremely Good Looking.

"Wow," she thinks, but feels compelled to keep going.

She goes to the fourth floor and the sign reads:

Floor 4 - These men Have Jobs, Love Kids, are Drop-dead Good Looking and

Help With Housework.

"Oh, mercy me!" she exclaims, "I can hardly stand it!"

Still, she goes to the fifth floor and the sign reads:

Floor 5 - These men Have Jobs, Love Kids, are Drop-dead Gorgeous, Help with

Housework, and Have a Strong Romantic Streak.

She is so tempted to stay, but she goes to the sixth floor, where the sign

reads:



Floor 6 - You are visitor 31,456,012 to this floor. There are no men on this

floor.

This floor exists solely as proof that women are impossible to please.





Thank you for shopping at the Husband Store.





PLEASE NOTE: To avoid gender bias charges, the store's owner opened a New Wives store

just across the street.



The first floor has wives that love sex.

The second floor has wives that love sex and have money.

The third, fourth, fifth and sixth floors have never been visited

nancy08


Joined: 17/02/2008
Posts: 7


Message Posted:
06/03/2008 21:52

I agree with you newboy who wants to add to anothers misery,thinking of buying out there but perhaps consider again.

Bradus


Joined: 25/02/2007
Posts: 747


Message Posted:
06/03/2008 22:09

It works both ways, lots of silly old men falling for young girls too.This is world over, not just Cyprus and Turkey.

An excellent and very funny book about an 84 year old man who marries a 36 year old Ukrainian divorcee is "Short History of Tractors in Ukrainian" by Marina Lewycka. Good holiday reading and lots of laughs.

nancy08


Joined: 17/02/2008
Posts: 7


Message Posted:
06/03/2008 22:26

What about the guy 94 yrs who wed an 84yr old and are traveling about europe,you know its all about experience of life.

nancy08


Joined: 17/02/2008
Posts: 7


Message Posted:
06/03/2008 22:36

I have to say there has to be a marriage of skills for 2 old folk to push forward.

jokers2theright


Joined: 18/02/2008
Posts: 174


Message Posted:
07/03/2008 10:43

James B



Now that would be telling !

jock1


Joined: 06/01/2008
Posts: 739


Message Posted:
07/03/2008 10:56

well tell us then.

Biker



Joined: 11/01/2008
Posts: 125


Message Posted:
07/03/2008 11:50

Jamesb Message 18 : That is the best joke I have heard in ages. It is true that women want everything about the men to be perfect, but I have never come across a woman whithout faults themselves.



UkTurk : What you say is absolutely true as these women are living in a dream world when the believe that a much younger man is interested in them genuinely and do not think about how they can benefit from them.

phylray


Joined: 21/09/2007
Posts: 416


Message Posted:
07/03/2008 21:56

Just reading this stuff. Well I was lucky with my Turkish man I think.

He was everything I like in a man, & treated me so well. Yes, you can get

the sponger types everywhere as I have seen working in Turkey & M.East for

years, but have seen women using men too, so it's not all one way.

jokers2theright


Joined: 18/02/2008
Posts: 174


Message Posted:
10/03/2008 11:20

phrlay

Im pleased to hear things are working for you and your Turkish man (you are English I presume). How long you been together.



I know one close friend who years ago lived and worked in turkey. She met one Turk and they fell in love and decided to set up home together in Turkey she went back to work in the UK to send money over for the house they were having built only to find when she returned he had moved his wife and kids in and was willing she stayed too.



Im told it stems from the old days when lots of Turkish soldiers were killed in the army and many wives were left widowed and so many women were taken under the roof of anothers husband. Tradition continues in some villages.

onlyme


Joined: 28/01/2008
Posts: 18


Message Posted:
10/03/2008 14:56

just wanderıng ıf ı am to old to b a toyboy (only 49)

phylray


Joined: 21/09/2007
Posts: 416


Message Posted:
10/03/2008 21:16

You presume wrong - am Scots & part English, plus I am referring to

a time years ago, when I was working in Istanbul. Water under the

bridge now but I will never forget. I have worked overseas 11 years in

various countries & the worst cases of rotten behaviour have experienced

was from 1 Polish & 1 Welsh man in U.A.E. neither of whom I wished to be

involved with. My friend in Cyprus has been married over 40 years to a local (she's from Yorkshire) & don't think they will part now. Will be seeing her

end of week when I go there. I was married 17 years to a man from another

land & religion, widowed at 37, but I don't regret that either.