Good news from uk.....

Deniz1


Joined: 28/07/2009
Posts: 3829

Message Posted:
07/11/2011 20:45

Just had an email from my daughter she has been made redundant wonderful !

cooper


Joined: 23/10/2007
Posts: 3386

Message Posted:
07/11/2011 20:48

That really is wonderful news Deniz, thanks for sharing it with us !!

kavenkoy


Joined: 10/04/2008
Posts: 1787

Message Posted:
07/11/2011 20:54

how much did she get



kav

philbailey


Joined: 17/01/2011
Posts: 3534

Message Posted:
07/11/2011 20:59

Sell her a property in Cyprus

Deniz1


Joined: 28/07/2009
Posts: 3829

Message Posted:
07/11/2011 21:23

Not enough! she has M S so finding a job is not easy for her. She tries not to let it affect her working life but sometimes it does.

micklark


Joined: 18/06/2011
Posts: 75

Message Posted:
07/11/2011 21:33

Why do people feel the need to post such things on message boards ?

AlsancakJack



Joined: 14/08/2008
Posts: 5762

Message Posted:
07/11/2011 21:38

micklark

If you are referring to messages 2,3 and 4 then you can only assume they are sick.

philbailey


Joined: 17/01/2011
Posts: 3534

Message Posted:
07/11/2011 22:00

Msg 7, as you stated earlier

msg6, is referring to the op

KarmaSooty1


Joined: 29/09/2011
Posts: 91

Message Posted:
07/11/2011 22:13

What sort of idiot posts that sort of personal stuff on a public bulletin board? It's seriously weird.

spider


Joined: 03/01/2009
Posts: 5527

Message Posted:
07/11/2011 22:28

Msg 1 Deniz1



I am so sorry, you must worry for your daughter very much us Mothers are like that ! I wish her well in her search and in finding another understanding employer.



This news must be upsetting for you both..I hope you have regular contact to enable you to give her hope when she needs to turn to you.



All best wishes and feel free to email me any time.Please take no notice of the negative remarks above.



Spider,X

newlad



Joined: 02/03/2008
Posts: 7819

Message Posted:
07/11/2011 22:48

All the best Den,



Paul.

jimbob433



Joined: 26/06/2008
Posts: 102

Message Posted:
07/11/2011 23:31

my wife has ms my sympathy to you hope she is ok

jimbob

hameln


Joined: 06/11/2011
Posts: 22

Message Posted:
07/11/2011 23:33

mcstyler is looking for a cleaner

BizziLizzi


Joined: 02/08/2011
Posts: 855

Message Posted:
08/11/2011 00:01

Although I agree one must be a little careful about sensitive personal info, some people see a Forum as a place to make friends and share views and experiences - unfortunately it can be spoiled by those who see it as a chance to show off a warped sense of humour.



My sympathies to you and your daughter Deniz. Try not to let her lose confidence : It isnt anything wrong with her just the way things ar these days, Happens to lost of people through no fault of their own. Happened to me a long time ago - upsetting at the time but it turned out to be what I needed to get out of a rut and move ont o better things!

EamonnMc


Joined: 18/06/2010
Posts: 1019

Message Posted:
08/11/2011 02:27

Well said, BizziLizzi,



This forum is for all and if someone finds it therapeutic to post their problems here, it is an act of faith in the membership and should be understood and supported ! I wish you both, all the best for the future !

pollymarples


Joined: 08/08/2010
Posts: 1778

Message Posted:
08/11/2011 06:49

Sorry Deniz1. must be a worrying time for her and for you. At least she has you and you so obviously are a wonderful mum.

Deniz1


Joined: 28/07/2009
Posts: 3829

Message Posted:
08/11/2011 08:04

I am surprised at the comments some people have posted. We have a sense of community on here(most of the time) I have made friends through this board and its any easy way of comminication. In future i will only post moaning and bitching comments or ridiculous ones. Thanks for the kind comments. Although we are far apart my daughter says she has the best mum in the world. Now pick the bones out of that!

reyntj


Joined: 26/01/2011
Posts: 229

Message Posted:
08/11/2011 08:19

the opening post was ambiguos and could be interpreted in different ways - i have taken voluntary redunancy twice both time i was more than happy.



i have friends and family who have misfortunes in the uk but i wouldnt think to post it on here as i dont look for other peoples sympathy

BizziLizzi


Joined: 02/08/2011
Posts: 855

Message Posted:
09/11/2011 01:46

A certain amount of discretion is called for in public, but Deniz did NOT give details of her daughters name, job etc.



Good forum are those were people share common humanity and understand others problems. Deniz , dont be put off by the show-offs just ignore them, some of us do care

nurseawful



Joined: 06/02/2009
Posts: 5934

Message Posted:
09/11/2011 07:37

Deniz 1



Every cloud has a silver lining so they say, this could be an opportunity for your daughter to go to college and retrain for another job which she has maybe thought about and never actually had the courage / opportunity to do before. Whatever she decides i wish her the best of luck.



Chris

p.s. Not sure if it is still the same but the UK government used to pay an allowance for retraining.

Deniz1


Joined: 28/07/2009
Posts: 3829

Message Posted:
09/11/2011 08:18

Thanks Chris i will tell her that.

Panchocat


Joined: 29/11/2009
Posts: 1333

Message Posted:
09/11/2011 14:35

Take no notice of the negative comments and as earlier stated friends are made through this forum.

Your friends are thinking of you both, myself included. Keep cheerful and if you fancy coffee and chat let me know

Deniz1


Joined: 28/07/2009
Posts: 3829

Message Posted:
09/11/2011 16:01

Thanks i will maybe next week i have friends here until sunday.

vonny


Joined: 25/06/2009
Posts: 476

Message Posted:
09/11/2011 16:21

sorry to hear that deniz,it must be worrying,hopefully she'll find another job soon,i hope they gave her a big redundancy pay,so many seem to be going through the same thing there,it cant be easy.

Deniz1


Joined: 28/07/2009
Posts: 3829

Message Posted:
09/11/2011 16:45

She has only worked there for three years so its not a lot.

Giles


Joined: 16/08/2011
Posts: 256

Message Posted:
09/11/2011 17:54

I love facebook! So nice to be able to share my day to day trivia with other mindless people!

AlsancakJack



Joined: 14/08/2008
Posts: 5762

Message Posted:
09/11/2011 18:10

Giles

Go do it then, don't waste your time on here.

Giles


Joined: 16/08/2011
Posts: 256

Message Posted:
09/11/2011 18:21

AJ, still as acerbic and dopey as ever, following your failed foray into pastures new! Sad bugger.