Who is interested in the opinion of an anonymous nobody?

hattikins


Joined: 17/02/2008
Posts: 2793

Message Posted:
29/04/2010 18:12

The above post was made by a regular member of this forum, can anyone tell me just what constitutes an anonymous nobody ?

I have a nickname, so do others

I display my email address, some do, some don't.

My marital status is declared.

My location is declared.

My age is declared.

Is there anything else I need to put in my profile, my blood group perhaps or my favourite singer, or am I just a nobody who should keep my opinions to myself and allow the bullies to rule the board and continue to insult anyone who dares to disagree with them.

Hilltop



Joined: 28/04/2008
Posts: 636

Message Posted:
29/04/2010 18:16

Hatti, we have had cross words and for that I apologise. I would ignore the sad cloggy and enjoy posting. You have declared much more than most!

jamestalbot


Joined: 20/12/2009
Posts: 958

Message Posted:
29/04/2010 18:17

Maybe they want your bra size or inside leg measurement, just ignore these bullies.



Regards



james

Tootie


Joined: 28/08/2008
Posts: 2037

Message Posted:
29/04/2010 18:23

Oh dear.

Izzet, I think we need a playground supervisor !

britvic



Joined: 05/09/2008
Posts: 3039

Message Posted:
29/04/2010 18:26

Tootie, I think the playground supervisor was needed earlier on when that statement was made.

minertor



Joined: 14/02/2009
Posts: 1238

Message Posted:
29/04/2010 18:29

Don't let it bother you Hat..Most of us react to insults, some to criticism, fewer still to those who disagree with them. Then there's the one or two who like to bully. Ignore him, he's just insecure.



Tony

hattikins


Joined: 17/02/2008
Posts: 2793

Message Posted:
29/04/2010 18:34

Tootie

I asked a question, if you don't have an answer why not just butt out.

hattikins


Joined: 17/02/2008
Posts: 2793

Message Posted:
29/04/2010 18:40

Hilltop

Apology accepted, thank you, no hard feelings I hope.

Tootie


Joined: 28/08/2008
Posts: 2037

Message Posted:
29/04/2010 18:48

Hattkins. The answer is obvious is it not?

hattikins


Joined: 17/02/2008
Posts: 2793

Message Posted:
29/04/2010 18:52

Message 9, what are you on about , if you have nothing to add to this post why not go and find something useful to do

Codger


Joined: 03/04/2009
Posts: 153

Message Posted:
29/04/2010 19:00

Well said hattikins, the Dutch national in question is an incecure person attempting to assert himself by his constant correcting of other persons posts and his attempts at trying to be superior. Please do not think he is typical of the Dutch people because he is not, I have lived for a time over there and I found the Dutch in general to be charming people the exact opposite of what DC tries to be.

Post 4 is a typical cretinous reply to a subject either beyond them or they do not agree with, all to prevalent on this board.

The above is why I do not post anymore and next week I am off back to the UK and so will be away and out of it all.

Good Luck to you all.



Codger

Tootie


Joined: 28/08/2008
Posts: 2037

Message Posted:
29/04/2010 19:19

This really is childish behaviour between grow adults... and does nothing for the forum.

Re msg's 2,3 and 6. They all say "Ignore" him.

That's you answer. Surely your mature enough to realise that. (no offence intended)!



But why you feel the need to give me attitude in Msg's 7 & 10 I don't know?



In your profile it says: "Attitude is infectious, is yours worth catching." ?

I'm not on anyone's side here but its really is playground mentality.

Brinsley


Joined: 04/04/2009
Posts: 6858

Message Posted:
29/04/2010 19:20

Codger Msg 11

The women are crackers too. My first fiance was Dutch!



Richard

hattikins


Joined: 17/02/2008
Posts: 2793

Message Posted:
29/04/2010 19:27

Perhaps so Tootie but when you have been insulted by this * gentleman* as many times as I have you may feel differently. It probably is childish and does nothing for the board, maybe the mods will start enforcing some of the rules when he next insults someone, that would demonstrate to him that it's not acceptable or necessary and is also doing nothing for the board.

Tootie


Joined: 28/08/2008
Posts: 2037

Message Posted:
29/04/2010 19:28

Codger, How wrong you are:

"Post 4 is a typical cretinous reply to a subject either beyond them or they do not agree with, all to prevalent on this board. "



Most of the bulling done on this board is done by older people that should know better.

Very sad indeed.

What is beyond me is how childish it can be between grown adults.

negativenick


Joined: 10/11/2008
Posts: 6023

Message Posted:
29/04/2010 19:36

Hatti - i'm awarding yo the Neg Nick "who gives a kippers" award for your post....



Well done....

hattikins


Joined: 17/02/2008
Posts: 2793

Message Posted:
29/04/2010 20:01

NN, Now talking of anonymous nobodies ...................

wynyardman



Joined: 15/12/2007
Posts: 4580

Message Posted:
29/04/2010 20:03

Eh!



Wyn

daisy dukes


Joined: 06/09/2008
Posts: 3815

Message Posted:
29/04/2010 20:32

Well Hattikins, you are not an anonymous poster to me! I too feel your pain, as i have also had to put up with mocking and mean spiritedness from this person. I would like to say don't let it bother you, but i know from personal experience, that's not alway possible, so instead i shall say....'Chin Up Gal'.....



Hope you feel a bit better x



DD

hattikins


Joined: 17/02/2008
Posts: 2793

Message Posted:
29/04/2010 20:45

Thanks DD,I know you have had your share of insults from this revolting, rude, obnoxious man, he obviously has a lot of friends, and fellow sycophants, both on the board and amongst the mods, otherwise he wouldn't be allowed to continue with his garbage.

It is a sad day indeed when a person cannot hold a different opinion to someone else without having to put up with insults and sarcasm, we are all individuals and have our own thoughts.

But it would appear that unless you fall in line with the majority on here then you will be crucified if you speak out and may just as well give up, as I have done.

britvic



Joined: 05/09/2008
Posts: 3039

Message Posted:
29/04/2010 20:47

I got the wrath of (K)Hans only last week, hit me like a bolt out of the blue, is it just ladies he picks on then?



http://www.cyprus44.com/forums/34932.asp

minertor



Joined: 14/02/2009
Posts: 1238

Message Posted:
29/04/2010 20:56

msg 20; turn it in Hat, you can give it, learn to take it. Dont let that pathetic little twxt beat you. Don't make the mistake that he has friends, he hasn't. He just panders to what he thinks might earn him a kurus or two, Daft Cxnt



Tony

arrry



Joined: 19/08/2008
Posts: 1235

Message Posted:
29/04/2010 21:02

Of course it's only ladies he picks on because he's a bully . They only pick on people that they think are vulnerable . It's good to see that you three don't just sit there and take it .I don't think admin have got a rule for bullying ! They should have !!!

cyprusairsoft



Joined: 22/06/2009
Posts: 2066

Message Posted:
29/04/2010 21:02

cor blimey think ill shoot myself

Jeannie


Joined: 04/08/2009
Posts: 3283

Message Posted:
29/04/2010 21:05

arrry - wouldn't Rule No. 3 incorporate bullying?

cooper


Joined: 23/10/2007
Posts: 3386

Message Posted:
29/04/2010 21:08

Arry, you could argue that bullying falls under rule number 3, ie personal attack - 3. Be Polite

We take the "Be Polite" rule very seriously. We do not tolerate any rudeness. Challenge others' points of view and opinions, but do so respectfully and thoughtfully without insult and personal attack. Any member who is intentionally unpleasant or disruptive may be banned without warning.



Cooper

cooper


Joined: 23/10/2007
Posts: 3386

Message Posted:
29/04/2010 21:09

I must have read your mind Jean )

hattikins


Joined: 17/02/2008
Posts: 2793

Message Posted:
29/04/2010 21:10

Arry

I don't think any of the admin rules apply to this person for some reason.

By the way, vulnerable I am not, p****d off maybe but I've had worse than this stupid little to contend with in my life, I've just had enough of his crap though, he can have the board all to himself and roll about like a pebble in a can.



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DutchCrusader



Joined: 19/05/2008
Posts: 11281

Message Posted:
29/04/2010 21:21

Unbelievable. A whole thread for the prattlers united.



FORUM ADMIN

No apology then?



Harold2555

spider


Joined: 03/01/2009
Posts: 5527

Message Posted:
29/04/2010 21:21

just respond with a polite NAFF OFF,we cant take everything to heart,I remember when i first started on here what with DC.and the Ms and maybe a few others giving snide rude insults at me i could well have given up,and i also recall why i first started to post too. )) ,All water off a Spiders back..and when i have been away to long friends have asked after me,so i know i am liked also.and with the number of members who log onto the forum one is bound to be insulted from time to time.So a good old Naff off should tell them,no need to be further nasty as it shows that you are bringing yourself down to their poor standards..Chin up Hats,keep smiling. ))





Spider,X

No1Doyen


Joined: 04/07/2008
Posts: 16617

Message Posted:
29/04/2010 21:28

I note that the other thread has now been closed. I've not been on the forum much of today however I have read both threads and firstly I would like to apologise to all the members on here because quite frankly I feel that we have let you down.



Rule 3 Clearly states Be Polite

We take the "Be Polite" rule very seriously. We do not tolerate any rudeness. Challenge others' points of view and opinions, but do so respectfully and thoughtfully without insult and personal attack. Any member who is intentionally unpleasant or disruptive may be banned without warning.



However it would appear that we have fell short of your expectations in dealing with members who sometimes 'go off the rails' and post in an impolite manner.



We take all the rules seriously but, without trying to give an excuse for our lack of attention to these rules, there are times during the day when there are no admin on here. continued...

arrry



Joined: 19/08/2008
Posts: 1235

Message Posted:
29/04/2010 21:29

Hatti ...................... I think it's called " immunity "



Maybe he's doing something for somebody !

No1Doyen


Joined: 04/07/2008
Posts: 16617

Message Posted:
29/04/2010 21:35

Hattikins. I whole heartedly apologise to you personally and if it is some consolation it will not happen again.



Britvic. I have looked over the thread you gave a link to and quite honestly I do feel that the posts between Hans and yourself were just 'banter' and nothing else.



Finally please be assured that despite the fact that some members do put themselves out to help others in the community, impoliteness will not be tolerated - by anyone.



I hope I have gone someway to alleviating your concerns regarding the occasional 'bullying' that does happen on here now and again.



Hope you all have a very good evening.

arrry



Joined: 19/08/2008
Posts: 1235

Message Posted:
29/04/2010 21:40

Fair play to you Bill ...............

Tootie


Joined: 28/08/2008
Posts: 2037

Message Posted:
29/04/2010 21:45

It amazes me that the "adult" members involved with this immature behaviour need to be reminded by a simple rule of being polite towards others!



Good call Bill for being the playground monitor.

cooper


Joined: 23/10/2007
Posts: 3386

Message Posted:
29/04/2010 21:46

Bill you cant be expected to man the forum 24/7 so you shouldn't feel personally responsible.



PS welcome to prattlers united, but you will have to make do with a seat on the bench )



Cooper

jamestalbot


Joined: 20/12/2009
Posts: 958

Message Posted:
29/04/2010 21:48

no1doyen



and DC



Why has this person (DC) been allowed to use his board membership to constantly bully and harass other members, I have always believed in freedom of speech, so why can't this gentleman accept others views without resorting to insults.

Jeannie


Joined: 04/08/2009
Posts: 3283

Message Posted:
29/04/2010 21:48

Cooper



Could you enlighten us as to who's in the actual "squad"



Jean



PS Paul also asked who the manager is?

Rottolover



Joined: 21/06/2009
Posts: 519

Message Posted:
29/04/2010 21:52

No 1, did you not think that post of mine you just removed was fair comment? Why not put it back and let others decide?



I'd have to say that one of the posts allowed to remain contains an ill-disguised obscenity, which is considerably less polite than "prattlers".

No1Doyen


Joined: 04/07/2008
Posts: 16617

Message Posted:
29/04/2010 21:54

Rottolover. I'm trying to cool things down a bit. Your post would have only invited a response.





Hattikins. Would you like the thread to be closed now?

cooper


Joined: 23/10/2007
Posts: 3386

Message Posted:
29/04/2010 21:55

I will let you or Paul pick the squad



I think Gorden Brown could be the manager, his man management skills would come into there own )

Tootie


Joined: 28/08/2008
Posts: 2037

Message Posted:
29/04/2010 21:58

Bill why should it be hattkins choice if the thread is closed?



Come on,

No1Doyen


Joined: 04/07/2008
Posts: 16617

Message Posted:
29/04/2010 21:59

Tootie, to be fair she started the thread.

nurseawful



Joined: 06/02/2009
Posts: 5934

Message Posted:
29/04/2010 22:05

Bill,



I would like it closed as it serves no purpose other than to slag people off and it really does serve NO purpose.



Thank You



Chris

minertor



Joined: 14/02/2009
Posts: 1238

Message Posted:
29/04/2010 22:09

msg 37: because he occasionally helps members, usually to line his pockets. He is , who uses his computer skills to make himself look good. Admittedly, his computer skills are incomparable on this board, but does that give him license to act the way he does? He is a figure to be pitied, so ignore the insults.



Tony



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No1Doyen


Joined: 04/07/2008
Posts: 16617

Message Posted:
29/04/2010 22:09

This thread is now closed. Reason: Thread was addressed and no need for further posts.

No1Doyen


Joined: 04/07/2008
Posts: 16617

Message Posted:
29/04/2010 22:10

This thread is now closed. Reason: Thread was addressed and no need for further posts.

Tootie


Joined: 28/08/2008
Posts: 2037

Message Posted:
29/04/2010 22:13

Yes Bill she did, but for what purpose?



I've said in all my posts in this thread its very childish and I know if I had the forum admin status to close it I would, Because it servers no purpose!



But msg 40: "Hattikins. Would you like the thread to be closed now?"



Bill pls do the right thing, Its getting out of control now.

hattikins


Joined: 17/02/2008
Posts: 2793

Message Posted:
29/04/2010 22:14

Thank you for your response Bill, however you have no need to apologise, it was not you who was rude and insulting.

If you want to close the thread that is fine by me, I will not be commenting again on any matter on the board unless it is to ask for information, directions and the like, I did not join this forum to be harassed for holding an opinion.

No1Doyen


Joined: 04/07/2008
Posts: 16617

Message Posted:
29/04/2010 22:14

This thread is now closed. Reason: Thread was addressed and no need for further posts.