Anyone know anything about taking out an injunction on a turk?

Trudy


Joined: 25/05/2009
Posts: 369

Message Posted:
04/01/2010 11:27

I used to live there but moved back to UK. I was going out with a turk for 5 years. Im now being harassed on a daily basis, called 100's of times a day, emailed, texted, calls my family and friends, is nasty and verbally abusive, calls me names etc.. obviously if it was here i could go to the police and take out an injunction. Is there anything i can do from here for there?

Whistler


Joined: 28/07/2008
Posts: 1332

Message Posted:
04/01/2010 11:34

Trudy, start off by changing your e-mail address and phone numbers surely? Depending on your phone you could probably block certain calls, also e-mail addresses. The police cannot take out an injunction, even in the uk, it is a civil matter under the brief circumstances you have mentioned. You would have to instruct a solicitor.

Vidal


Joined: 14/05/2009
Posts: 867

Message Posted:
04/01/2010 11:36

You can block him from texting and emailing and ask everyone who he's bothering to do the same. He will only keep it up as long as he is getting a response. In the meantime let the police know whats going on anyway. After that its getting some big boys to take him for a drive and have a ''chat'' with him.



Where abouts are you.

Trudy


Joined: 25/05/2009
Posts: 369

Message Posted:
04/01/2010 11:39

Im in Scotland. He is still there. The problem is that he has certain stuff on me which he is threatening to release if i dont answer his calls which is why i haven't changed my number as yet. I didnt really want to mention it but i suppose it sounds like quite a small problem if i dont. Its blackmail at its lowest form.

Trudy


Joined: 25/05/2009
Posts: 369

Message Posted:
04/01/2010 11:40

If anyone knows some "big boys" feel free to send them round!

nurseawful



Joined: 06/02/2009
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Message Posted:
04/01/2010 11:41

Trudy,

Go to the police in Scotland (where I presume you still are) they take this kind of thing seriously



Let Turkcell know what is going on as well.



If that doesn't work get a big friend over here to go and see him with a warning..

Trudy


Joined: 25/05/2009
Posts: 369

Message Posted:
04/01/2010 11:44

Thanks Nurse, i plan on going to the police today.



Didn't think about Turkcell, ill drop them a line today too.



Thanks for your help, its a bit embarrassing really but had to say something to get the advice.



Unfortunately the only proper big boy i know is in jail otherwise that would have been the perfect solution.

Vidal


Joined: 14/05/2009
Posts: 867

Message Posted:
04/01/2010 11:46

I'd weigh up what it is he can 'release' and what real harm would it do you. Just hurt your pride or do you real damage?

If it's just your pride then let him do his worst. Once he gets 'permission' from you he probably wont bother anyway.

He'll be the one who looks the fool in the end. Just ignore him as long as he cant physically hurt you.

Trudy


Joined: 25/05/2009
Posts: 369

Message Posted:
04/01/2010 11:59

thanks guys xx

Activator


Joined: 23/12/2009
Posts: 44

Message Posted:
04/01/2010 12:40

Hi Trudy



I know the score here and it took a while to sort out. Firstly inform your local police. Try to record/document texts,phone calls etc. Forward anything you have to the TRNC london. They will eventually get this to the crime squad in Nicosia. Eventually it gets through. My sister in law has had death threats since since she broke up with this particulat Turk. Here is a quote below.



'u dont know turkis people verywell if sameone alse hurt turkis people honur going to pay badly'



My e-mail is andrew.cloughly@hotmail.co.uk .



We are good friend with the TRNC CID. When we go to Cyprus they make sure that we are protected.



E-mail me for more info.

Brinsley


Joined: 04/04/2009
Posts: 6858

Message Posted:
04/01/2010 12:42

Bazooka the bully!



Richard

MsGarnet


Joined: 04/01/2009
Posts: 989

Message Posted:
04/01/2010 12:43

I would tell bully boy you will take the texts and show the Police and give them his full name and address and all details in TRNC, plus a picture of him; if he then tries to come over, he will be stopped at the Airport (no idea if that is true or not - but he won't now). Blackmail should be taken seriously, and as to the embarrassing thing, we have all done things we aren't terribly proud of - it is the human element - some of us get found out, some of us don't - I would ride it out - and IF pictures or a video or somesuch becomes known to a friend or relative - just say - it was a mistake, I'm human - and change the subject - IF a friend disowns you for it - they weren't a friend in the first place.......if he does come over-remind him, his details are known, so should any harm come to you - the Police will find him first......DON'T let this ruin your life - move on - leave it behind......

Activator


Joined: 23/12/2009
Posts: 44

Message Posted:
04/01/2010 13:15

Hi again



The more posts i read the more I think I know this guy. Doesn't come from ozankoy by any chance.

vikingqueen



Joined: 07/02/2009
Posts: 241

Message Posted:
04/01/2010 13:21

Hi Trudy... if u can prove u lived here and you know this persons Kimlik Card and that this person still lives here, then the Police will help you, get a friend to go to The police on your behalf

honestie


Joined: 22/02/2009
Posts: 468

Message Posted:
04/01/2010 16:09

you can go to the police where you live and under the harrassment act make a statement in respect of everything that has happened and they will be able to get information from your mobile company of the calls etc you are receiving as this will be used as evidence. If the person concerned was in the UK the police would verbaly warn him and record the warning that he has not to contact you again . If ignored this then he would be arrested and an injunction obtained. If the threats were serious enough then he wouldnt be warned he would just be arrested and an immediate injunction applied for. The harressment act brought this under the criminal system as well as the civil system and as such means it can be dealt with by the police which is a quicker way.



I am not sure if this applies in Scotland but if it does then you must insist to the police that they take it seriously.



The police should then send it off to the relevent authorities for the police here in cyprus to deal with.

racoonchic



Joined: 17/11/2008
Posts: 3223

Message Posted:
04/01/2010 16:27

name and shame let him show the pics or watever it is he has on you hes no better for his involvment get his mother or father involved embarras him and he should crawl back under his rock better still post his no on here and some of us will call him and warn him

everon


Joined: 18/04/2009
Posts: 956

Message Posted:
04/01/2010 16:32

I agree with racoonchic, name and shame him! If people on here know him, he wont like it x

Activator


Joined: 23/12/2009
Posts: 44

Message Posted:
04/01/2010 16:36

Agreed. Name and shame.

harita


Joined: 14/08/2008
Posts: 1343

Message Posted:
04/01/2010 16:43

Activator .. Hope it isn't, who I think, you think it is ..

Moover321


Joined: 11/04/2009
Posts: 649

Message Posted:
04/01/2010 17:09

Trudy:



1. Go to the police and file a compalint - take as much inofrmation as possible including the issue of 'blackmail'.



2. Keep a detailed log of calls, emails and sms's including time, date and content.



3. If you know someone who can go to Turkcell on your behalf - do this a.s.a.p.



4. If you know someone in his family with whom you still have some contact let them know.



5. Hvae a look at this site and others:



http://www.thesite.org/homelawandmoney/law/victims/phoneharassment



Good luck!

Activator


Joined: 23/12/2009
Posts: 44

Message Posted:
04/01/2010 17:54

Yes I hope it is not who you think I think it is.

TRNCVaughan


Joined: 27/04/2008
Posts: 4578

Message Posted:
04/01/2010 19:00

Right. I hope it's not who I think, we think you think she thinks it is. That would be unthinkable.

I think..

Baspinar Bob


Joined: 15/02/2008
Posts: 618

Message Posted:
04/01/2010 19:07

I thought that.



Bob.

yorgozlu



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Message Posted:
04/01/2010 19:08

msg 22

harita


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Posts: 1343

Message Posted:
04/01/2010 21:21

Stick with your pools Vaughan dont even think about it ..