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deecyprus4

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Message Posted: 04/01/2010 11:04 | Join or Login to Reply | Message 1 of 84 in Discussion |
| If you are thinking of coming off HRT...DON'T...I am back on them again, the flushes were not a problem, they were much milder but for 3 weeks now my neck and shoulders have been killing me and I mean killing me, I have never had such pain, I went to the docs and he said it was a withdrawal sympton and would last for 3 months + at least, bugger that. I thought at first I had just been in a draft, but no. I wasn't taking my HRT but was eating a pack of Nurofen and that has to be a lot worse for me. Keep taking the pills I say. |
nurseawful


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Message Posted: 04/01/2010 11:08 | Join or Login to Reply | Message 2 of 84 in Discussion |
| My opinion is don't even start on the HRT as it just prolongs everything. Menopause without it normally lasts only 2 years. |
deecyprus4

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Message Posted: 04/01/2010 11:11 | Join or Login to Reply | Message 3 of 84 in Discussion |
| Chris I suffered very badly and I just couldn't cope, HRT is a wonderful drug imo it protects against osteo problems and it keeps us girls younger at heart as we don't age as fast, I won't be coming off it again for sure. |
nurseawful


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Message Posted: 04/01/2010 11:13 | Join or Login to Reply | Message 4 of 84 in Discussion |
| Dee, You will go down in history as the oldest lady ever to take HRT you will still be taking it ant 130 yrs. |
deecyprus4

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Message Posted: 04/01/2010 11:16 | Join or Login to Reply | Message 5 of 84 in Discussion |
| Chris, I went onto a forum about withdrawal symptons and many women had the same pain in neck and shoulders and some women said at 75 they were still taking it, I am going to be one of them lol. Barbara Cartland never came off of it either. Kev always said I was a pain in the neck, now he is right lol. |
Whistler

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Message Posted: 04/01/2010 11:40 | Join or Login to Reply | Message 6 of 84 in Discussion |
| Dee Keep taking the pills as you say. I tried coming off a couple of times and am now firmly back on it. I get aches and pains but my doctor said he thought they would be a lot worse if I come off HRT. |
nurseawful


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Message Posted: 04/01/2010 11:43 | Join or Login to Reply | Message 7 of 84 in Discussion |
| Message 6 I sincerely hope you are Mrs Whistler because if you are Ken you have a problem!!!!!!!! |
deecyprus4

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Message Posted: 04/01/2010 12:03 | Join or Login to Reply | Message 8 of 84 in Discussion |
| Mrs Whistler if the doc wont keep prescribing them to me I will get them over there at the chemist in catalkoy, they are worth the cost. 3 cheers for HRT |
Whistler

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Message Posted: 04/01/2010 12:11 | Join or Login to Reply | Message 9 of 84 in Discussion |
| Sorry nursie. it is Mrs. Whistler, thought after I posted someone would pick it up!!! Mx |
nurseawful


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Message Posted: 04/01/2010 12:50 | Join or Login to Reply | Message 10 of 84 in Discussion |
| Whew glad about that message 9 was worried there for a bit! |
simbas


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Message Posted: 04/01/2010 13:12 | Join or Login to Reply | Message 11 of 84 in Discussion |
| I'm not a martyr , i take all the help i can . Simbas |
nurseawful


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Message Posted: 04/01/2010 13:16 | Join or Login to Reply | Message 12 of 84 in Discussion |
| Simbas I must have been really lucky did it with no help.! 2 years and all symptoms gone. |
simbas


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Message Posted: 04/01/2010 13:19 | Join or Login to Reply | Message 13 of 84 in Discussion |
| I have been going through it since 1990 !!! not nice , have given up HRT from time to time , but just cannot cope . One day eh ? Simbas |
Tiggy

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Message Posted: 04/01/2010 13:31 | Join or Login to Reply | Message 14 of 84 in Discussion |
| What is HRT ? Is man to blame for it ? |
simbas


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Message Posted: 04/01/2010 13:34 | Join or Login to Reply | Message 15 of 84 in Discussion |
| Yes most definitely Tiggy |
Jeannie

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Message Posted: 04/01/2010 13:50 | Join or Login to Reply | Message 16 of 84 in Discussion |
| Dee and Simbas, I'm with you two on this one. Have tried stopping the HRT several times over the years and have always ended up back on it. Chris, only two years - I wished. My menopause has been going on for 12 years. What I have managed to do (on the recommendation of my GP) is to cut down on the actual dose. Now, rather than take it every day, I take it every other day. However, when I have tried to phase it out completely, the hot flushes, aches (particularly in my shoulders) returns. I'm no martyr and take all the help I can get, too Tiggy, message 14 - YES (probably) J |
everon

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Message Posted: 04/01/2010 15:37 | Join or Login to Reply | Message 17 of 84 in Discussion |
| I dont take it and I also had no problems, in fact lots of ladies have asked me what I take! does the odd vodka tonic count x |
Brinsley

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Message Posted: 04/01/2010 15:46 | Join or Login to Reply | Message 18 of 84 in Discussion |
| HRT; 'Horny, Randy, Thoughts'? Please don't come off it! Richard |
No1Doyen

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Message Posted: 04/01/2010 15:53 | Join or Login to Reply | Message 19 of 84 in Discussion |
| I'm thinking of going on it! ) |
deecyprus4

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Message Posted: 04/01/2010 17:51 | Join or Login to Reply | Message 20 of 84 in Discussion |
| Jeannie you had the pain in your shoulders as well, isnt it debilitating, I am so grumpy because I am in so much pain, grrrr. |
laptagal

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Message Posted: 04/01/2010 18:07 | Join or Login to Reply | Message 21 of 84 in Discussion |
| I have been on HRT for years and have tried many times to come off it but can't cope with the symptoms - also, apparently, I am very hard to live with without it !!! I just try to take the smallest dose that I can and will, I expect, wean myself off when I am so old I forget to take it. |
deecyprus4

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Message Posted: 04/01/2010 18:07 | Join or Login to Reply | Message 22 of 84 in Discussion |
| Bill you men do not realise how easy you lot have it, we have nasties every month, we carry for 9 months then do the hard work of having the baby, we then have to go through this awful menopause. think yourself lucky. |
deecyprus4

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Message Posted: 04/01/2010 18:14 | Join or Login to Reply | Message 23 of 84 in Discussion |
| laptagal did you get painful shoulders as well, and isnt it awful when you come off? |
Lilli


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Message Posted: 04/01/2010 18:19 | Join or Login to Reply | Message 24 of 84 in Discussion |
| Hi girls I took myself off them when I came here. I used to have the implants, then went onto tablets but couldnt get on with them, so had the patches. Well I couldnt keep them on in this heat, so ditched them. I still get pain in my shoulder but didnt connect that to stopping the HRT. I have forgotton what symptoms I had xxx |
Tiggy

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Message Posted: 04/01/2010 18:28 | Join or Login to Reply | Message 25 of 84 in Discussion |
| Could the bra staps be a little too tight ladies....this may be the cause of the shoulder pain. Spare a thought for us lads that have to shave from around 15 years old at least once a day for the rest of out lives. see, we do not get it easy either. No to mention the forthcoming 2" of soft in the middle that us lads have to face in the near future.........Stop the world...I wanna get off. |
Lilli


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Message Posted: 04/01/2010 18:33 | Join or Login to Reply | Message 26 of 84 in Discussion |
| Ah Tigs. Thats what set the men apart from the boys. Happy new year me darlin xx |
laptagal

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Message Posted: 04/01/2010 18:34 | Join or Login to Reply | Message 27 of 84 in Discussion |
| Hi Dee, has been a while since I tried to go 'cold turkey' so I can't say if I did or didn't get shoulder pains. My main probems were the night sweats and the mood swings. I use a clear gel (Oestrogel) which you just rub into soft tissue - thighs or upper arm. I have never come across anyone else who uses this. Was presecibed by a young trendy doctor about ten years ago when I couldn't get on with the pills or patches. |
simbas


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Message Posted: 04/01/2010 18:35 | Join or Login to Reply | Message 28 of 84 in Discussion |
| Yep , and it's all to do with men menopause menses menorrhagia menarche mental health and eventually a- men-orrhoea |
Lilli


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Message Posted: 04/01/2010 18:37 | Join or Login to Reply | Message 29 of 84 in Discussion |
| i bet the list could go on and on simbas xxxx |
simbas


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Message Posted: 04/01/2010 18:40 | Join or Login to Reply | Message 30 of 84 in Discussion |
| I bet it could Lilli x x |
smithy

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Message Posted: 04/01/2010 18:46 | Join or Login to Reply | Message 31 of 84 in Discussion |
| Bill go on it and see what happens ) |
deecyprus4

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Message Posted: 04/01/2010 18:53 | Join or Login to Reply | Message 32 of 84 in Discussion |
| Thanks Laptagal, I think i will recover quite soon as I have been back on them for 4 days now, another week I think and I will be back to my old self x |
deecyprus4

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Message Posted: 04/01/2010 18:54 | Join or Login to Reply | Message 33 of 84 in Discussion |
| Smithy I should have stayed on them lol, wish I had believe me x |
deecyprus4

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Message Posted: 04/01/2010 18:55 | Join or Login to Reply | Message 34 of 84 in Discussion |
| Lilli the shoulder pain is def coming off HRT, even the doc told me that. x |
deecyprus4

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Message Posted: 04/01/2010 18:55 | Join or Login to Reply | Message 35 of 84 in Discussion |
| Simbas how we girls suffer eh, bloody men they get away with the lot, they only need to shave lol. |
mags111


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Message Posted: 04/01/2010 18:56 | Join or Login to Reply | Message 36 of 84 in Discussion |
| Ive been going through the menopause for 4 years having hot sweats every hour. Im at the end of my tether so should I go to a doctor here and ask to go on HRT or just suffer and hope it stops???? |
Lilli


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Message Posted: 04/01/2010 18:57 | Join or Login to Reply | Message 37 of 84 in Discussion |
| Thanks Dee at last I know the doctors could never tell me what it was just muscle pain they said. At long last I have a reason. (when are you back) xx |
Tiggy

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Message Posted: 04/01/2010 19:06 | Join or Login to Reply | Message 38 of 84 in Discussion |
| yep, we get the blame for everything....even call it MENopause ....why not womenopause ? With all your faults, we can not survive without ya! Happy New Year to you Lilli & family included. XX |
deecyprus4

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Message Posted: 04/01/2010 19:17 | Join or Login to Reply | Message 39 of 84 in Discussion |
| Lilli I wasn't coming back till the end of april but it is so cold here, kev is on his way back now and I may come back on saturday but only for about 10 days as I have commitments here in the UK at the end of Jan xx |
deecyprus4

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Message Posted: 04/01/2010 19:19 | Join or Login to Reply | Message 40 of 84 in Discussion |
| mags111 go to the doctor and get on HRT it is wonderful stuff, if you are over there you can just buy it in the chemist, just ask the chemist, the one in catalkoy is the best. cost about 23 tl for a month. |
deecyprus4

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Message Posted: 04/01/2010 19:20 | Join or Login to Reply | Message 41 of 84 in Discussion |
| Tiggy cos it is all you men's fault lol )))))))) |
Vidal

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Message Posted: 04/01/2010 19:26 | Join or Login to Reply | Message 42 of 84 in Discussion |
| Mags111 Me too. I bought every conceivable herbal remedy when I popped back to the UK in Nov. I was told not to take HRT because we have a history of breast cancer in the family. But its so bad I'm really weighing up the pro's and cons. I'd be interested to hear what Nurseawful thinks on that one..any advice. |
Ballyboffin

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Message Posted: 04/01/2010 19:31 | Join or Login to Reply | Message 43 of 84 in Discussion |
| I never went on it because of the breast cancer scare and went through it naturally. I did suffer a bit from the night sweats and flushes but figured that if generations of women managed what is a natural process without drugs then I would give it a go. Have to say though that friends who are on it swear by it. In my case though, what I never had I never missed. Love to know what you all reckon it does for you though and the negative side of taking it. |
deecyprus4

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Message Posted: 04/01/2010 19:32 | Join or Login to Reply | Message 44 of 84 in Discussion |
| Vidal, this must be very tricky for you and I sympathise with your dilema, the only thing I can say is what I would do and I would ask myself what quality of life I have with bad symptons. Good luck. |
Vidal

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Message Posted: 04/01/2010 19:59 | Join or Login to Reply | Message 45 of 84 in Discussion |
| Cheers Girls Roll on the summer when I wont be able to notice it so much! |
No1Doyen

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Message Posted: 04/01/2010 22:53 | Join or Login to Reply | Message 46 of 84 in Discussion |
| Sheila and Dee. I'm starting a weeks course tomorrow. I'll let you know how I get on! ) |
mags111


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Message Posted: 05/01/2010 09:26 | Join or Login to Reply | Message 47 of 84 in Discussion |
| Thanks for the advice Dee, I will go down to the Pharmacy today because I too have tried all the usual herbal stuff with no difference at all. I will see you when you come back. Just listening to news on radio 2 and is sounds like snow is heading your way!!! better get over now as its lovely here! |
deecyprus4

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Message Posted: 05/01/2010 09:46 | Join or Login to Reply | Message 48 of 84 in Discussion |
| Maggie I am gonna try and get a flight back saturday, it is dreadful here, -10 last night and although the house is warm it is truly freezing outside and my shoulders are killing me, I have never known pain like this, I think it will take a few weeks for the hrt to kick in again lol, shouldn't have listened to my doctor and will I be having with him soon |
deecyprus4

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Message Posted: 05/01/2010 09:47 | Join or Login to Reply | Message 49 of 84 in Discussion |
| Bill as it is a female hormone you may grow boobs and start nagging your wife lol )))) |
simbas


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| Apparently were in for 25cms of snow today Dee , i know where i would rather be Have a safe journey , Simbas |
nurseawful


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Message Posted: 05/01/2010 10:00 | Join or Login to Reply | Message 51 of 84 in Discussion |
| Vidal, There has been links to Breast Cancer and HRT. Personally if there was a history of this in my family I would definetely say no to HRT. But only you can decide what is for you. I would say initially try some of the herbal remedies that are available they might just work for you as they do for many women. If you want I will find out the names of some of the better ones for you. Chris |
simbas


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| Black Cohash should be avoided by ladies suffering with Cancer , until you speak to your Dr first . I know of one lady who was actually hospitalised after taking it Simbas |
nurseawful


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| Vidal, Try e-mailing cyprushomeopath.katy@googlemail.com or telephoning her on 0533 848 9692. Katy should be able to give you the best advise. Chris p.s. That's interesting Simbas never heard that one before! I used to work with a nurse that swore by Black Cohash. |
Lilli


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Message Posted: 05/01/2010 10:27 | Join or Login to Reply | Message 54 of 84 in Discussion |
| I swear by aloe vera and vit b xx |
simbas


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Message Posted: 05/01/2010 10:38 | Join or Login to Reply | Message 55 of 84 in Discussion |
| i took it for awhile , with no great improvement . But as you say , and i too have known people to swear to it Simbas |
scoobydoo

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Message Posted: 05/01/2010 11:56 | Join or Login to Reply | Message 56 of 84 in Discussion |
| My mum is on HRT and has been since she was about 36yrs, she is now 70yrs and cannot come off it without all the symptoms you are all mentioning above so when I started with the flushes the one thing I did not want to do was start with HRT and be on it for ever and a day. I saw someone who appreciated that I wanted to try more natural remedies and suggested black cohosh and evening primrose oil. I take Black Cohosh when the flushes become a nuisance however I only take it for 6 months at a time and then come off them for a while and see whether the symptoms return. Sometimes they do after a few weeks and sometimes not for a few months. If the flushes return but do not bother me, I will not start the black cohosh until they become unbearable. I read that you should not take Black Cohosh for any, continuous length of time, you must give yourself a small break every 6 months. Well, it works for me, and my husband loves it as I am not so grumpy |
boglefan


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Message Posted: 05/01/2010 12:19 | Join or Login to Reply | Message 57 of 84 in Discussion |
| OK have tried not to put my bit on but here we go. HRT should be taken for five years maximum. (This is the guidelines give to the medical profession ). From a purely personal point of view, I made an informed decision not to commence on HRT despite having flushes, night sweats etc. For me this has turned out to have been the right decision. I was diagnosed last year with breast cancer. Fortunately it was caught early and was low grade wth no spread, it was however highly hormone +ve if I had taken HRT the tumour would most likely have been fed by the hormones and could possibly been a lot worse. The oncologist has started me on a hormone suppressant with terrible menopausal side effects, but believe me it is a lot better than the possiblity of a recurrance. Make an informed decision, but I know if there was a history of breast cancer in the family I would tread very carefully before commencing HRT. Irene. |
simbas


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Message Posted: 05/01/2010 12:29 | Join or Login to Reply | Message 58 of 84 in Discussion |
| There is a cake that you can make , a friend gave me the recipe years ago , it was like a slice of Budgie cake , i couldn't eat it . It probably could be googled if anyone is interested Simbas |
mags111


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Message Posted: 05/01/2010 15:08 | Join or Login to Reply | Message 59 of 84 in Discussion |
| Just been to the pharmacy in Catalkoy and she asvised me to have blood tests with a gyneocologist first. She wouldnt sell me them over the counter. |
nurseawful


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Message Posted: 05/01/2010 15:12 | Join or Login to Reply | Message 60 of 84 in Discussion |
| Excellent Gynaecologist in Girne Mags her name is Dr Meryem Allison. She speaks perfect English. Telephone number is 0533 861 6519 or 0392 816 0366. She is just past the courts in Girne on the same side. |
mags111


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Message Posted: 05/01/2010 17:36 | Join or Login to Reply | Message 61 of 84 in Discussion |
| Thank you, I will go and see her |
Ballyboffin

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Message Posted: 05/01/2010 18:34 | Join or Login to Reply | Message 62 of 84 in Discussion |
| Simbas, Try Burgen bread, it tastes lovely and has the seeds and grains which help the menopausal symtoms. |
simbas


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Message Posted: 05/01/2010 18:57 | Join or Login to Reply | Message 63 of 84 in Discussion |
| The cake i mentioned contained all types of seeds , will give it a go though , how much of it do you have to eat ? take care , Simbas |
Vidal

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Message Posted: 05/01/2010 19:05 | Join or Login to Reply | Message 64 of 84 in Discussion |
| Ladies, Chris, Irene. Thanks for all the good advice. I went into a homeopathic store in the UK on a trip home in November. They asked me all the right questions and told me not to take Black Cohosh. (I too have friends who swear by it). You have just confirmed what I already know really..I just have to put up with it. Was just hoping, but safe is best. My Dad has lost 5 of his 6 sisters to breast cancer and the last surviving one has had preventative surgery (Fingers crossed for her). Like I said roll on the summer when we are all hot and glowing!! |
deecyprus4

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Message Posted: 05/01/2010 19:47 | Join or Login to Reply | Message 65 of 84 in Discussion |
| Maggie that is ludicrous, I buy mine all the time in there, did you tell her it was your first pack of pills, tlk to her husband, he is much nicer. |
Ballyboffin

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Message Posted: 05/01/2010 20:09 | Join or Login to Reply | Message 66 of 84 in Discussion |
| Simbas, Apparantly 4. Google it and see for yourself. Hope you are keeping well and WARM ! xx |
simbas


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Message Posted: 05/01/2010 20:11 | Join or Login to Reply | Message 67 of 84 in Discussion |
| Thanks Bally , Its freezing here and more of it to come . Are you here or there ? Regards , Simbas |
Ballyboffin

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Message Posted: 06/01/2010 00:47 | Join or Login to Reply | Message 68 of 84 in Discussion |
| Hi Simbas, I am in Co.Down. Freezing here as well, though we haven't had much snow here on the coast, feel sorry for you all on the mainland. Back in sunny Cyprus in April. Take Care |
Teresa

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Message Posted: 12/01/2010 07:00 | Join or Login to Reply | Message 69 of 84 in Discussion |
| Dee can you tell me which HRT you are taking, i was on it in UK and never had any side effects, yesterday i was prescribed it again here after refusing the herbal stuff, it seems that there is not much choice here. I am on Prempak c 100tl for 3 months supply but reading about it lots of women complain about weight gain which would then give me a whole lot of other problems. |
deecyprus4

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Message Posted: 12/01/2010 10:07 | Join or Login to Reply | Message 70 of 84 in Discussion |
| Teresa I am on kliovance or kliofem, I dont think a doctor will prescribe that for you though as you are much younger than me and the one I am on stops the usual bleed we women have to endure, I think you have to be late 50's. Go to the chemist in Catalkoy and speak to the man, not his wife,she is less helpful and he will give you the turkish equivalent of Prempak c is he has it. I was on Prempakc for years. Hope this helps. |
phylray


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Message Posted: 12/01/2010 10:42 | Join or Login to Reply | Message 71 of 84 in Discussion |
| I never went on HRT because of the breast cancer scare and my mother died at 44 after getting that. Didn't really have any problems with menopause (except very heavy periods) and I still don't have any major problems, in fact look and feel younger than my years, so I am told - and I believe it! |
deecyprus4

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Message Posted: 12/01/2010 10:49 | Join or Login to Reply | Message 72 of 84 in Discussion |
| phylray you were one of the lucky ones and I am pleased for you, I suffered very badly and hrt to me was a lifeline. |
Teresa

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Message Posted: 12/01/2010 12:58 | Join or Login to Reply | Message 73 of 84 in Discussion |
| Dee thanks for that, will give these a try for the 3 months and see how it goes, just the weight gain is a worry for me. |
mamachina

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| I went on HRT for a few years or so, really just for osteo until the Doc said Id had enough!! I think she was thinking of breat cancer - came off and noticed no difference so presume I was lucky in that way, no aches and pains but got 2 other kinds (of cancer) instead later on! But my bones seem ok!!!!!!! Oh, yes and didnt really notice the menopause either - same as my mum, all over in a couple of months, hope my daughter is as lucky as I feel I must have been, reading other peoples woes. |
deecyprus4

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Message Posted: 12/01/2010 20:27 | Join or Login to Reply | Message 75 of 84 in Discussion |
| Teresa I didn't gain any weight although it is different with each case, I only put on weight when I got into my middle fifties and that was middle aged spread lol and I have lost it again so don't worry too much about that. Good luck to you. |
wynyardman


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Message Posted: 12/01/2010 20:33 | Join or Login to Reply | Message 76 of 84 in Discussion |
| Quiet analysis of the posters speaks volumes. Keep taking the tablets (Moses syndrome) wynyardman |
Jeannie

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Message Posted: 12/01/2010 20:34 | Join or Login to Reply | Message 77 of 84 in Discussion |
| Teresa - can agree with Dee on the weight gain issue. I put on some weight in my mid fifties, about 5 years into the change. It didn't last long and for the last few years I've stayed stable at around nine and a half stone and am still on the HRT. I think it very much depends on the individual. A friend of mine tried it, she piled on the pounds and so came off it again. The weight came off as quickly as it went on! Mind you, the same happened to her when she went on the pill. Regards. Jean |
Teresa

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| Thanks Jean and dee and Wyn you are very brave to even get into this discussion. |
HildySmith

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| I tried to do it without HRT but could not do it and it was great taking HRT. However, my Doctor contacted me (in UK) and asked me to go into his office for an interview, when I got there the checked everything and then advised me to come off HRT. He said that after 10 years they are more likely to do harm now than good. He then gave me a leaflet about the dangers of pro-longed HRT. The benefits mentioned above are right osteo-whatever it is, etc. I came off them 3 years ago and it was horrendous. I got the pains in the neck and shoulds but it was due to throwing the blankets off at night and getting freezing cold. I was advised to look at alternatives to HRT (there is a very good book with that title if you can find it). Soya milk is very good (Japanese women do not have a menopause due to the soya in their diet - it is the Western diet which causes it). I went to a nutritionist and was advised to get Sage (you can get it in tablet form or take it in drops) After a month or |
HildySmith

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Message Posted: 13/01/2010 01:01 | Join or Login to Reply | Message 80 of 84 in Discussion |
| so, I noticed a big improvement. As soon as I stopped they came back. I have taken Sage drops or tablets for 3 years now and I can say that the symptoms have all gone. I have recentyly stopped taking the sage and the symptoms have not returned. I am 63 now and have no symptoms, if I get a sweat, like last week, I lay there thinking sh** its back - then I noticed the heat coming from the radiator at the side of the bed - got up and turned the central heating off - well it is freezing here in the UK. Stick with it, the alternatives are not nice - look up the consequences of taking HRT Long Term. My doctor said he would put me back on them - AT MY OWN RISK, AGAINST HIS ADVICE and I was asked to sign a form stating that he had given me that advice. |
Jeannie

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Message Posted: 13/01/2010 03:14 | Join or Login to Reply | Message 81 of 84 in Discussion |
| Katy - am off for HRT check up next week - will keep you posted |
Jeannie

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Message Posted: 13/01/2010 03:15 | Join or Login to Reply | Message 82 of 84 in Discussion |
| Teresa - message 78. Some may say brave and some may say stupid |
Jeannie

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Message Posted: 13/01/2010 03:20 | Join or Login to Reply | Message 83 of 84 in Discussion |
| Message 76 - an interesting point - 'Moses Syndrome'. So I assume, Mr Cooper, that you, yourself, have been through the menopause? NB I don't mean the imaginary one that middle aged men claim to go through, but the hormonal one that women actually do. How did you cope with the symptoms? You'll be telling us next that childbirth is like shelling peas, no doubt. |
HildySmith

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Message Posted: 13/01/2010 14:33 | Join or Login to Reply | Message 84 of 84 in Discussion |
| 'Mr Cooper says: 'Quiet analysis of the posters speaks volumes. Keep taking the tablets (Moses syndrome)' mmm...mmm...m.. My 'tablets' started in my 40's when my doctor sent me to the hospital for tests. Still ovulating, but getting menopausal symptoms - BAD!!!! Advice: no caffeine or hot baths at night (no tablets!!!!) that worked for a while. I then got the book 'Alternatives to HRT' Excellent and I used it for 3 years then the symptoms came back. Thats when the doctor recommended HRT (all else had failed!!!!) He pointed out the benefits as stated above, so I went on them and they were great - got my life back!!! Until he called me in for the interview and LAYED IT ON THICK about the fact and the benefits cease after long term usage and now they would do me more harm than good. I had a choice and I made it, is has not been easy, but now I am glad I took it. |
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