Disgusting

Littlenige



Joined: 24/12/2006
Posts: 3594

Message Posted:
02/11/2008 15:57

'You can't see your son - but can he have one of your organs?': how social workers left one man with a terrible moral dilemma



http://www.dailymail.co.uk/femail/article-1082379/You-son--organs--social-workers-left-man-terrible-moral-dilemma.html

Groucho



Joined: 26/04/2008
Posts: 7993

Message Posted:
02/11/2008 16:45

Your right... disgusting!



I looked at the boy's picture and I was nearly sick



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sorry couldn't resist it....

timefore


Joined: 01/08/2008
Posts: 495

Message Posted:
02/11/2008 16:59

just shows one what an unholy mess the UK social services system is. Frankly news items like that only goes to bolster my belief that UK plc is imploding fast, and that moving here (TRNC) was such a wise move

fire starter


Joined: 19/06/2008
Posts: 3401

Message Posted:
02/11/2008 19:25

my mum use to work for social services, in a secretarial job. she had loads of friends who were social workers, they were all mentally affected.

they take loads of time off sick due to stress of the job.



seriously if i took a day off everytime i got stressed i woud be on invalidity benefit.



i think these people do a rubbish job, are overpaid and underworked.



i don't see them any differently from social security scroungers, they both do nothing and get paid.

Lilli



Joined: 21/07/2008
Posts: 13081

Message Posted:
02/11/2008 19:44

hi nige i find this so distressing. I am gong though a similar situation with my youngest daughter and my autistic grandchild with custody being given to ahy father who hasnt seen him for the first 3 years of his young life because of justice for fathers, the truth being he can claim more if he has custody of the boy As for organ donation i dont know if you know i was actuallly pr director of kidney research and on the commitee of a national charity which wasmade up of 27 organ related charities.I devoped the donor card and lobbied parliment to put it on driving Licences, (see I am not always blond) i find this unbeleivable and will contact the d. this is mail to put them in touch. The charity i mentioned is headed uo a a senior and i mean senior royal. this is so awful this boy deserves a chance and the poor father it doesnt near thinking about.PC who the hell coined that phrase

simbas



Joined: 16/07/2007
Posts: 5943

Message Posted:
02/11/2008 20:25

it's downright inhumane , social workers are a breed on their own , worked with enough of them in my working life , not a pleasant experience on way more than one account

Lilli



Joined: 21/07/2008
Posts: 13081

Message Posted:
02/11/2008 20:30

simbas you are so right our families lifes in thier hands we ae having such a bad time he doesnt work so legal aid my daughter is a teacher cost so far for us 10,000pounds and the lies i could go on but another time. how are you aand that beautiful baby xxxx

stewy


Joined: 18/10/2008
Posts: 279

Message Posted:
02/11/2008 20:32

Deesgustering

Holly


Joined: 27/05/2008
Posts: 67

Message Posted:
03/11/2008 15:04

This was the other article I read this morning, along with the one about the Orphanages.......not a good start to the week.

No1Doyen


Joined: 04/07/2008
Posts: 16617

Message Posted:
03/11/2008 15:18

What a dilemma for this guy!.



If it were me I would give the organ without question. The boy needs it and if he is the natural Father then he should give it - no questions asked.

simbas



Joined: 16/07/2007
Posts: 5943

Message Posted:
03/11/2008 16:12

hi lilli ,yes thanks , we are both well she is 18mnths now , and don't we know it i do hope all goes well for your daughter , must be an awful time for you all

regards , simbas