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dorothea

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Message Posted: 16/06/2011 13:03 | Join or Login to Reply | Message 1 of 106 in Discussion |
| What are the views of members regarding the wearing of vests by men who dine out in the evening. Do you think that it is appropriate. |
billyboy1

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Message Posted: 16/06/2011 13:06 | Join or Login to Reply | Message 2 of 106 in Discussion |
| yes....a t shirt vest is acceptable.......women wear t shirt vests, so why shouldnt a man nothing on top is not acceptable |
fatboy


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Message Posted: 16/06/2011 13:15 | Join or Login to Reply | Message 3 of 106 in Discussion |
| It's ok in the afternoons but I always wear a Tshirt not vest in the evenings.Depending on the venue I have been known to wear short sleeved shirt,against my will.It isn't etiquette it's manners. |
Pugwash

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Message Posted: 16/06/2011 13:16 | Join or Login to Reply | Message 4 of 106 in Discussion |
| It depends a lot on the location of the premises and what sort of clientele it serves and to some extent the time. Do you mean vest as in sleeveless under-vest type thing? |
TRNCVaughan

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Message Posted: 16/06/2011 13:25 | Join or Login to Reply | Message 5 of 106 in Discussion |
| I always wear my Rab C. Nesbitt vest when dining out at the colony. |
Groucho


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Message Posted: 16/06/2011 14:41 | Join or Login to Reply | Message 6 of 106 in Discussion |
| Men wearing vests... how gay is that? Who wants to see hairy oxters whilst dining? Not me, not you I hope. |
the butler

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Message Posted: 16/06/2011 14:47 | Join or Login to Reply | Message 7 of 106 in Discussion |
| Hi Groucho, Totally agree with you, men should always wear t shirts with sleeves. or shirts when eating out in the evening. The butlers wife |
laptagal

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Message Posted: 16/06/2011 15:17 | Join or Login to Reply | Message 8 of 106 in Discussion |
| Totally agree with Groucho. Mens sweaty armpits - yuk!!!!! Some things are best covered up. Vests only really look good on young fit people - imho. |
martinD41

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Message Posted: 16/06/2011 15:36 | Join or Login to Reply | Message 9 of 106 in Discussion |
| msg 8 "Men's sweaty armpit's-yuk" Quite agree, but the same should apply to many of the Ladies of a "Hirsute" persuasion that one sees dinning out at various establishments...Enough to put you right off your gastronomic delights ... |
nurseawful


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Message Posted: 16/06/2011 15:44 | Join or Login to Reply | Message 10 of 106 in Discussion |
| I don't mind what they wear as long as it is something. I detest going out and being confronted by some big tattooed man and his beer belly yuck! Chris |
Pugwash

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Message Posted: 16/06/2011 15:46 | Join or Login to Reply | Message 11 of 106 in Discussion |
| Blimey where do you see this in the evenings chris? |
davedee


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Message Posted: 16/06/2011 16:19 | Join or Login to Reply | Message 12 of 106 in Discussion |
| No not appropriate,and I certainly would not sit next to them! and yuk describes it well. |
Lilli


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Message Posted: 16/06/2011 16:45 | Join or Login to Reply | Message 13 of 106 in Discussion |
| Have to agree with its a NO from me. I have asked men before who came in to the restaurant in a vest and shorts to please go a cover up if they wish to be served. Most did funnily enough x |
dizzycows

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Message Posted: 16/06/2011 17:02 | Join or Login to Reply | Message 14 of 106 in Discussion |
| Good for you Lilli, I think its a mark of respect to cover up a little when eating out.. Most men like to wear a short sleeved shirt when eating out of an evening , its only a few that don't have pride in themselves... |
Ballyboffin

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Message Posted: 16/06/2011 21:21 | Join or Login to Reply | Message 15 of 106 in Discussion |
| Groucho, message 6. Oxters !!!! Haven't heard that word for years. Brilliant. I won't tell anyone what memories that word invoked. |
Roomy

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Message Posted: 16/06/2011 21:51 | Join or Login to Reply | Message 16 of 106 in Discussion |
| Vests are daywear as far as I am concerned, Tshirts or short sleeved shirts of an evening.I would also wear long pants or them calf lenghthed thingies of an evening never shorts.It's only after I am well oiled and dancing on the tables that the clothes come off. |
rowlo


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Message Posted: 16/06/2011 21:56 | Join or Login to Reply | Message 17 of 106 in Discussion |
| no vests , t shirts fine vests are for blackpool beach with the knotted hanky , sandals with white socks , etc etc , no man should be exposing his oxters while people are eating . |
Blackbird


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Message Posted: 16/06/2011 21:56 | Join or Login to Reply | Message 18 of 106 in Discussion |
| My wife wouldn't let me... |
IbrahimAbi

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Message Posted: 16/06/2011 21:58 | Join or Login to Reply | Message 19 of 106 in Discussion |
| Let's hope that we all take pride in our appearance and don't let the side down. to a US customer a vest is a waistcoat I think shall we don them chaps? |
brother


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Message Posted: 16/06/2011 22:38 | Join or Login to Reply | Message 20 of 106 in Discussion |
| IMHO if I saw a bloke wearing a vest in any dining establishment I entered, I would leave immediately - such an establishment is clearly not charging enough for its services |
Lilli


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Message Posted: 16/06/2011 23:01 | Join or Login to Reply | Message 21 of 106 in Discussion |
| brother i don't even think its about the establishment, you would never see any one else from Europe doing it, only sadly Brits. I can tell you no up market place in UK would. However I came back here late last night to Larnaca and most men shorts and vests and tattoos xxxxx |
dorothea

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Message Posted: 16/06/2011 23:06 | Join or Login to Reply | Message 22 of 106 in Discussion |
| Let's hope that the men who do wear vests as evening dining out gear will take the opinions and comments of the members on board and realize that it is not the done thing. |
dizzycows

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Message Posted: 16/06/2011 23:11 | Join or Login to Reply | Message 23 of 106 in Discussion |
| Don't think the men who wear this gear out of a night into eating houses would be necessarily reading a forum! don't think they can read!.... |
Roomy

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Message Posted: 16/06/2011 23:11 | Join or Login to Reply | Message 24 of 106 in Discussion |
| I have tatoos |
rolly

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Message Posted: 16/06/2011 23:13 | Join or Login to Reply | Message 25 of 106 in Discussion |
| here we go again typical english move to another country and then impose our ideas onto others. leave the english way back in england and respect the new ways here. coform. vests deffo no what next total uncouth men belching next hankercheif on head. wise up and show respect. |
brother


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Message Posted: 16/06/2011 23:16 | Join or Login to Reply | Message 26 of 106 in Discussion |
| Hi Lilli, I know that it's just too easy to single out Brits (men & women) for not being able to look as "good" as some other nationals in hot weather but I was just hinting at what may be one way of keeping vest wearing men out of a dining establishment. Clearly some restaurants want the custom whatever the customer looks like but a lot of customers want to eat in pleasant surroundings - otherwise they would have stayed at home and kept their vest on ;-). Interesting that some people know how to dress relaxed without appearing like the laundry basket on legs whilst some don't. "Simples" (referring to a UK based "Inshuurance" advert): if you are a bloke just wear at least a short-sleeved shirt with a collar up top and trousers when dining in a restaurant in the evening. You will still be comfortable and who knows.....may even look attractive 8-> |
Marion

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Message Posted: 16/06/2011 23:36 | Join or Login to Reply | Message 27 of 106 in Discussion |
| It's about time this island had a dress code, as does Malta and other places. whether morning, afternoon and evening, there are certain modes of dress that are acceptable without causing offence. Seeing bikini bras walking down the high street (admittedly with shorts or skirts) I find offensiv e and know in the eyes of locals it is unacceptable. Bring back respect and a bit of glamour. Everyone feels better and looks better. Nothing to do with heat - look what they wear in places such as India - covered up and gorgeous. so in answer to message 1 - no, no, no to vests - except on the beach! |
Roomy

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Message Posted: 16/06/2011 23:42 | Join or Login to Reply | Message 28 of 106 in Discussion |
| I don't find bikini tops and shorts offensive. |
trooper

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Message Posted: 17/06/2011 00:01 | Join or Login to Reply | Message 29 of 106 in Discussion |
| As I've said before - about other subjects - it's all a matter of standards. Sadly there are many here who haven't got a clue how to behave. It's not that long ago that there was a notice in Girne police station - immigration dept - telling people that if they turned up ''improperly dressed'' they would be turned away. Interestingly the notice was only in English. During the summer months it is not unusual to see big fat lumps of Brit shopper sin supermarkets wandering round stripped to the waist, sweating like pigs. Why don't the management of these establishments turf them out.....? It's enough to put one off one's lunch/dinner! |
Marion

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Message Posted: 17/06/2011 00:32 | Join or Login to Reply | Message 30 of 106 in Discussion |
| Hear, hear, Trooper. Still the good side is that seeing these folk in the supermarkets puts one off one's food, and with a waistline that needs decreasing, (mine, I mean) , these folk are doing me a favour - but yes, they should not be allowed in the shop. The notice from the Police Station should be in all public places - and of course, it shows who the offenders are by the language used. Shame on we Brits. |
MsGarnet

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Message Posted: 17/06/2011 05:13 | Join or Login to Reply | Message 31 of 106 in Discussion |
| Wasn't there a request last year (forget which town) here in England by a local school board, asking mothers NOT to walk their children into school, whilst wearing their pyjamas, slippers and hair rollers, as it set a bad example to the school children......... |
erolz

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Message Posted: 17/06/2011 06:09 | Join or Login to Reply | Message 32 of 106 in Discussion |
| MsGarnet not sure if this is the same new story you were referring to but its the same in principal. http://www.bbc.co.uk/news/uk-england-tees-13511668 Head teacher appeal to school run 'pyjama parents' |
negativenick

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Message Posted: 17/06/2011 07:33 | Join or Login to Reply | Message 33 of 106 in Discussion |
| the price of the property and the dodgy land issue - the place was never going to attract the elite, was it ?? |
the butler

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Message Posted: 17/06/2011 07:50 | Join or Login to Reply | Message 34 of 106 in Discussion |
| Msg 33 Please give it a rest, You used to be funny with your posts but now you are just plain boring. When out and about in town I sometimes cringe when I see how some people both male and female dress Women with short skirts and bikini tops and men with shorts and nothing on top. Don't they realise that this is a muslim country? Maybe I am an old fuddy duddy but I always wear crops or long trousers when going to town and keep the shorts for home. We are guests here and should show some respect. The butlers wife |
martinD41

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Message Posted: 17/06/2011 07:52 | Join or Login to Reply | Message 35 of 106 in Discussion |
| Well Said N N .... |
bondi

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Message Posted: 17/06/2011 07:57 | Join or Login to Reply | Message 36 of 106 in Discussion |
| If you eat out in a good restaurant - where the decor, food and prices reflect its above average - then a vest is unsuitable. When ladies take care to dress up and look good its an insult, to her, if the man accompanies her in a T shirt and bermudas/cut offs/football strip etc. Just a bit of common sense is required - sweaty dollops of lard exposed to the elements are not de rigeur for say House or Niazis or whatever 44ers favourite restaurant is. |
Groucho


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Message Posted: 17/06/2011 08:04 | Join or Login to Reply | Message 37 of 106 in Discussion |
| NN, I distinctly remember you grabbing your partner's boobs giving them a good jiggle and declaring them 'money well spent'..... in Tumba restaurant... hardly the behaviour of the 'elite' was it? And let's remember the irony of the fact that you once chose to buy here and take your statement for what it is. |
Woodspeckie

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Message Posted: 17/06/2011 12:19 | Join or Login to Reply | Message 38 of 106 in Discussion |
| MsGarnet. Is the post about eating out in a vest in NC or UK? |
suehowlittle

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Message Posted: 17/06/2011 17:02 | Join or Login to Reply | Message 39 of 106 in Discussion |
| Lilli, msg 10 - I am more upset by the big, tattooed, beer bellied, foul-mouthed women than the men. Seriously, its lovely to dress for dinner. Wish it was a requirement for clientele to dress appropriately to gain admission to eateries. |
jimchris09

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Message Posted: 17/06/2011 17:20 | Join or Login to Reply | Message 40 of 106 in Discussion |
| Message 34..."..a muslim country"...As far as I know Turkey and TRNC are secular states. Places such as Oman or Saudi etc. can be classed as muslim countries. Regarding the topic...I think vests in the evening are fine in some places but not others. As has been stated by others, the restaurants etc should be able to determine what they want. Personally I always wear a shirt with a collar and long trousers...but after 23 years in Oman I would, wouldn't I. |
pc4854

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Message Posted: 17/06/2011 17:57 | Join or Login to Reply | Message 41 of 106 in Discussion |
| What ever happened to Dorothea, she started the thread and disappeared, what are her views I would like to know? |
0maintenance

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Message Posted: 17/06/2011 18:00 | Join or Login to Reply | Message 42 of 106 in Discussion |
| IMHO I think its a british thing. French,italians,swedish,fins,crouts,cyps. All tend to dress for the evenings |
suehowlittle

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Message Posted: 17/06/2011 18:01 | Join or Login to Reply | Message 43 of 106 in Discussion |
| NOT all Brits, why generalise, I am sure that other countries have their bit of rough also! |
0maintenance

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Message Posted: 17/06/2011 18:08 | Join or Login to Reply | Message 44 of 106 in Discussion |
| Wearing a vest does not have to mean rough. You cannot read a book by its cover. |
Pugwash

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Message Posted: 17/06/2011 18:08 | Join or Login to Reply | Message 45 of 106 in Discussion |
| Mess 42 I think you have a point, The British dress very poorly compared with other European countries, we also appear to like to take as many clothes off as possible as soon as any sun is about. |
Groucho


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Message Posted: 17/06/2011 19:17 | Join or Login to Reply | Message 46 of 106 in Discussion |
| 0maintenance It does when it's a man... |
the butler

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Message Posted: 17/06/2011 19:50 | Join or Login to Reply | Message 47 of 106 in Discussion |
| Sorry jimchris09, I must be hearing things when I hear the call to prayer from the local mosque then!!! Perhaps I am seeing things when I see all the ladies in their headscarfs and long clothes??? It may not be as strict as other middle eastern countries but it is still muslim and should be respected as such. The butlers wife |
jimchris09

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Message Posted: 17/06/2011 19:52 | Join or Login to Reply | Message 48 of 106 in Discussion |
| Message 45 You see some terrible sights because of this, don't you? I always have a good chuckle at the tourists walking along in just shorts...turning a nice shade of boiled lobster red! |
jock1


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Message Posted: 17/06/2011 20:16 | Join or Login to Reply | Message 49 of 106 in Discussion |
| I would bring back the Birch.................. |
Pandy

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Message Posted: 17/06/2011 20:26 | Join or Login to Reply | Message 50 of 106 in Discussion |
| A lot of men abroad seem to dress less sensibly compared to when they are 'at home'......going topless or worse still wearing ill fitting shorts that do not do their 'figure' any justice. Shudder the thought! |
idiotman

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Message Posted: 17/06/2011 21:18 | Join or Login to Reply | Message 51 of 106 in Discussion |
| Personally i like to wear a short sleeve shirt at night, but there seems to be a lot of snobs on this thread. I don't see a problem with wearing a pair of shorts in 35 degree heat. |
rowlo


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Message Posted: 17/06/2011 21:55 | Join or Login to Reply | Message 52 of 106 in Discussion |
| no one questioned the shorts , or the short sleeve shirt , it was vests that are in question msg 51 ? |
jimchris09

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Message Posted: 17/06/2011 22:03 | Join or Login to Reply | Message 53 of 106 in Discussion |
| Snob = having dress sense and not wanting to slob around as you would at home when you go out...yep, I'm a snob! |
Cyprusquest

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Message Posted: 17/06/2011 22:56 | Join or Login to Reply | Message 54 of 106 in Discussion |
| If I wanted to go to eat in a nudist colony I would that being my choice but I don't like eating out with people in their underwear. Vests in England and T shirts in the US are to me both underwear. OK so I'm an old fuddy duddy! |
Lilli


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Message Posted: 17/06/2011 23:06 | Join or Login to Reply | Message 55 of 106 in Discussion |
| There are shorts and there are smart shorts. Those england flag shorts make me shudder. Everyday I see it no tops no protection for the heads. Then they get ill. |
chriswife

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Message Posted: 18/06/2011 00:56 | Join or Login to Reply | Message 56 of 106 in Discussion |
| wearing something is surely most appropriate. |
jimchris09

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Message Posted: 18/06/2011 01:46 | Join or Login to Reply | Message 57 of 106 in Discussion |
| Message 47 "I must be hearing things when I hear the call to prayer from the local mosque then!!! Perhaps I am seeing things when I see all the ladies in their headscarfs and long clothes???" I hear the call to prayer from a local mosque when I'm in Rochdale, UK! Not ALL the ladies by any means wear headscarfs and long clothes. A very large number wear anything but this type of apparel! Please note, I agree with the "respect" idea too...I was simply pointing out that to describe TRNC/Turkey as a muslim country is incorrect. |
sissy

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Message Posted: 18/06/2011 13:45 | Join or Login to Reply | Message 58 of 106 in Discussion |
| I hate to see men in vest tops on an evening out. They look much smarter in a shirt either long or short sleeved. I would think they are just as cool as vest tops. |
Marion

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Message Posted: 18/06/2011 21:12 | Join or Login to Reply | Message 59 of 106 in Discussion |
| One has only to look at people who are used to living in really hot climates and the cotton shirts with sleeves to allow for the wind to blow up the sleeves, up the front and up the back which they wear, or kaftans or nice indian long shirts, to realise that they are far cooler than vests or nakedness. and if you are not sure that is for Cyprus, then take a look at the locals - they must know a thing or two in terms of comfort and ethics. |
Roomy

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Message Posted: 18/06/2011 21:28 | Join or Login to Reply | Message 60 of 106 in Discussion |
| If you have a body like mine it is very tempting to wear a vest at all times |
0maintenance

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Message Posted: 18/06/2011 21:45 | Join or Login to Reply | Message 61 of 106 in Discussion |
| Message 57 Are you on milkstone road then by any chance |
the butler

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Message Posted: 18/06/2011 23:29 | Join or Login to Reply | Message 62 of 106 in Discussion |
| jimchris09, This afternoon I have had a long discussion with my Turkish Cypriot neighbour, he is about 30 years old and I have asked him if the TRNC is a muslim country. He looked at me in astonishment for asking such a question and his reply was that of course it is a muslim country. The south is christian and the north is muslim and that is fact, it is not a strict muslim country and he wouldn't wish it to be and that they have very liberal views on lots of things. They enjoy a drink which is forbidden in some muslim countries, however they follow lots of the teachings of the Koran. Before we retired and moved to the TRNC we worked for a muslim family for 10 years, they were sunny muslims and again were quite liberal. They were a lovely family and taught my husband and I lots of things that we didn't know through ignorance about their faith. The butlers wife |
Roomy

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Message Posted: 19/06/2011 01:48 | Join or Login to Reply | Message 63 of 106 in Discussion |
| Butters wife that means it is secular (talking in a very slow for you as if you are an idiots voice). You are a servant to those with more money than you and you are indeed servile (still talking slowly in a you are daft kind of voice).You haven't got an opinion of your own your employers gave it to you.l |
Cocklebay

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Message Posted: 19/06/2011 09:06 | Join or Login to Reply | Message 64 of 106 in Discussion |
| Re message 62, Yes KKTC is Muslim, but do not forget as with Turkey we are a secular nation allowing us to make choices etc!!!! |
bobat5

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Message Posted: 19/06/2011 13:06 | Join or Login to Reply | Message 65 of 106 in Discussion |
| it feels muslim to me , same as italy feels catholic ,thailand feels buddhist .no probs ... |
jimchris09

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| Message 61 No not Milkstone Road...Spotland Road...wanna buy a house? |
Marion

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Message Posted: 19/06/2011 14:54 | Join or Login to Reply | Message 67 of 106 in Discussion |
| don't be 'rude' Roomy. Great Britain is supposed to be 'christian' - hence the royal wedding in a christian establishment, but the nation is secular in its habits, and with many immigrants is a lot of other things as well. And learning something, whether from a monied boss or at the feet of a uni lecturer (as I did) doesn't mean you are an 'idiot'. I studied Islam but I am not a Muslim, but I do recognise that their ethics, standards etc are definitely Jewish/Christian and most of the comments here have come from such a basis too. something corny about 'Love thy neighbour' or that lovely lady from The Water \Babies 'Mrs Do as you would be done by'. something to do with human rights and duties? so need to be rude, but there is plenty of need to try to understand why we have standards and how we should live them, especially in a foreign land. Or put it another way - would you go to Buck House on a hot day wearing a vest! |
erolz

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Message Posted: 19/06/2011 15:01 | Join or Login to Reply | Message 68 of 106 in Discussion |
| The state is secular, the country is predominantly muslim. For me both those statements are correct and not at all contradictory. |
the butler

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Message Posted: 19/06/2011 18:04 | Join or Login to Reply | Message 69 of 106 in Discussion |
| roomy, I take offence at your suggestion that I am an idiot as I am far from that, I suggest you take a look at yourself and your postings. Why does every thread end up with someone being rude and derogatary? erolz ms 68 Thank you for your explanation, it is much appreciated. The butlers wife |
spider

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Message Posted: 19/06/2011 18:55 | Join or Login to Reply | Message 70 of 106 in Discussion |
| I would hope that most men dress to go out of an evening and a vest is not dressing. Its like me going out with just my bra ! and a skirt......... Spider,X |
cyprusjoker

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| If it's the house rules then whats the problem, go somewhere else if you don't like it. |
Roomy

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| Not so nice when you get what you give back in spades is it? |
jimchris09

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Message Posted: 19/06/2011 22:59 | Join or Login to Reply | Message 73 of 106 in Discussion |
| Message 68. Thanks for that Erolz..exactly the point I was trying to make sooo long ago! |
Marion

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| Isn't it fascinating that this thread has received so much interest and comments. It shows that the message No.1 had a good question to ask. As yet, unresolved, but does show that people ARE concerned. good stuff! Innit? |
Liddy

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Message Posted: 20/06/2011 12:50 | Join or Login to Reply | Message 75 of 106 in Discussion |
| Seems clear to me - most people feel thet vests snd evening dining don't go.. Men should wrear T shirts at the very least & keep their hairy armpits out of public view |
dizzycows

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Message Posted: 20/06/2011 13:07 | Join or Login to Reply | Message 76 of 106 in Discussion |
| spider..... flipping eck....... what ever next..... msg 50.... Think it would be one way of clearing a restaurant if all us 'oldies' went in our bras and shorts .... what a laugh ... |
Marion

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Message Posted: 20/06/2011 13:19 | Join or Login to Reply | Message 77 of 106 in Discussion |
| Falling asleep last night and thinking of this (and I didn't have nightmares), the one word that came to mind and which seems to have disappeared from the social scene - or life itself - is ETIQUETTE. Or did that go out with Queen Victoria? |
Ralph96


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Message Posted: 20/06/2011 13:23 | Join or Login to Reply | Message 78 of 106 in Discussion |
| So if I eat out early evening in a restaurant is it OK to wear flip flops, Knee length shorts and a short sleeve t-shirt ? |
Woodspeckie

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Message Posted: 20/06/2011 14:26 | Join or Login to Reply | Message 80 of 106 in Discussion |
| msg 78. As long as you discard the sunglasses and hat. |
hilda

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Message Posted: 20/06/2011 15:56 | Join or Login to Reply | Message 81 of 106 in Discussion |
| It would be interesting to know how many on here who are against the wearing of vests (i would rather they wore a shirt etc ) who would think nothing of blowing smoke into the face of other diners (dont say it,no smoking in pubs clubs etc ) whilst eating or just relaxing and think nothing of it,i have many times seen male/female in their fancy clothes eating in a disgusting manner like pigs at the trough,its down to the owners and staff to stop this ,but when it comes to money,well you know the answer to that. |
chriswife

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Message Posted: 20/06/2011 17:39 | Join or Login to Reply | Message 82 of 106 in Discussion |
| rab c nesbitt uuuurgh |
mozgor


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Message Posted: 21/06/2011 00:06 | Join or Login to Reply | Message 83 of 106 in Discussion |
| Personally, I think vests on men are not on for eating out in a restaurant and particularly not at night. Tshirt is fine, but not a vest. |
Clarissa2

Joined: 12/06/2009 Posts: 1476
Message Posted: 21/06/2011 00:29 | Join or Login to Reply | Message 84 of 106 in Discussion |
| Re : Msg 81, It is what Marion was writing about - etiquette - not only the word but the notion itself unfamiliar to many these days. |
Babrew

Joined: 15/09/2010 Posts: 486
Message Posted: 21/06/2011 00:42 | Join or Login to Reply | Message 85 of 106 in Discussion |
| Saw a guy in a meeting at a Bank but he wasnt wearing a vest he was topless! Used to work for a lawyer and guys used to come in with their vests! Awful. |
airy____fairy

Joined: 14/06/2008 Posts: 813
Message Posted: 21/06/2011 09:42 | Join or Login to Reply | Message 86 of 106 in Discussion |
| What an intersting thread. A vest inmy opinion is not evening restaurant wear - howver some T-shirt type vests may be considered appropriate by the weare - it is of course 100 % better than men with no tops on !!!! In England I used to make men with no tops on that came intomy hair salon -sit with a hairdressing gown on - it is just not appropriate !!!! anywhere public at anytime !!!! I find the daytime dress code more inappropriate - how many times do you see women in just their tiny bikini tops and a mini sarong doing there shopping ????? would they walk aroundthe shops at Clacton on Sea like that ???? ( no cos its too cold LOL !!) But seriously this really is quite shocking - and then of course they wander why people are staring at them . It is an issue that will not be resolved unless establishments stop these people from entering there shops and restaurants. Anyway just my opinion of course !!!! |
cyprusairsoft


Joined: 22/06/2009 Posts: 2066
Message Posted: 21/06/2011 09:45 | Join or Login to Reply | Message 87 of 106 in Discussion |
| again its all double standards its the pearson, someone wearing a suite can turn out to be a great pain in the arse, shower gel and deoderant are cheap some one in a shirt of good quality can still stink!! I dont like to see bikini tops or vests when im eating, ps lots of you seem to have problems with tattoos, the days are gone when it was only service people and crooks who had them! few of the old boilers on here could do with a tatoo or two |
idiotman

Joined: 31/05/2011 Posts: 7
Message Posted: 21/06/2011 13:49 | Join or Login to Reply | Message 88 of 106 in Discussion |
| well said cyprusairsoft |
dizzycows

Joined: 12/05/2009 Posts: 2736
Message Posted: 21/06/2011 14:00 | Join or Login to Reply | Message 89 of 106 in Discussion |
| Tattoos on the old boilers!!, ......heaven forbid .... Tattoos look ok for a few years then when male and female hit the 50s you cant see what the tattoo is! as its hanging on loose skin! .. They look terrible, think its as bad as a vests .. You cant help but look cos its so awful ..lol |
cyprusairsoft


Joined: 22/06/2009 Posts: 2066
Message Posted: 21/06/2011 14:14 | Join or Login to Reply | Message 90 of 106 in Discussion |
| dizzy you know i have the hots for you so going to get a dizzy cow tatooed on my butt lol |
dizzycows

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Message Posted: 21/06/2011 14:21 | Join or Login to Reply | Message 91 of 106 in Discussion |
| ha ha ha , cant wait to see that lol x |
kaiserphil

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Message Posted: 21/06/2011 15:32 | Join or Login to Reply | Message 92 of 106 in Discussion |
| Steady on Dizzy. That sounds like the bit in Forrest Gump. Remember, where Forrest tells the President he was shot in the but-tocks! And the President says he would like to see that! |
Rufusa

Joined: 20/06/2011 Posts: 26
Message Posted: 21/06/2011 17:50 | Join or Login to Reply | Message 93 of 106 in Discussion |
| People have been known to wear vests here while dining - bullet-proof vests! |
Rufusa

Joined: 20/06/2011 Posts: 26
Message Posted: 21/06/2011 17:52 | Join or Login to Reply | Message 94 of 106 in Discussion |
| Msg 66, "And learning something, whether from a monied boss or at the feet of a uni lecturer (as I did)" One of my old uni chums did that once and she got a distinction. |
Riddles

Joined: 26/04/2011 Posts: 429
Message Posted: 22/06/2011 20:37 | Join or Login to Reply | Message 97 of 106 in Discussion |
| 'Mutton dressed as lamb' is a phrase you don't hear much nowadays, isn't it? |
rowlo


Joined: 12/10/2008 Posts: 4796
Message Posted: 22/06/2011 20:50 | Join or Login to Reply | Message 98 of 106 in Discussion |
| fur coat & no knickers is another . |
Riddles

Joined: 26/04/2011 Posts: 429
Message Posted: 22/06/2011 21:00 | Join or Login to Reply | Message 99 of 106 in Discussion |
| De riguer for Oscar ceremonies now I believe |
Brinsley

Joined: 04/04/2009 Posts: 6858
Message Posted: 22/06/2011 21:06 | Join or Login to Reply | Message 100 of 106 in Discussion |
| Msg 97 That's because it's more like, 'scrag-end dressed as mutton'! Richard |
Smity


Joined: 14/09/2009 Posts: 826
Message Posted: 22/06/2011 21:24 | Join or Login to Reply | Message 101 of 106 in Discussion |
| Sociable attire for the weather conditions |
rowlo


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Message Posted: 22/06/2011 21:28 | Join or Login to Reply | Message 102 of 106 in Discussion |
| i agree smity , if it gets a bit cool the fur coat is ok , lmao |
pc4854

Joined: 23/08/2009 Posts: 243
Message Posted: 09/07/2011 10:56 | Join or Login to Reply | Message 103 of 106 in Discussion |
| Still no further word from Dorothea, such a shame as it turned out to be a good thread! |
flamefabs

Joined: 09/07/2011 Posts: 193
Message Posted: 09/07/2011 13:51 | Join or Login to Reply | Message 104 of 106 in Discussion |
| never in a million years would my wife let me go out in a vest or sleavless t shirt. Barry |
dorothea

Joined: 28/06/2010 Posts: 93
Message Posted: 09/07/2011 14:31 | Join or Login to Reply | Message 105 of 106 in Discussion |
| For message 103 Light blue touch paper and retire sounded like a good idea. |
Tango1

Joined: 19/02/2011 Posts: 1151
Message Posted: 09/07/2011 15:14 | Join or Login to Reply | Message 106 of 106 in Discussion |
| Msg. 53 I agree, both you and I must be snobs. The standard of dress in the evenings and in restaurants by a growing number of British men is dropping like a concrete balloon. Why oh why can't they dress like French or Italian men in the evenings, they have style!! The way that whole families of Brit holiday makers dress when shopping is also obscene, great fat sweaty bright red beer bellies, wobbling up and down the aisles is grotesque and that's just the women. Have they absolutely no pride? No, is the answer. Tango1 |
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