The new facebook like ? ..............

spider


Joined: 03/01/2009
Posts: 5527

Message Posted:
10/05/2011 09:05

Looks very nice up there

But if I click onto it is it another way that I might be joining the facebook group on here ? I am very fussy as to who I invite on my facebook. and to be for sure.'.ta be sure' ',ta be sure' I do not think I will click the new like

I might end up with the Mrs/Ms G and a few others yennibob phibaily but to name a few that sure seem hell bent on stalking me and giving me a hard time of things..Such is life on 44..





Spider,X

MaggieAndBernie



Joined: 26/07/2008
Posts: 2012

Message Posted:
10/05/2011 09:18

Maria you can set up your FB privacy so that only your friends can see your stuff - when someone asks to be your friend you can decide whether to accept them or not!



Maggie x

spider


Joined: 03/01/2009
Posts: 5527

Message Posted:
10/05/2011 09:54

Maggie I understand that when it is for individuals..I can decide if I would like to have them..But as a group thing are all on the group page able to join in and see your page ?

Don,t get me wrong if the above people were to request me I would have them lol... But my facebook as you know is to do with REAL people and REAL names..and thats how we have facebook FRIENDS...Some on here are just not for REAL I would love for some on here to get to know me and see me for who I am. But far too many on here are not for REAL ! Facebook keeps me in contact with my friends and family back home its very important to me.





Spider,X

MsGarnet


Joined: 04/01/2009
Posts: 989

Message Posted:
11/05/2011 17:18

Spider/Maria - First/final warning. To accuse a person of being a stalker is at best the rhetoric of an hysterical personality, the embodiment of distinctive traits of the mind and behaviour of an attention seeker looking to others for validation; at worst - LIBELLOUS! This is your response to I and others on C44 asking what your qualifications are, prompted by your profile. A USA site explaining CBT, and the renowned post-grad Tavistock Clinic, neither link illustrating a connection with you, but following your post you'd worked in the NHS for 35 years; when asked in what capacity, you left the thread (your usual MO), yet you will agree, a legitimate enquiry, prompted by your offering help to distressed or disturbed people on C44, looking for support. As an accredited Trauma Counsellor, and bearing in mind past posts of yours (in many contexts) it raised professional concern. The fact I and others occasionally post in the same threads before or after you, does NOT a stalker make.

MsGarnet


Joined: 04/01/2009
Posts: 989

Message Posted:
11/05/2011 17:19

Continued: Only yesterday in England, a stalker killed a young woman, so I request you retract your accusation immediately (others you named must decide their own response). Water finds its own level; you and I will never meet, but to verbalise you are being given "a hard time of things" merely due to being asked to confirm what you imply on this public forum, is incongruous. Recently you said you were going to cease posting, yet must have posted fifty times since! Such theatrics aren't necessary, diversity is what makes life interesting, but in this thread, you at one and the same time, fear us having access to your Facebook, yet say if we requested, you would invite us to join! That says it all.

Zoots


Joined: 05/02/2011
Posts: 669

Message Posted:
11/05/2011 19:25

Anyone touting for business who supplies links to organisations without explanation, then refuses to give their own professional qualifications, is at risk of being labelled a fraud and a charlatan.

The simple solution is to say: "Certificate in A from B college, diploma in C from D institute, degree in E from F university.

A court of law would rule on "credibility and reliability" every time, and I know what the judgement would be here.

spider


Joined: 03/01/2009
Posts: 5527

Message Posted:
11/05/2011 19:44

Why oh why do you all insist on constantly repeating yourselves. I have stated before that I have a diploma that took me a very long 4 yrs to achieve and have worked in the Mental health team. Group therapist facilitator, individual etc,etc. I have no intention of explaining my whole working life experience again and again..Its a very long history is 35yrs..



As you state we will never meet so end of ! you can continue as you please...........Because those that know me,those that need to see me.Know all and thats all that matter to me.I hide nothing and I have nothing to hide



Have a good evening Spider,X.

spider


Joined: 03/01/2009
Posts: 5527

Message Posted:
11/05/2011 19:55

And for those that need a reminder there is a group that meets each week. Here is a reminder.



http://www.cyprus44.com/forums/49362.asp



And for the people who I see on a regular basis you understand not to take any notice things will continue to remain the same



Spider,X

nurseawful



Joined: 06/02/2009
Posts: 5934

Message Posted:
11/05/2011 20:15

Maria aka Spider cc. Ms garnet and Zoots,



Only one way to settle this is for Spider to, not list her qualifications, (she has done) but for her to let everyone know where she was/ is registered.



Sorry Maria if I have pushed you into a corner but no other way for you to get peace!



Chris

spider


Joined: 03/01/2009
Posts: 5527

Message Posted:
11/05/2011 20:24

Chris you have not pushed me at all my dear...And neither have the others You Chris know how to find me if you wish to have a chat.'' Remember all problems can be resolved''. I do not have the problem here.And you know I have nothing to hide. I have peace in my life and for that I will always be thankful.







Spider,X

nurseawful



Joined: 06/02/2009
Posts: 5934

Message Posted:
11/05/2011 20:31

Spider why put up with all the hassle just give them the info they need. I will not put my PIN on a public forum but if anyone wants my details (which I am sure I e-mailed you) they can have them.



Chris

p.s. please don't call anyone including me 'dear' it is so condescending.

spider


Joined: 03/01/2009
Posts: 5527

Message Posted:
11/05/2011 20:43

Chris this is a forum and as you know some are just double ids..at to me they are just peoples ego;s Lets start again..Dear Chris we have spoken often and in-boxed too.People who need to see my details ''DO''..end of. Love..





Spider,X

Zoots


Joined: 05/02/2011
Posts: 669

Message Posted:
11/05/2011 20:46

Msg 11:"p.s. please don't call anyone including me 'dear' it is so condescending."

I wouldn't let it bother you, pet. ;)

nurseawful



Joined: 06/02/2009
Posts: 5934

Message Posted:
11/05/2011 20:50

Zoots,



You have got to be a 'Geordie' as they call everyone 'pet'!



Chris

Tootie


Joined: 28/08/2008
Posts: 2037

Message Posted:
11/05/2011 21:01

you all have me legs a going.

Zoots


Joined: 05/02/2011
Posts: 669

Message Posted:
11/05/2011 21:23

Msg 14,

I'm the one in the gold suit:

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=mG79-FSQ7hQ

PaulW



Joined: 20/07/2009
Posts: 651

Message Posted:
11/05/2011 21:27

Chris - message 14.



I think you'll find "Zoots" is one your fellow countrymen?



Paul

spider


Joined: 03/01/2009
Posts: 5527

Message Posted:
11/05/2011 21:34

I think we have all forgotten the topic Facebook and Ms G I would except you on my facebook but not the whole 44 facebook group..there are over 600 odd members You Mrs G would be on for 5 mins to look and then my dear you would be deleted.



Please stay on topic





Spider,X

nurseawful



Joined: 06/02/2009
Posts: 5934

Message Posted:
11/05/2011 21:35

message 17,



You mean he comes from Lapta??



Chris

Zoots


Joined: 05/02/2011
Posts: 669

Message Posted:
11/05/2011 22:03

Shhh! He doesn't know!

rowlo



Joined: 12/10/2008
Posts: 4796

Message Posted:
11/05/2011 22:06

whats going on here ?

spider


Joined: 03/01/2009
Posts: 5527

Message Posted:
11/05/2011 22:09

Its nice to be important but its important to be nice...and rowlo thats all you need to know





PS..I have my youtube on playing the old one Saturday love...and its got me legs a going all over the place







Spider,X

rowlo



Joined: 12/10/2008
Posts: 4796

Message Posted:
11/05/2011 22:14

well im off to joes for a fish supper , a might have a pint in the brig first ,

MsGarnet


Joined: 04/01/2009
Posts: 989

Message Posted:
11/05/2011 23:00

Msg 18. NO Spider/Maria, the topic has NOT been forgotten! YOU started this (as per...) by accusing ME and others of "stalking" you, apropos NOTHING whatsoever to do with enquiring how to facilitate a Facebook Group page - your very first post was intended as personal attacks under the guise of not understanding how Facebook works. At the risk of sounding like a pedantic grammarian, I suggest you look up the meaning of "stalker". As to you being prepared to "except" (sic) me on your personal Facebook (volte face surely)? you forget I put on another thread, when unable to view a missing dog's photograph, that I will never join Facebook - I don't feel the need. Any member here can look at all my past postings on a variety of topics (as they can yours)! and decide for themselves their position. You recall my zeal when Ersem trading was being bullied on this public forum, with no attempt made at private resolution. I detest bullies, and await your retraction and apology - I am serious

Scoty


Joined: 23/05/2010
Posts: 846

Message Posted:
11/05/2011 23:05

Msg 24 - think it may be a long wait. Don't see many apologies on here - only counter accusations.Best of luck

rowlo



Joined: 12/10/2008
Posts: 4796

Message Posted:
11/05/2011 23:05

well , had my fish supper , but there is obviously more meat on here than whats in a gilmours steak pie ?

spider


Joined: 03/01/2009
Posts: 5527

Message Posted:
11/05/2011 23:17

rowlo did you have a good plain piece with ya supper tonight...I just love Scottish Plain.Please bring me one over next time..



Its nice to be important but its important to be nice



P.S Mr/Mrs /Ms G'' whatever'' And I believe nothing you say about yourself.



Spider,X



Remember rule 3 please , i have deleted part of your post , call a person that is uncalled for .

Simbas

MsGarnet


Joined: 04/01/2009
Posts: 989

Message Posted:
12/05/2011 01:35

Grasp of the English language, use of (or lack of) profanity - stating one's case in an articulate manner as opposed to resorting to puerile polemics - the reader can make their own mind up who is credible and who is, perhaps, under the influence of some form of chemical intervention?



I would refer back to the initial post in this thread - as to why I require a retraction/apology.



It would have bolstered the attacker's case if they had posted fulsome (indeed - ANY)! evidence of supposed stalking - but that would be putting hope over experience in their case........empty vessels - et cetera........

spider


Joined: 03/01/2009
Posts: 5527

Message Posted:
12/05/2011 06:18

Blooming ell old G are you still AT IT Give it rest love you could do yourself some harm with excessive compulsive disorder on this Spider thing Here !

You remind me so very must of a bitter and twisted ex-member of our team we once had back home..A social worker named Wendy Jenkins. The mental health team did not want the likes of her in their team so social services had no choice but to pull her back into their team as they employed her...needless to say after just a few months she was dismissed !! She had a wee saying that was over heard one day..Make the team unworkable !! She sure tried her very very sick best,but in the end it DID NOT WORK. Now the'' please'' stop showing yourself up..Why ever would I apologise your the first to jump on.....I drink Tea my dear we just love our TEA. Bring on the slander suing or whatever.But you always help in bringing my threads BTTT,so thanks for that

Spider X PS.You hide all your details..I do not.you are an ego...thats all

MaggieAndBernie



Joined: 26/07/2008
Posts: 2012

Message Posted:
12/05/2011 08:42

Cor Spidey! I hope for your sake a certain Wendy Jenkins isn't reading this! lol x

MsGarnet


Joined: 04/01/2009
Posts: 989

Message Posted:
12/05/2011 10:58

"excessive compulsive disorder" hehehehehehehe - it's no good, I can't type for laughing - oh dear - hehehehe - is this a new psychological disorder? hehehehehehehe........no good - can't type now - but thank you so much for giving me the best laugh I have had in ages.....hehehehehehehe

DutchCrusader



Joined: 19/05/2008
Posts: 11281

Message Posted:
12/05/2011 11:01

It looks like some of the "professionals" in this thread need real professional help themselves.

spider


Joined: 03/01/2009
Posts: 5527

Message Posted:
12/05/2011 11:19

Maggie.. I do not give two blooming hoots



Message 31 Mr/Mrs/Ms G.....Thank goodness for'' THAT''...Your first ever'' light hearted'' post,keep it up laughter feeds the soul. Keep some music on too it gets you dancing another way to bring joy into your life



Remember its nice to be important but its important to be NICE....





Spider,X

hattikins


Joined: 17/02/2008
Posts: 2793

Message Posted:
12/05/2011 11:34

I have tried to keep up but what the hell this post is about is well beyond my understanding, garbage and more garbage, if anyone does understand could they please post it.

mable


Joined: 15/04/2011
Posts: 21

Message Posted:
12/05/2011 17:04

what is up with you ms garnet bloody hell

Scoty


Joined: 23/05/2010
Posts: 846

Message Posted:
12/05/2011 17:07

If this thread is what facebook is all about - glad I didn't join

simbas



Joined: 16/07/2007
Posts: 5943

Message Posted:
12/05/2011 17:26

Msg 27 , post edited as per reason .



Spider , MsGarnet ,this really needs to be sorted between you , off board .

mable


Joined: 15/04/2011
Posts: 21

Message Posted:
12/05/2011 18:28

totally agree with you simbas there suposed to be grown ups

spider


Joined: 03/01/2009
Posts: 5527

Message Posted:
12/05/2011 18:38

simbas I totally agree..their is no need for any of this utter rubbish. She/he seems quite excessive to the point of obsession and fixation on all of my posting.Yet here again we have the same old situation. Its pointless yet she/he knows how to contact me..

Yet it continues.





Spider,X

Scoty


Joined: 23/05/2010
Posts: 846

Message Posted:
12/05/2011 18:39

And professionals

mable


Joined: 15/04/2011
Posts: 21

Message Posted:
12/05/2011 18:41

im with spider ms garnet seems hell bent on not giving up perhaps grow up would be more appropiate dear

spider


Joined: 03/01/2009
Posts: 5527

Message Posted:
12/05/2011 18:45

Scoty it may not be the case here..I am able to show anyone who needs to see..anything and hide nothing.





I am also happy for the thread to be closed as I was the one who started the thread. It might as well get removed also..But hay I have received a number of calls and email because of the link posted.So all in all it has not been such a waste of a thread..



Spider,X Remember its nice to be important but its important to be NICE

Scoty


Joined: 23/05/2010
Posts: 846

Message Posted:
12/05/2011 18:48

msg 42 - mods - the offer is there to close this by the originator?

How many posts follow ? Why ?

MsGarnet


Joined: 04/01/2009
Posts: 989

Message Posted:
12/05/2011 18:51

I am pleased at LAST to see administrator intervention, and profess surprise it has taken so long. Clearly, the purpose of the thread (under the guise of not understanding Facebook, to which she belongs)! was to accuse me and others of stalking Spider. You will agree Simbas, to accuse someone of being a stalker is serious;a sinister nefarious action that would/could, in other hands, result in litigation. On the one hand I obviously (considering the protagonist) treat it with the contempt it deserves; Spider feeling intimidated says everything about her, nothing about me - but on the other hand - anyone accused of stalking, would do as I have done - asked for proof (which you will NEVER get from Spider). I would invite you and any other reader to look at ALL my posts since I joined, and that of Spider, and reach your own conclusion. As to spelling 'obsessive' as "excessive", oh dear - have laughed all day - like shooting fish in a barrel, but I'm bored of it now, it's been too easy

spider


Joined: 03/01/2009
Posts: 5527

Message Posted:
12/05/2011 18:56

Come on they my dear...Let all of 44 see you in action the offer is to take me to court for slander







Bring on..and let them see. Tsk...(shaking my head )





Spider,X

simbas



Joined: 16/07/2007
Posts: 5943

Message Posted:
12/05/2011 18:57

This thread is now closed.



Reason: Thread was serving no purpose , went against board rule 3 went off topic

Simbas