withdrawing from the forum

adagirl


Joined: 01/06/2009
Posts: 371

Message Posted:
11/12/2009 23:54

I will no longer post or receive emails from this forum due to acute embarassment from a dirty old man

TimothyCadman


Joined: 13/12/2007
Posts: 1040

Message Posted:
12/12/2009 00:46

You can't just leave it at that. You've got to dish the evidence and name and shame the culprit....otherwise he's won! The bully succeeds. Who will be his next vicitm?

Stand up and fight your corner.

Tiggy


Joined: 25/07/2007
Posts: 1994

Message Posted:
12/12/2009 01:16

Not me.....I'm not old.



Take no notice adagirl.

Jeannie


Joined: 04/08/2009
Posts: 3283

Message Posted:
12/12/2009 01:34

adagirl - on a serious note here. Are you saying you've had an off board e-mail from some pervert? I assume this to be the case (?wrongly/rightly?). I do not wish to pry into your private life, but what the hell has happened?

If this is the case, I feel very sorry for you -I always feel I know you, since we brought all of our stuff from Botanica over the years.



Please le me know if I can help in any way, or, of course, the Mods will help out here.



Hope you'll be OK



Jean

flightholiday


Joined: 19/07/2007
Posts: 3217

Message Posted:
12/12/2009 02:25

Don't give in to him - don't leave

Jeannie


Joined: 04/08/2009
Posts: 3283

Message Posted:
12/12/2009 02:34

Tom - message 5 - too right. Adagirl - I love your posts, don't leave, please.



Hopefully speak tomorrow?



J



xxxxx

simbas



Joined: 16/07/2007
Posts: 5943

Message Posted:
12/12/2009 04:11

Good morning Adagirl , i have sent you an e-mail , please read it

Regards , Simbas

Teresa


Joined: 21/11/2007
Posts: 1018

Message Posted:
12/12/2009 06:40

Adagirl please dont give in to this idiot whoever he is. If he is a board member then please report him to one of the admins.

elko2



Joined: 24/07/2007
Posts: 4400

Message Posted:
12/12/2009 07:17

I think the answer is here: http://www.cyprus44.com/forums/27656.asp

msgs. 13,14 and 15.

ismet

smithy


Joined: 17/07/2008
Posts: 5301

Message Posted:
12/12/2009 07:24

Hi Tessa (adagirl)

You cant leave the forum because of someone saying things they shouldnt do especially on the forum for everyone to read, rise above it you are better than that.

Also we will miss your imput, think again please, chin up

Sheila

negativenick


Joined: 10/11/2008
Posts: 6023

Message Posted:
12/12/2009 07:44

"dough be sa saft, girl" as me old uncle Percy used to say....

smithy


Joined: 17/07/2008
Posts: 5301

Message Posted:
12/12/2009 07:47

You uncle percy said a lot NN )

mikelapta



Joined: 20/11/2008
Posts: 2186

Message Posted:
12/12/2009 07:58

I know I am "that dirty old man"quote.

I have posted 3 forums in the last few days,about my cats,snake in the pool,and a MALE friend wanting to join this board.

Each posting has been vilified by Adagirl in particular.

The postings were genuine and helpful,and did not deserve such attacks.

I cannot accept that I deserve such treatment.

So,Adagirl if you concentrated on the postings instead of insulting me,then we would both enjoy this forum.

Mike

DutchCrusader



Joined: 19/05/2008
Posts: 11281

Message Posted:
12/12/2009 09:07

Peace on earth, Merry Christmas and all that...

mikelapta



Joined: 20/11/2008
Posts: 2186

Message Posted:
12/12/2009 09:11

DC I agree.

Mike

denizen



Joined: 21/08/2009
Posts: 388

Message Posted:
12/12/2009 09:18

msg 9; thanks for the input, Elko, the mud becomes clearer now.



D

skybluesam


Joined: 24/12/2008
Posts: 447

Message Posted:
12/12/2009 09:33

Tessa, Please dont leave!, who is going to buy all my "stuff" then?

Nick

Brinsley


Joined: 04/04/2009
Posts: 6858

Message Posted:
12/12/2009 11:27

Msg 1

'Dirty old man'. What's the point of being old if you can't be dirty?!



Richard

taraspring


Joined: 25/01/2009
Posts: 571

Message Posted:
12/12/2009 19:28

Tessa - ignore him and forward the email to admin for them to deal with it.

Tx



Keep your chin up and dont let this spoil your enjoyment.

mikelapta



Joined: 20/11/2008
Posts: 2186

Message Posted:
12/12/2009 20:14

Tessa,I am more than pleased for you to publish my email to you.

Mike

DutchCrusader



Joined: 19/05/2008
Posts: 11281

Message Posted:
12/12/2009 20:17

RE msg 20, mikelapta: (...) Tessa,I am more than pleased for you to publish my email to you. (...)

=> Mike, even an apprentice gentleman wouldn't do that.

Seamus


Joined: 17/03/2008
Posts: 28

Message Posted:
12/12/2009 20:26

Life is a a game - a cruel game.



La vie c'est un jeu - un jeu cruelle -n'est pas



Move on - we have only one life on this planet - time is too short for such idiosyncrasy



Jonathan

cyprusjoker


Joined: 29/08/2009
Posts: 1107

Message Posted:
12/12/2009 23:50

What a load of crap, will someone close this topic. Mike, i hope you find what your looking for, and you too adagirl..

harita


Joined: 14/08/2008
Posts: 1343

Message Posted:
13/12/2009 00:54

Message 17 .. Tessa, Please dont leave!, who is going to buy all my "stuff" then?



What are you selling Nick ..

boglefan



Joined: 07/06/2009
Posts: 511

Message Posted:
13/12/2009 02:47

Adagirl, sh*t happens. I don't always agree with your views but hey ho life would be sad if we all shared the same things in life but that is the beauty of the Forum we can agree to disagree and hopefully if or when we meet we will agree to disagree.

Be bigger that the c**p stay on the Forum your thoughts and input are necessary.

Irene.

MsGarnet


Joined: 04/01/2009
Posts: 989

Message Posted:
13/12/2009 04:05

adagirl - if someone has sent derogatory or unpleasant remarks to you - it speaks volumes about them, and says nothing about you - treat it with the contempt it deserves and leave it behind - otherwise you have let them win............whether you post or not, won't affect them - it will only affect you - so don't let it, and keep posting - I would...........

denizen



Joined: 21/08/2009
Posts: 388

Message Posted:
13/12/2009 08:10

msg 1: did you receive an e-mail from Mike, or have you taken offence to his postings, or ripostes?

You haven't actually made this clear, merely alluded to.



D

BigMart


Joined: 26/02/2009
Posts: 423

Message Posted:
13/12/2009 09:24

If you are going to leave the forum then just leave !



There is no need to come on here and tell everyone, it seems to me like you are actually fishing for compliments of the 'please don't go you are such a lovely person' type.



I'm standing by for all the flack, people don't seem to like the truth being told.

eager


Joined: 23/02/2007
Posts: 1272

Message Posted:
13/12/2009 10:27

After reading the link in msg 9 and Mike's reply in msg 20 it would seem to me that adgirl is out of order, Mike has asked you to publish the so called offending e-mail but as yet you have not done so. very very wrong to make accusations against someone on a public forum unless you are prepared to divulge the facts. From reading these postings for a while now its obvious that Mike has at times made a bit of a hash of things regarding certain postings but what you are doing now is a far more serious thing. Either publish the facts or be quiet please, defamation of character is not something to be done lightly.

henrik



Joined: 01/10/2009
Posts: 314

Message Posted:
13/12/2009 12:46

sorry, either I go and be silent, or stay and discuss about the issue anoying you. But is this issue woth discussing? anyhow. whatever. not woth writing to much about. Bye or wellcome. whatever.

TheSaints



Joined: 28/01/2009
Posts: 1369

Message Posted:
13/12/2009 13:20

This kind of post has been used quite frequently over the last year mostly by people who seemed to want testament to thier popularity as they never left Turtle is the only one that comes to mid who actually said I am leaving and he did.

Grow up and just go it is no use fishing for sympathy any more it has started to get boring.

TheSaints



Joined: 28/01/2009
Posts: 1369

Message Posted:
13/12/2009 14:59

SC



Naw that would be out of order, they have had thier stroking session and feel wanted and are back into mid stream, maybe it is better to leave em alone or one or two may spit the dummy out and we will have to go through the whole process again......

BigMart


Joined: 26/02/2009
Posts: 423

Message Posted:
13/12/2009 15:02

Non of the 'you are such a lovely person' brigade are rising to the bait, I wonder why that is ?

bachelibelly


Joined: 04/09/2008
Posts: 275

Message Posted:
13/12/2009 15:07

Yes lets ava another pole , i avent ad a good dance in ages lol , god if i worried about all the people i had upset over the years , mainly by them getting the wrong end of a very proverbial stick then i wouldnt have time to upset any more ,too much to do ,tooo short and these post do cause me to LMAO ,allegedly of course lol ,regds to all and wish you lots of festering joy and a stress free new year.

TopTen


Joined: 15/04/2009
Posts: 1246

Message Posted:
13/12/2009 16:30

Totaly agree with Saints message 31 if you dish it be prepared to take it, unless this person is being threatening then whats your problem if you dont want to post dont its that simple but methinks your trying to recruit a lynch mob to persecute someone you dont like.

skybluesam


Joined: 24/12/2008
Posts: 447

Message Posted:
13/12/2009 19:09

Harry, Rather, What have I already sold! Merry Christmas.

harita


Joined: 14/08/2008
Posts: 1343

Message Posted:
13/12/2009 20:47

????? .. Merry Christmas Nick

sienna


Joined: 09/01/2009
Posts: 1627

Message Posted:
13/12/2009 21:45

oh for godsake someone pick the dolly up from out the pram

measey


Joined: 07/02/2009
Posts: 1037

Message Posted:
14/12/2009 10:55

lets keep standards up old man.

simbas



Joined: 16/07/2007
Posts: 5943

Message Posted:
14/12/2009 12:00

People leave , then come back as someone else ?? ring a bell anyone ?

Simbas

joandjelly


Joined: 24/02/2008
Posts: 2953

Message Posted:
14/12/2009 13:29

It's a secret Simbas!!