Shall I get married?

Clarissa2


Joined: 12/06/2009
Posts: 1476

Message Posted:
29/09/2011 12:41

And if so, then where?

babydoll


Joined: 27/07/2011
Posts: 140

Message Posted:
29/09/2011 12:50

I thought you had been married 50 odd years hans

Why do it again !!!!!!

martinD41


Joined: 06/09/2010
Posts: 3001

Message Posted:
29/09/2011 12:52

I think the question "Shall I get Married" should be answered long before the Venue is debated...........

dizzycows


Joined: 12/05/2009
Posts: 2736

Message Posted:
29/09/2011 12:53

Think its a good idea first to find a partner!!!



Then it surely is a joint agreement, or are you a modern girl and the partner gets to have no say in any thing ...

vonny


Joined: 25/06/2009
Posts: 476

Message Posted:
29/09/2011 12:56

if your asking here it looks like you have doubts,so id say no

Ralph96



Joined: 01/07/2008
Posts: 531

Message Posted:
29/09/2011 12:58

I would be surprised if you can find anybody on the same wavelength.

hattikins


Joined: 17/02/2008
Posts: 2793

Message Posted:
29/09/2011 12:59

what a stupid question to ask on a TRNC forum.

TRNCVaughan


Joined: 27/04/2008
Posts: 4578

Message Posted:
29/09/2011 13:15

My answer would be "Yes". Why should I be the only who's miserable?

kiwikid


Joined: 18/08/2008
Posts: 496

Message Posted:
29/09/2011 13:47

Vaughan, you just made my day with that comment, still smiling

Clarissa2


Joined: 12/06/2009
Posts: 1476

Message Posted:
29/09/2011 13:48

Re: Msg 7,



IS it ? Really?



I'm asking for a sound advice, as I cannot make the decision...

hattikins


Joined: 17/02/2008
Posts: 2793

Message Posted:
29/09/2011 13:57

So how can people who you don't know, and don't know you or your partner either, advise you on if you should get married.

DoctorW


Joined: 28/11/2010
Posts: 334

Message Posted:
29/09/2011 13:59

Marriage is a wonderful institution - but who wants to live in an institution? (Groucho Marx).



Should you get married? A definate no!! When the time comes you will not need to ask, you will know that you have met that special person you want to spend the rest of your life with.

martinD41


Joined: 06/09/2010
Posts: 3001

Message Posted:
29/09/2011 14:43

msg12 The divorce courts are full of them

Clarissa2


Joined: 12/06/2009
Posts: 1476

Message Posted:
29/09/2011 14:45

Re : Msg 3,

"I think the question "Shall I get Married" should be answered long before the Venue is debate.."



Surely it could be done the other way around.



Re: Msg 4,

"Think its a good idea first to find a partner!!! "



What a bore! Who needs them!



Re: Msg 8,





Re: Msg 11,

Perhaps you could make an effort and advise me on a venue then.



Re: Msg 12,

Love the quote!

luaymaani


Joined: 05/10/2010
Posts: 47

Message Posted:
29/09/2011 15:13

marriage is like the public bathroom when someone need it.

When you are inside. you cant wait to get out of it.

When you are outside. you cant wait to get inside it.

dizzycows


Joined: 12/05/2009
Posts: 2736

Message Posted:
29/09/2011 15:18

Clarrissa2, quote ....'What a bore! who needs them!' well my dear, usually when you ask about where to get married you have a partner, don't think you can marry yourself! ' do you take yourself as your lawful wedded wife/husband' .... T o daft for words ...

Mr Vince


Joined: 24/07/2008
Posts: 696

Message Posted:
29/09/2011 15:54

I am sure that you and your right hand will be very happy

mikelapta



Joined: 20/11/2008
Posts: 2186

Message Posted:
29/09/2011 16:05

Clarissa,and I thought you were coming out soon to meet me !!!!!!



Ny divorce through this week,yippee.



I suppose I could get married again !!!



Mike

Tango1


Joined: 19/02/2011
Posts: 1151

Message Posted:
29/09/2011 18:47

Honestly I just can't believe that question. You might just as well go for a walk around the harbour and stop and ask total strangers. Please tell me we're not supposed to take this thread seriously?

dizzycows


Joined: 12/05/2009
Posts: 2736

Message Posted:
29/09/2011 18:54

Dont think its a serious question at all, more like a wind up .....



Nobody would ask such a question if they were for real...

Tango1


Joined: 19/02/2011
Posts: 1151

Message Posted:
29/09/2011 19:04

Dizzycow, I think you'll find Msg1 is a real person. (could be wrong though) lets see how far it goes.

Tango1


Joined: 19/02/2011
Posts: 1151

Message Posted:
29/09/2011 19:09

However, it could be someone using someone elses "moniker" couldn't it?

dizzycows


Joined: 12/05/2009
Posts: 2736

Message Posted:
29/09/2011 19:12

No1Doyen


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Posts: 16617

Message Posted:
29/09/2011 19:33

Message 16. ) )

sloan



Joined: 24/02/2009
Posts: 808

Message Posted:
29/09/2011 19:40

Msg 18. Michael! There are nearly 7 billion people on the planet, nearly 50% of which are female. You cannot have all of them!! Come on, now, be fair... share!!

Tenakoutou



Joined: 27/07/2009
Posts: 4110

Message Posted:
29/09/2011 21:14

Best thing to do is marry the first bloke who comes round the corner on a bike........er, or preferably a Lamborghini!



Well, perhaps not 'the preferably' - the bloke on the bike will most likely be fitter and give you a better ride!

mikelapta



Joined: 20/11/2008
Posts: 2186

Message Posted:
29/09/2011 21:21

Never met a Clarissa....is it a "royalty "name?Hans DC is in love,so maybe we in her honours over Chess or Tavla

MsGarnet


Joined: 04/01/2009
Posts: 989

Message Posted:
29/09/2011 21:35

Anyone who puts they are an aesthete in their profile is full of hubris, has delusions of grandeur, knows no other way than affectation, is clearly someone who has time on their hands, to post risible tripe and sit back and snigger that any of use have responded. OBVIOUSLY it isn't a serious question, it would be impossible, even for close friends or family, to answer the question - the only person who would ever be able to answer would be the person themselves

Tango1


Joined: 19/02/2011
Posts: 1151

Message Posted:
29/09/2011 22:02

Msg 27. Actually there's another Clarissa on another board. Now you have to find which one.

dizzycows


Joined: 12/05/2009
Posts: 2736

Message Posted:
29/09/2011 22:35

Where has Clarissa2 gone?............... has she eloped with herself ....

No1Doyen


Joined: 04/07/2008
Posts: 16617

Message Posted:
29/09/2011 22:51

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harryc


Joined: 12/06/2010
Posts: 21

Message Posted:
30/09/2011 14:06

Perhaps I might be able to help.



A while ago I met someone who knows the redoubtable clarissa2.



I am told that - sorry chaps - she is not a raving 20 something, but a handsome married lady in her forties. Her husband is a fine figure of a man who looks like he should have been in the England rugger team at some time, and chews tyres for fun.



The lady is well educated at several universities, has travelled the world and works in some sort of diplomatic job, foreign service or similar.



She writes on here - and this is no surprise - to highlight what she sees as stupidity of a lot of the contributors and their herd mentality. Perhaps from the above we might decide that is close to the truth.



But there is no denying she is intelligent and entertaining (and from the description of her lifestyle she may well be an 'aesthete'). I have helped her on some threads when she had been giving some good explanations of travel and visas, and where her obvious inside knowledge has been

harryc


Joined: 12/06/2010
Posts: 21

Message Posted:
30/09/2011 14:11

continued -



and where her obvious inside knowledge has been ridiculed by the ignorant. But she rises above it I see.



So keep going clarissa, but just tone it down and keep to the intellgent stuff eh ?

dizzycows


Joined: 12/05/2009
Posts: 2736

Message Posted:
30/09/2011 14:12

Thats good then... alls well after all ...

dizzycows


Joined: 12/05/2009
Posts: 2736

Message Posted:
30/09/2011 14:15

oops posted before you had finished the lecture harryc, .. but not really sure what you are relaying to, being ridiculed by the ignorant?...



Wasn't Clarissa2 expecting daft replies then to this post??

Ralph96



Joined: 01/07/2008
Posts: 531

Message Posted:
30/09/2011 14:16

This thread is now closed..Clarissa2 is on her honeymoon.

mozgor



Joined: 16/06/2010
Posts: 256

Message Posted:
30/09/2011 14:19

I would say when you find the right person the answer to that question will be very easy. Don't decide to get married for the sake of getting married, recipe for disaster me thinks

cavalryman


Joined: 08/11/2010
Posts: 314

Message Posted:
30/09/2011 17:52

Thought Schumaker was already married

Jeannie


Joined: 04/08/2009
Posts: 3283

Message Posted:
30/09/2011 17:54

cavalryman, message 38.

philbailey


Joined: 17/01/2011
Posts: 3534

Message Posted:
30/09/2011 18:23

Excellent op ,just goes to show



still laughing

laptatim


Joined: 23/09/2008
Posts: 104

Message Posted:
30/09/2011 19:27

what a load of s!!!t!

moxie


Joined: 23/05/2009
Posts: 969

Message Posted:
30/09/2011 22:57

Clarissa 2 what a load of betty swollox ..close this thread ...it really is SERVING NO PURPOSE apart from her ego !!!! sad one :(

wynyardman



Joined: 15/12/2007
Posts: 4580

Message Posted:
30/09/2011 23:03

Yeah,



Why should another poor sucker be happy?



wyn

deputydawg


Joined: 30/03/2010
Posts: 1727

Message Posted:
30/09/2011 23:40

Bearing in mind the statistics surrounding the duration of marriages it might be prudent for Clarissa2 to spend much time with a "relate" counsellor prior to finding a partner then carry a pre-nuptial agreement in her knickers along with a black biro. In that way if decree nisi and decree absolute follow it might be possible to contain the level of grief and lawyers/court costs by illustrating that some of the hoops have already been jumped through. Even better consider a labotomy rather than marriage.

No1Doyen


Joined: 04/07/2008
Posts: 16617

Message Posted:
01/10/2011 00:19

This thread is now closed. Reason: Thread was serving no purpose.

No1Doyen


Joined: 04/07/2008
Posts: 16617

Message Posted:
01/10/2011 00:19

This thread is now closed. Reason: Thread was serving no purpose.