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dorothea


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What are the views of members regarding the wearing of vests by men who dine out in the evening.

Do you think that it is appropriate.



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yes....a t shirt vest is acceptable.......women wear t shirt vests, so why shouldnt a man



nothing on top is not acceptable



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It's ok in the afternoons but I always wear a Tshirt not vest in the evenings.Depending on the venue I have been known to wear short sleeved shirt,against my will.It isn't etiquette it's manners.



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It depends a lot on the location of the premises and what sort of clientele it serves and to some extent the time.



Do you mean vest as in sleeveless under-vest type thing?



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I always wear my Rab C. Nesbitt vest when dining out at the colony.



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Men wearing vests... how gay is that?

Who wants to see hairy oxters whilst dining? Not me, not you I hope.



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Hi Groucho,



Totally agree with you, men should always wear t shirts with sleeves. or shirts when eating out in the evening.





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Totally agree with Groucho. Mens sweaty armpits - yuk!!!!! Some things are best covered up. Vests only really look good on young fit people - imho.



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msg 8 "Men's sweaty armpit's-yuk"



Quite agree, but the same should apply to many of the Ladies of a "Hirsute" persuasion that one sees dinning out at various establishments...Enough to put you right off your gastronomic delights ...



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I don't mind what they wear as long as it is something. I detest going out and being confronted by some big tattooed man and his beer belly yuck!



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Blimey where do you see this in the evenings chris?



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No not appropriate,and I certainly would not sit next to them! and yuk describes it well.



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Have to agree with its a NO from me. I have asked men before who came in to the restaurant in a vest and shorts to please go a cover up if they wish to be served. Most did funnily enough x



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Good for you Lilli, I think its a mark of respect to cover up a little when eating out..



Most men like to wear a short sleeved shirt when eating out of an evening , its only a few that don't have pride in themselves...



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Groucho, message 6.



Oxters !!!! Haven't heard that word for years. Brilliant. I won't tell anyone what memories that word invoked.



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Vests are daywear as far as I am concerned, Tshirts or short sleeved shirts of an evening.I would also wear long pants or them calf lenghthed thingies of an evening never shorts.It's only after I am well oiled and dancing on the tables that the clothes come off.



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no vests , t shirts fine vests are for blackpool beach with the knotted hanky , sandals with white socks , etc etc , no man should be exposing his oxters while people are eating .



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My wife wouldn't let me...



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Let's hope that we all take pride in our appearance and don't let the side down.



to a US customer a vest is a waistcoat I think



shall we don them chaps?



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IMHO if I saw a bloke wearing a vest in any dining establishment I entered, I would leave immediately - such an establishment is clearly not charging enough for its services



Lilli



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brother i don't even think its about the establishment, you would never see any one else from Europe doing it, only sadly Brits. I can tell you no up market place in UK would. However I came back here late last night to Larnaca and most men shorts and vests and tattoos xxxxx



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Let's hope that the men who do wear vests as evening dining out gear will take the opinions and comments of the members on board and realize that it is not the done thing.



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Don't think the men who wear this gear out of a night into eating houses would be necessarily reading a forum! don't think they can read!....



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I have tatoos



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here we go again typical english move to another country and then impose our ideas onto others. leave the english way back in england and respect the new ways here. coform. vests deffo no what next total uncouth men belching next hankercheif on head. wise up and show respect.



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Hi Lilli, I know that it's just too easy to single out Brits (men & women) for not being able to look as "good" as some other nationals in hot weather but I was just hinting at what may be one way of keeping vest wearing men out of a dining establishment. Clearly some restaurants want the custom whatever the customer looks like but a lot of customers want to eat in pleasant surroundings - otherwise they would have stayed at home and kept their vest on ;-).



Interesting that some people know how to dress relaxed without appearing like the laundry basket on legs whilst some don't.



"Simples" (referring to a UK based "Inshuurance" advert): if you are a bloke just wear at least a short-sleeved shirt with a collar up top and trousers when dining in a restaurant in the evening. You will still be comfortable and who knows.....may even look attractive 8->



Marion


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It's about time this island had a dress code, as does Malta and other places. whether morning, afternoon and evening, there are certain modes of dress that are acceptable without causing offence. Seeing bikini bras walking down the high street (admittedly with shorts or skirts) I find offensiv e and know in the eyes of locals it is unacceptable.

Bring back respect and a bit of glamour. Everyone feels better and looks better. Nothing to do with heat - look what they wear in places such as India - covered up and gorgeous.

so in answer to message 1 - no, no, no to vests - except on the beach!



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I don't find bikini tops and shorts offensive.



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As I've said before - about other subjects - it's all a matter of standards. Sadly there are many here who haven't got a clue how to behave.



It's not that long ago that there was a notice in Girne police station - immigration dept - telling people that if they turned up ''improperly dressed'' they would be turned away. Interestingly the notice was only in English.



During the summer months it is not unusual to see big fat lumps of Brit shopper sin supermarkets wandering round stripped to the waist, sweating like pigs. Why don't the management of these establishments turf them out.....? It's enough to put one off one's lunch/dinner!



Marion


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Hear, hear, Trooper. Still the good side is that seeing these folk in the supermarkets puts one off one's food, and with a waistline that needs decreasing, (mine, I mean) , these folk are doing me a favour - but yes, they should not be allowed in the shop. The notice from the Police Station should be in all public places - and of course, it shows who the offenders are by the language used. Shame on we Brits.



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Wasn't there a request last year (forget which town) here in England by a local school board, asking mothers NOT to walk their children into school, whilst wearing their pyjamas, slippers and hair rollers, as it set a bad example to the school children.........



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MsGarnet not sure if this is the same new story you were referring to but its the same in principal.



http://www.bbc.co.uk/news/uk-england-tees-13511668



Head teacher appeal to school run 'pyjama parents'



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the price of the property and the dodgy land issue - the place was never going to attract the elite, was it ??



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Msg 33





Please give it a rest, You used to be funny with your posts but now you are just plain boring.



When out and about in town I sometimes cringe when I see how some people both male and female dress



Women with short skirts and bikini tops and men with shorts and nothing on top. Don't they realise



that this is a muslim country? Maybe I am an old fuddy duddy but I always wear crops or long trousers



when going to town and keep the shorts for home. We are guests here and should show some respect.





The butlers wife



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Well Said N N ....



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If you eat out in a good restaurant - where the decor, food and prices reflect its above average - then a vest is unsuitable. When ladies take care to dress up and look good its an insult, to her, if the man accompanies her in a T shirt and bermudas/cut offs/football strip etc. Just a bit of common sense is required - sweaty dollops of lard exposed to the elements are not de rigeur for say House or Niazis or whatever 44ers favourite restaurant is.



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NN, I distinctly remember you grabbing your partner's boobs giving them a good jiggle and declaring them 'money well spent'..... in Tumba restaurant... hardly the behaviour of the 'elite' was it? And let's remember the irony of the fact that you once chose to buy here and take your statement for what it is.



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MsGarnet. Is the post about eating out in a vest in NC or UK?



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Lilli, msg 10 - I am more upset by the big, tattooed, beer bellied, foul-mouthed women than the men.



Seriously, its lovely to dress for dinner. Wish it was a requirement for clientele to dress appropriately to gain admission to eateries.



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Message 34..."..a muslim country"...As far as I know Turkey and TRNC are secular states.



Places such as Oman or Saudi etc. can be classed as muslim countries.



Regarding the topic...I think vests in the evening are fine in some places but not others. As has been stated by others, the restaurants etc should be able to determine what they want.



Personally I always wear a shirt with a collar and long trousers...but after 23 years in Oman I would, wouldn't I.



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What ever happened to Dorothea, she started the thread and disappeared, what are her views I would like to know?



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IMHO



I think its a british thing.



French,italians,swedish,fins,crouts,cyps.



All tend to dress for the evenings



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NOT all Brits, why generalise, I am sure that other countries have their bit of rough also!



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Wearing a vest does not have to mean rough.



You cannot read a book by its cover.



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Mess 42 I think you have a point, The British dress very poorly compared with other European countries, we also appear to like to take as many clothes off as possible as soon as any sun is about.



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0maintenance

It does when it's a man...



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Sorry jimchris09,



I must be hearing things when I hear the call to prayer from the local mosque then!!! Perhaps I am seeing things when I see all the ladies in their headscarfs and long clothes??? It may not be as strict as other middle eastern countries but it is still muslim and should be respected as such.





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Message 45



You see some terrible sights because of this, don't you? I always have a good chuckle at the tourists walking along in just shorts...turning a nice shade of boiled lobster red!



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I would bring back the Birch..................



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A lot of men abroad seem to dress less sensibly compared to when they are 'at home'......going topless or worse still wearing ill fitting shorts that do not do their 'figure' any justice. Shudder the thought!



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Personally i like to wear a short sleeve shirt at night, but there seems to be a lot of snobs on this thread.



I don't see a problem with wearing a pair of shorts in 35 degree heat.



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no one questioned the shorts , or the short sleeve shirt , it was vests that are in question msg 51 ?



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Snob = having dress sense and not wanting to slob around as you would at home when you go out...yep, I'm a snob!



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If I wanted to go to eat in a nudist colony I would that being my choice but I don't like eating out with people in their underwear.

Vests in England and T shirts in the US are to me both underwear. OK so I'm an old fuddy duddy!



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There are shorts and there are smart shorts. Those england flag shorts make me shudder. Everyday I see it no tops no protection for the heads. Then they get ill.



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wearing something is surely most appropriate.



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Message 47



"I must be hearing things when I hear the call to prayer from the local mosque then!!! Perhaps I am seeing things when I see all the ladies in their headscarfs and long clothes???"



I hear the call to prayer from a local mosque when I'm in Rochdale, UK!



Not ALL the ladies by any means wear headscarfs and long clothes. A very large number wear anything but this type of apparel!



Please note, I agree with the "respect" idea too...I was simply pointing out that to describe TRNC/Turkey as a muslim country is incorrect.



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I hate to see men in vest tops on an evening out. They look much smarter in a shirt either long or

short sleeved. I would think they are just as cool as vest tops.



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One has only to look at people who are used to living in really hot climates and the cotton shirts with sleeves to allow for the wind to blow up the sleeves, up the front and up the back which they wear, or kaftans or nice indian long shirts, to realise that they are far cooler than vests or nakedness. and if you are not sure that is for Cyprus, then take a look at the locals - they must know a thing or two in terms of comfort and ethics.



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If you have a body like mine it is very tempting to wear a vest at all times



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Message 57



Are you on milkstone road then by any chance



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jimchris09,



This afternoon I have had a long discussion with my Turkish Cypriot neighbour, he is about 30 years old and I have asked him if the TRNC is a muslim country. He looked at me in astonishment for asking such a question and his reply was that of course it is a muslim country. The south is christian and the north is muslim and that is fact,

it is not a strict muslim country and he wouldn't wish it to be and that they have very liberal views on lots of things. They enjoy a drink which is forbidden in some muslim countries, however they follow lots of the teachings

of the Koran. Before we retired and moved to the TRNC we worked for a muslim family for 10 years, they were sunny muslims and again were quite liberal. They were a lovely family and taught my husband and I lots of things that we didn't know through ignorance about their faith.





The butlers wife



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Butters wife



that means it is secular (talking in a very slow for you as if you are an idiots voice).



You are a servant to those with more money than you and you are indeed servile (still talking slowly in a you are daft kind of voice).You haven't got an opinion of your own your employers gave it to you.l



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Re message 62, Yes KKTC is Muslim, but do not forget as with Turkey we are a secular nation allowing us to make choices etc!!!!



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it feels muslim to me , same as italy feels catholic ,thailand feels buddhist .no probs ...



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Message 61



No not Milkstone Road...Spotland Road...wanna buy a house?



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don't be 'rude' Roomy. Great Britain is supposed to be 'christian' - hence the royal wedding in a christian establishment, but the nation is secular in its habits, and with many immigrants is a lot of other things as well.

And learning something, whether from a monied boss or at the feet of a uni lecturer (as I did) doesn't mean you are an 'idiot'. I studied Islam but I am not a Muslim, but I do recognise that their ethics, standards etc are definitely Jewish/Christian and most of the comments here have come from such a basis too. something corny about 'Love thy neighbour' or that lovely lady from The Water \Babies 'Mrs Do as you would be done by'.

something to do with human rights and duties?

so need to be rude, but there is plenty of need to try to understand why we have standards and how we should live them, especially in a foreign land. Or put it another way - would you go to Buck House on a hot day wearing a vest!



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The state is secular, the country is predominantly muslim. For me both those statements are correct and not at all contradictory.



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roomy,



I take offence at your suggestion that I am an idiot as I am far from that, I suggest you take a look at yourself and your postings. Why does every thread end up with someone being rude and derogatary?



erolz ms 68



Thank you for your explanation, it is much appreciated.





The butlers wife



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I would hope that most men dress to go out of an evening and a vest is not dressing.



Its like me going out with just my bra !





and a skirt.........





Spider,X



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If it's the house rules then whats the problem, go somewhere else if you don't like it.



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Not so nice when you get what you give back in spades is it?



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Message 68.



Thanks for that Erolz..exactly the point I was trying to make sooo long ago!



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Isn't it fascinating that this thread has received so much interest and comments. It shows that the message No.1 had a good question to ask. As yet, unresolved, but does show that people ARE concerned. good stuff! Innit?



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Seems clear to me - most people feel thet vests snd evening dining don't go.. Men should wrear T shirts at the very least & keep their hairy armpits out of public view



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spider..... flipping eck....... what ever next..... msg 50....



Think it would be one way of clearing a restaurant if all us 'oldies' went in our bras and shorts .... what a laugh ...



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Falling asleep last night and thinking of this (and I didn't have nightmares), the one word that came to mind and which seems to have disappeared from the social scene - or life itself - is ETIQUETTE. Or did that go out with Queen Victoria?



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So if I eat out early evening in a restaurant is it OK to wear flip flops, Knee length shorts and a short sleeve t-shirt ?



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for those upset by the vest wearing diners perhaps the answer is topless dining for the discerning diners in trnc ?



http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=AjWaH79X-o0



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msg 78. As long as you discard the sunglasses and hat.



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It would be interesting to know how many on here who are against the wearing of vests (i would rather they wore a shirt etc ) who would think nothing of blowing smoke into the face of other diners (dont say it,no smoking in pubs clubs etc ) whilst eating or just relaxing and think nothing of it,i have many times seen male/female in their fancy clothes eating in a disgusting manner like pigs at the trough,its down to the owners and staff to stop this ,but when it comes to money,well you know the answer to that.



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rab c nesbitt uuuurgh



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Personally, I think vests on men are not on for eating out in a restaurant and particularly not at night. Tshirt is fine, but not a vest.



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Re : Msg 81,



It is what Marion was writing about - etiquette - not only the word but the notion itself unfamiliar to many these days.



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Saw a guy in a meeting at a Bank but he wasnt wearing a vest he was topless! Used to work for a lawyer and guys used to come in with their vests! Awful.



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What an intersting thread.



A vest inmy opinion is not evening restaurant wear - howver some T-shirt type vests may be considered appropriate by the weare - it is of course 100 % better than men with no tops on !!!! In England I used to make men with no tops on that came intomy hair salon -sit with a hairdressing gown on - it is just not appropriate !!!! anywhere public at anytime !!!!



I find the daytime dress code more inappropriate - how many times do you see women in just their tiny bikini tops and a mini sarong doing there shopping ????? would they walk aroundthe shops at Clacton on Sea like that ???? ( no cos its too cold LOL !!) But seriously this really is quite shocking - and then of course they wander why people are staring at them .



It is an issue that will not be resolved unless establishments stop these people from entering there shops and restaurants.



Anyway just my opinion of course !!!!



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again its all double standards its the pearson, someone wearing a suite can turn out to be a great pain in the arse,

shower gel and deoderant are cheap some one in a shirt of good quality can still stink!!



I dont like to see bikini tops or vests when im eating,



ps lots of you seem to have problems with tattoos, the days are gone when it was only service people and crooks who had them!

few of the old boilers on here could do with a tatoo or two



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well said cyprusairsoft



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Tattoos on the old boilers!!, ......heaven forbid ....



Tattoos look ok for a few years then when male and female hit the 50s you cant see what the tattoo is! as its hanging on loose skin! .. They look terrible, think its as bad as a vests ..



You cant help but look cos its so awful ..lol



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dizzy you know i have the hots for you so going to get a dizzy cow tatooed on my butt lol



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ha ha ha , cant wait to see that lol x



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Steady on Dizzy. That sounds like the bit in Forrest Gump. Remember, where Forrest tells the President he was shot in the but-tocks! And the President says he would like to see that!



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People have been known to wear vests here while dining - bullet-proof vests!



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Msg 66,



"And learning something, whether from a monied boss or at the feet of a uni lecturer (as I did)"



One of my old uni chums did that once and she got a distinction.



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Why some of us think that dress codes are a good idea...



http://www.peopleofwalmart.com/?page_id=9804



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Actually this is the page related to this post (but the others are amazing aren't they?)





http://www.peopleofwalmart.com/?page_id=9804&paged=12



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'Mutton dressed as lamb' is a phrase you don't hear much nowadays, isn't it?



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fur coat & no knickers is another .



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De riguer for Oscar ceremonies now I believe



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Msg 97

That's because it's more like, 'scrag-end dressed as mutton'!



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Sociable attire for the weather conditions



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i agree smity , if it gets a bit cool the fur coat is ok , lmao



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Still no further word from Dorothea, such a shame as it turned out to be a good thread!



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never in a million years would my wife let me go out in a vest or sleavless t shirt.







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For message 103



Light blue touch paper and retire sounded like a good idea.



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Msg. 53 I agree, both you and I must be snobs. The standard of dress in the evenings and in restaurants by a growing number of British men is dropping like a concrete balloon. Why oh why can't they dress like French or Italian men in the evenings, they have style!!



The way that whole families of Brit holiday makers dress when shopping is also obscene, great fat sweaty bright red beer bellies, wobbling up and down the aisles is grotesque and that's just the women. Have they absolutely no pride? No, is the answer.



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