Its no surprise !

spider


Joined: 03/01/2009
Posts: 5527

Message Posted:
09/07/2011 21:48

Warning do not open the links you might even surprise yourself ! Words fail me............



http://www.dailytelegraph.com.au/news/beware-technology-its-turning-us-off-family-life-says-antony-kidman/story-e6freuy9-1226091482740



http://www.wisegeek.com/what-is-antisocial-behavior.htm



http://www.stopcyberbullying.org/



Parents. grandparents and children...Its no surprise



Spider,X

spider


Joined: 03/01/2009
Posts: 5527

Message Posted:
09/07/2011 21:56

Now something for the dirty old men !!!!!!



http://www.thesun.co.uk/sol/homepage/features/3227771/The-Sun-celebrates-40-years-of-Page-3-girls.html





For your enjoyment tonight lol.





Spider,X

Turtle


Joined: 28/05/2007
Posts: 2669

Message Posted:
09/07/2011 21:59

Dirty old men ?





What would you call the girls ?

spider


Joined: 03/01/2009
Posts: 5527

Message Posted:
09/07/2011 22:38

Dizzzzyyyyyy





Ooops she might even look lol.







Spider,X P.S...How do you keep a healthy Mr Spider of the laptop..Please send an email

daisy dukes


Joined: 06/09/2008
Posts: 3815

Message Posted:
09/07/2011 22:44

words fail me.......

dizzycows


Joined: 12/05/2009
Posts: 2736

Message Posted:
09/07/2011 22:55

eeeerrrr, what? .............not sure what Im meant to look at ... lol...

spider


Joined: 03/01/2009
Posts: 5527

Message Posted:
10/07/2011 00:39

How's about a little listening for a change...........Ya could get hooked !



http://www.bbc.co.uk/radio4/features/the-archers/catchup





Spider,X



enjoy

MaggieAndBernie



Joined: 26/07/2008
Posts: 2012

Message Posted:
10/07/2011 01:24

"Births, marriages, tragedy and triumphs- get up to date on all the scandals past and present."



Just up your street Spider!

spider


Joined: 03/01/2009
Posts: 5527

Message Posted:
10/07/2011 01:38

Poor poor Bernie..........................Poor poor man !





On chatting to him once at the Sempati he gets tired of it..



Shame shame I am shaking my head as he seems such a quiet unassuming chap.!! Turn the page three girl around and give him a treat tonight love, anything must be better than on the red wine.



Off ta bed with you now..........................God bless.xx

Turtle


Joined: 28/05/2007
Posts: 2669

Message Posted:
10/07/2011 02:02

Spider

You used to be such a nice person,.... what happened ?

AlsancakJack



Joined: 14/08/2008
Posts: 5762

Message Posted:
10/07/2011 06:03

Another thread that beggars belief.

negativenick


Joined: 10/11/2008
Posts: 6023

Message Posted:
10/07/2011 07:25

mess 1 - whatevre you're on - i'll have a bottle for Garry Monger's missus.................

daisy dukes


Joined: 06/09/2008
Posts: 3815

Message Posted:
10/07/2011 08:16

........................am i missing something here...or has the whole world gone completely mad while i was asleep....?



DD

araneae


Joined: 24/06/2011
Posts: 193

Message Posted:
10/07/2011 08:45

has some one missed an appointment at the funny farm ?

hattikins


Joined: 17/02/2008
Posts: 2793

Message Posted:
10/07/2011 10:08

Sounds as if someone needs the services of a therapist here, what has happened to spider to make her so odd.

Geoff1131


Joined: 12/07/2007
Posts: 276

Message Posted:
10/07/2011 10:11

Most of her recent postings are ' Tales from the bottom of the bottle '

araneae


Joined: 24/06/2011
Posts: 193

Message Posted:
10/07/2011 10:20

Geoff1131 that is unkind and nasty, the lady does not drink alcohol.

Geoff1131


Joined: 12/07/2007
Posts: 276

Message Posted:
10/07/2011 10:24

OK my mistake. Drugs maybe???????

vonny


Joined: 25/06/2009
Posts: 476

Message Posted:
10/07/2011 10:28

Its a shame really cos spider use to be one of the good posters but lately shes going around attacking everyone,first it was mrsg,then nurseawful now maggieandbernie they are also good posters and there have been others.

Right now,if i needed a counciller/therapist spider would be the last person id want to go to.

So come on maria,bring back the old spider again,she was much more fun and a lot more likeable

MaggieAndBernie



Joined: 26/07/2008
Posts: 2012

Message Posted:
10/07/2011 11:44

Spider.



Last night I was out babysitting for a friends 6 year old Grandson. I was out from 7pm till 1 am.

On returning home I made a cup of coffee and had a look on here (it may have looked like I was online all night as the laptop was left on - but I can assure you I wasn't)



My post - Msg 8 was copied and pasted straight from YOUR strange link to the Archers! I felt, like many others, that this is, indeed a very strange post! After making my short, light hearted comment, I went to bed. End of.



Today I am getting ready to leave for UK so hadn't even bothered to turn on the computer when I received your ABUSIVE phone call - I had no idea, and still haven't, what you were ranting about!



Msg 9 HOW DARE YOU BRING MY HUSBAND INTO YOUR CRAZY RAMBLINGS! You met him once, briefly, at a noisy birthday party and spoke, I believe, for all of 5-10 minutes! I think he remarked later that you were 'nice but a little odd!)



cont'

MaggieAndBernie



Joined: 26/07/2008
Posts: 2012

Message Posted:
10/07/2011 11:47

cont from Msg 20



As I said to you on the phone, get some help love - cos you seem to have lost the plot!



I know you officially don't drink....and have done very well to stay on the wagon for such a long time....but is it possible that you mat have fallen off the wagon recently? If that's the case then there's no shame in getting a bit of help and sorting yourself out.



Please don't call me again - ever!



have a nice day!



Maggie

spider


Joined: 03/01/2009
Posts: 5527

Message Posted:
10/07/2011 12:08

Such very very small people....and the bottom line is<< we would not let someone come to a little BBQ..>>



Laughing so very much it hurts.



I would like to say a very big thank you to all who have email us and phoned us over the past 2 weeks.



The point of the thread was in post 1 but as always as is here a few are always on my back snipping.



We have had some terrible email and calls too..Kids play..One even saying they will bring me to me Knees as reposted on here. Water off a Spiders back



Maggie both myself and your poor Bernie had to carry you to the car twice he and I were both embarrassed.!!



Vonny I remain the same nice little Spider but this has been a tough few weeks for all involved. Happy to speak on the phone to anyone 0533 8395561.



A picture is not a true picture unless you have all side's.



Spider,X

MaggieAndBernie



Joined: 26/07/2008
Posts: 2012

Message Posted:
10/07/2011 12:20

POST 22



"Maggie both myself and your poor Bernie had to carry you to the car twice he and I were both embarrassed.!!



YOU EVIL, LYING OLD WITCH! HOW DARE YOU POST OUTRIGHT LIES ON A PUBLIC FORUM.



We were at Jo Bond's Birthday party at the Sempati Hotel. Bernie & I stayed for about 2 hours. We had, maybe 2 drinks and a couple of dances & left. There are plenty of witnesses one of whom is my husband Bernie - I'd advise you to keep well out of his way after the spiteful, lying remarks you have made!



MODERATORS I know we are not supposed to make personal attacks and to the rest of the forum, I apologise. But I consider this to be self defence & putting the record straight. I hope this thread gets closed soon - before I really loose my temper & have a trip to Karsiyaka!

araneae


Joined: 24/06/2011
Posts: 193

Message Posted:
10/07/2011 12:22

1) Is it not better to be inclusive rather than exclude .



2)snipping on here is rife , why are you surprised by it ?



3)life is so short value every day as it were your last forgive and move on what others do is down to them and thir conscience although I am convinced SOME on here do not have one.

Turtle


Joined: 28/05/2007
Posts: 2669

Message Posted:
10/07/2011 12:22

Spider for me the thread started with you posting what I thought was a veiled reference to poss bullying and maybe a falling out with someone on here, it then went to the Sun and the ladies with their buns out (not sure about the connection there?) then to the Archers ?

Perhaps its me but it certainly confused me what was the topic of the thread ?



Maybe Im wrong again but if you are being targeted unfairly on this board then surely a call or mail to admin is the way to go instead of creating bad feeling on here.



If you are being bullied on here I am with you 100% if you are not then please explain !

spider


Joined: 03/01/2009
Posts: 5527

Message Posted:
10/07/2011 12:32

Fell free to email or phone any time Turtle....



The thread was about post 1 the other Sun girls and the Archers were a little light hearted banter..





'''Maybe Im wrong again but if you are being targeted unfairly on this board then surely a call or mail to admin is the way to go instead of creating bad feeling on here.'' Oh yes that would be a great idea if one could ! I am sure they are aware..Maybe they could even post the names lol.. Thanks for being 100% behind me.



Spider,X

AlsancakJack



Joined: 14/08/2008
Posts: 5762

Message Posted:
10/07/2011 12:35

Spider

It maybe time for you to take a rest from the board until things have settled down. You are doing yourself no favours at the moment.

Just friendly advice.

MaggieAndBernie



Joined: 26/07/2008
Posts: 2012

Message Posted:
10/07/2011 12:39

This is what I read on my Facebook wall a couple of weeks ago:



""I hope that sad sucking leech,,cockroach has a bad head this morning!" Posted by Maria VIC (Spider,,,Chappel,,,) This was referring to a very good friend of mine who had confided in Spider and been betrayed. Nothing to do with un-inviting someone to a bbq (although that is rather rude in itself)



So, Who's the bully??? I rest my case!



Maggie

DutchCrusader



Joined: 19/05/2008
Posts: 11280

Message Posted:
10/07/2011 12:40

@ msg 22, Spider: (...) Maggie both myself and your poor Bernie had to carry you to the car twice he and I were both embarrassed.!! (...)



You are a fine contributor to our own local "News Of The World". Shame on you.



@ msg 23, MaggieAnd Bernie: (...) YOU EVIL, LYING OLD WITCH! HOW DARE YOU POST OUTRIGHT LIES ON A PUBLIC FORUM. (...)



Amazed, Maggie? I know from my own experience, Maggie, how difficult is to defend yourself against low attacks. Even if you have witnesses to contradict the lies - people here and elsewhere will repeat the lie again. And again. I'm sorry for your experience here. Really.

simbas



Joined: 16/07/2007
Posts: 5943

Message Posted:
10/07/2011 12:41

This thread is now closed. Reason: Thread was against the forum rules.

spider


Joined: 03/01/2009
Posts: 5527

Message Posted:
10/07/2011 12:43

AJ A rest from the board? Like you did ! I do not know if you are a moderator still or if its how you post lol



Do you honestly think me going off board will help ! Please what in your view will happen once I start back up again..Oh I have tried that on and it made very little difference !!



But now it is fact that apart from the very first member and we all know who that is and was..we now have a handful more...



I could come back in a year and nothing would have changed...Snipe,snipe,snipe !!! Emails ! and calls !



Thanks for you very kind friendly advice.



Spider,X