lilli..on line???

mikelapta



Joined: 20/11/2008
Posts: 2186

Message Posted:
07/12/2008 10:53

have you got a table for today Sunday 2 people...NO it's not a date..Maggieis here ...old friends.









Please read board rules....."No Personal Posts"....moderator.

deecyprus4


Joined: 27/07/2008
Posts: 3452

Message Posted:
07/12/2008 11:06

guidos44 here we go again

TRNCVaughan


Joined: 27/04/2008
Posts: 4578

Message Posted:
07/12/2008 11:08

Surely you have the phone number??...

Harold2555



Joined: 19/04/2008
Posts: 1139

Message Posted:
07/12/2008 11:18

Mike



You have been pointed towards the website and given the phone number on another thread. The proprietor displays her email adress in her profile as well.



This form of posting is not in strict accordance with forum rules and as you can see it riles some members (regardless of the actual establishment involved)



Can I ask the establishment concerned not to respond via the board (I don't believe they would anyway) and can all members refrain from this type of posting in future.



I have left this post on here for now and hope you have a pleasant evening. Can I ask other members not to post comments further and the thread will gracefully sink out of sight.



Paul

mikelapta



Joined: 20/11/2008
Posts: 2186

Message Posted:
07/12/2008 16:24

I'm so sorry I did not know asking for a local number would have created such a fuss.It was an innocent request.I looked in Yellow Pages,local paper,no number could I find.Thank you for giving me the number,and the members who have a problem with this "get a life".I've only been living here a few months,there seems a divided Brits North....those that feel they are stuck on an island in the middle of the Med,moan and groan and get there kicks from that,and the other nice people who are helpful,and kind.Thank you for the latter

smithy


Joined: 17/07/2008
Posts: 5301

Message Posted:
07/12/2008 16:27

I second that Michael, but try and lay your hands on a Buzz Book, most Hotels/Exchange places have them on show and they are free and have all the numbers you want, so that you don't offend anyone, not me as I am harden to insults now

smithy

littlenige



Joined: 24/12/2006
Posts: 3594

Message Posted:
07/12/2008 16:39

mikelapta don't worry they are a nice bunch here in the main but now and again bees in bonnets does come to mind.



should you ever need the number or the website it's on line on another board as is the buzz book and north cyprus yellow pages.

keithcaley



Joined: 13/06/2008
Posts: 2521

Message Posted:
07/12/2008 16:39

Paul,

As you haven't actually 'locked' the thread, I don't think that it would harm tp point out to Mike and any other new members that the 'Search' facility at the top of the page is a very powerfull tool for finding any information that has previously been posted on the forum.

Also, being a relatively new member, the person in question may not have access to email addresses yet...

Also it was not a personal post, it was a request for information, and the poster may well be unaware of the unpleasantness created by some members reactions to the very mention of this establishment's name - That is not HIS fault - the people who need moderating are the ones who make sarcastic comments in response to a request for help.

I see that you have left their comments standing.

Just my opinion of course.

Keith.

Val44


Joined: 14/11/2008
Posts: 210

Message Posted:
07/12/2008 16:54

Mike do not apologise.

You must feel like you have walked into Hell's Kitchen.

The problem is not you. There are just too many moderators waiting in the wings, waiting to catch someone.

I bet you didn't know there are believe it or not about 12 of them.



Val xx

littlenige



Joined: 24/12/2006
Posts: 3594

Message Posted:
07/12/2008 17:24

i must say http://www.guidosbistro.com is a very well presented site and user friendly, Ignore the neby wana do goods who have no problem recomending sempati, charcos, and other places but when a btit and her hubby do well ................

hattikins


Joined: 17/02/2008
Posts: 2793

Message Posted:
07/12/2008 17:53

Nige,

What is a btit

The-Wicks


Joined: 27/05/2007
Posts: 2279

Message Posted:
07/12/2008 17:56

Hattie - re message 13 - I think it's Nige's spelling of "Brit". Of course, cannot be entirely sure!

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hattikins


Joined: 17/02/2008
Posts: 2793

Message Posted:
07/12/2008 17:58

Thanks for that, thought he,d taken up bird watching.

keithcaley



Joined: 13/06/2008
Posts: 2521

Message Posted:
07/12/2008 18:00

J,

with Nige you can never be quite sure...

I see that some one has just started two threads asking for information on the Savoy, and the Rocks, wonder if they'll be 'ticked' off for something...

Harold2555



Joined: 19/04/2008
Posts: 1139

Message Posted:
07/12/2008 18:16

Keith

We can't lock threads, only Izzet can as far as I can see although some people would try to hack through that I guess. I checked and Mike has the requisite number of posts to see email addresses if displayed.



Mike



There was absolutely no problem with your asking for the telephone number, even if there is a search facility its not a problem as such. The post asking for a booking was what became a personal post particularly as you started it after replies had already been given to give contact details. It was no big deal and I hope that you are OK with it. I could have just deleted the post but felt that that would be going over the top when a bit of helpful advice was more suitable.



To All



I didn't make the rules, but I suppose that the no personal message rule is there to prevent clutter. Personally I can't see it being a big problem but the rule is there.



Have a fantastic Sunday and happy Bayram for tomorrow.



Paul

notthereyet


Joined: 26/10/2008
Posts: 113

Message Posted:
07/12/2008 18:14

makes you almost frightened to ask questions on here now in fear of annoying the city fathers. I feel sorry for the lady mikalapta for having the sheer cheek and nerve for putting that seemingly innocous post on here. Keithcaley message 8 superb, helpful, and understanding, perhaps after the recent troubles some people are taking themselves a bit to serious. Mikalapta have a good time and enjoy despite your telling off.

britvic



Joined: 05/09/2008
Posts: 3039

Message Posted:
07/12/2008 18:21

I'll sleep better tonight now I know what, btit is.

cyprusishome


Joined: 31/03/2007
Posts: 2381

Message Posted:
07/12/2008 18:23

Finally got around to going today and had a very enjoyable lunch.



I have read all the stuff on here and Lilli really is a fine host, so often one follows a lead to find the staff, management and food are not as good as anticicpated.



For those couple who keep having a dig, go and try it then you will realise why it keeps getting recommendations.

britvic



Joined: 05/09/2008
Posts: 3039

Message Posted:
07/12/2008 18:25

Cis, I will be going when I get over their

Lilli



Joined: 21/07/2008
Posts: 13081

Message Posted:
07/12/2008 18:26

hi keith, nige thank you all he wanted was a phone number, your replies make me beleive in people, i understand the frustration thats why i am not posting any more but its in the minority thank god. customers today told me they would post thier experience and i begged them not to how sad is that. i dont wish to offend anybody but you would think you could call on the support of the local brits when you work hard to bring them what they cant get here. hey ho cant win them all but thank you for your support. lilli

littlenige



Joined: 24/12/2006
Posts: 3594

Message Posted:
07/12/2008 18:30

put my specs on brit ok.......................

Lilli



Joined: 21/07/2008
Posts: 13081

Message Posted:
07/12/2008 18:31

hi cis thank you so much we loved having you there and so pleasedyou enjoyed it. thank you again lilli

Lilli



Joined: 21/07/2008
Posts: 13081

Message Posted:
07/12/2008 18:31

hi britvic i await you have a great xmas lillix

stewy


Joined: 18/10/2008
Posts: 279

Message Posted:
07/12/2008 18:37

Lilli please keep posting.

Just refrain from advertising. Only that is boring.

britvic



Joined: 05/09/2008
Posts: 3039

Message Posted:
07/12/2008 18:39

Feel sorry for Mike, his familly, and anyone who knows him, he doesn't have a clue what's going on, like me last week.

Harold2555



Joined: 19/04/2008
Posts: 1139

Message Posted:
07/12/2008 18:45

Lilli



I think your customers should be able to post their experiences on this board, it's the very essence of the board to share information and experiences.



You will get some bad feedback as well, but I have to say that the balance seems remarkably in your favour and I wish you all the luck in the world with your venture.



I would be very sad if people were posting either type of experience for ulterior motives but I always try to see the best in people until proved otherwise.



It was only the asking for a reservation that in my opinion stepped over the line and I am sure you wouldn't want to take your bookings that way in any case.



A lot of the interest in the thread comes from those who have a probem with the moderation on this board. Well I tried my best in this case to be sensible, obviously not to the liking of some but I will continue to do that every time I come across something not in accordance with the rules without malice or favouritism, its all I can do.

Lilli



Joined: 21/07/2008
Posts: 13081

Message Posted:
07/12/2008 18:48

thank you harold and i agree with you after all the flack the mods have had you are doing your job, i wouldnt hav seen the booking anyway but at least mike got hold of me and had a lovely day. i know you dont wish me harm and i do appreciate your reply take care lilli x

stewy


Joined: 18/10/2008
Posts: 279

Message Posted:
07/12/2008 18:51

Wht jump in to moderate the original post?

It wasn't offensive. OK it slightly broke a rule. Don't take your job too seriously. We have a small membership andare here to enjoy the experience,



Moderation in moderation please.





















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keithcaley



Joined: 13/06/2008
Posts: 2521

Message Posted:
07/12/2008 18:55

Paul,

I don't know if you remember, but on an earlier thread solely devoted to the subject of Moderators I did plead for tolerance and understanding FOR the moderators.

I'm sure that everyone will realise - if they stop and think about it - that there is a learning curve, as in most things.

So we, the posters, have to be tolerant of your mistakes too.

That is not to say that we will not point them out to you with some degree of relish!

- And sometimes a little note inserted at the bottom of a post, just as a reminder, will be just as effective - and offend fewer people- than a deletion.

Happy learning!

Keith.

Lilli



Joined: 21/07/2008
Posts: 13081

Message Posted:
07/12/2008 18:59

well said keith how are you both xx

Harold2555



Joined: 19/04/2008
Posts: 1139

Message Posted:
07/12/2008 19:00

Keith



Point taken, but obviously I didn't go for a deletion just posted in the thread (the mod's comment in the first post is not mine but it points out the rule in question)



The reasoning behind this choice was that I didn't want Mike or anyone else to think it was some huge slap on the wrist, it wasn't, but its tough to get intentions over in text.



I welcome advice and reaction so no problem.



Paul

mikelapta



Joined: 20/11/2008
Posts: 2186

Message Posted:
07/12/2008 19:08

Bloody hell,I am so sorry for all the fuss.I now have their business card and will never have to ask for number again..For those who supported me in a simple request for a telephone number ;thank you again.I understand my moderator,and I feel like OJ Simpson..sorry sorry I didn't kill those people all those years ago,I was proved "innocent",and it was accidental I carried a gun,I just wanted my things back!!!.

Again,to those members who have picked on an innocent new member,no family,just wanting to take a friend out for Sunday lunch...up yours !!!

Thank you Liz and Guido,it was a lovely lunch.

Perhaps those who deem to criticise just get a life.

mikelapta



Joined: 20/11/2008
Posts: 2186

Message Posted:
07/12/2008 19:13

Britvic you are so right "I know nothing""Enough problems dealing with the

authorities here,never mind the "moaning"Brits

mikelapta



Joined: 20/11/2008
Posts: 2186

Message Posted:
07/12/2008 19:15

Thanks Smithy,picked up a Buzz book from..............ssshhh cannot say

notthereyet


Joined: 26/10/2008
Posts: 113

Message Posted:
07/12/2008 19:20

Mike my sincere apologies for calling you a lady misunderstood your forum name i saw mikela pta should have read it as mike lapta doh!!!!! and we drove through lapta the other week exploring and still the penny didnt drop. Hope you enjoyed your dinner anyroad.

Lilli



Joined: 21/07/2008
Posts: 13081

Message Posted:
07/12/2008 19:21

hi stewey as you know this is the first time i have advertised since the last theme night which was halloeen i dont start the threads i only reply out of good manners stew we are trying to do our best and bring you all somerhing different i know more than anyone you cant please all of the people all of the time but we do try, please forgive me for being proud of what we have acheived to bring these pproducts to you all. nobody moans when gumpy grouse or hoots etc or waterfront advertise only all directed at me, i enjoy all of your company as it helps me unwind but i do take it seriously enough to refrain. hope you are both well and i do take your comments on board thank you lilli

mikelapta



Joined: 20/11/2008
Posts: 2186

Message Posted:
07/12/2008 19:35

better change my name then.No wonder not getting any dates!!!

Lilli



Joined: 21/07/2008
Posts: 13081

Message Posted:
07/12/2008 19:49

mikie you and me both love xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx

smithy


Joined: 17/07/2008
Posts: 5301

Message Posted:
07/12/2008 20:20

I said never shorten a name Michael

keithcaley



Joined: 13/06/2008
Posts: 2521

Message Posted:
07/12/2008 20:22

Mike,

it might be more to do with

"Never pass a toilet, Never trust a fart, Never waste an erection."

I remember thinking "he's a smooth talking Bast@rd!"

Keith.

Lilli



Joined: 21/07/2008
Posts: 13081

Message Posted:
07/12/2008 20:28

i agree from now on my name is ELIZAETH BUT YOu all know me by lilli short for lillibet my sisters name for me which stuck, call me by any name and i wll answer your call

smithy


Joined: 17/07/2008
Posts: 5301

Message Posted:
07/12/2008 20:30

I always you knew you were Royalty Lilli

Lilli



Joined: 21/07/2008
Posts: 13081

Message Posted:
07/12/2008 20:31

hiya do you remember who said it cos h had it right xxxxxxx

Lilli



Joined: 21/07/2008
Posts: 13081

Message Posted:
07/12/2008 21:06

h smithy i guess i did too wish i had the benefits of being a princeessnbut not to be treated like one i wish start a fund for me botox fillers whatever it takes girl make me feel like a woman oh well on the xmas list how are you have you sold your items, can i wish you all the very best from my heart i hope you and your family have a good xmas

smithy


Joined: 17/07/2008
Posts: 5301

Message Posted:
07/12/2008 21:25

Hi Lilli

Not sold the sofa bed as yet, someone has just rang but over here they want things for nothing, so will wait and see. This is the first year without my granddaughters so I'm pretty sad about them moving to Thailand where their daddy works, but a week in the UK will do me good, many thanks for your good wishes, and I will meet up with you very soon.

Smithy (Sheila) dont think there is a princess named Sheila, but hey who cares

mikelapta



Joined: 20/11/2008
Posts: 2186

Message Posted:
07/12/2008 22:05

Hi Keith,still got your memory eh?Loving been here in TRNC..and you?